30 Oct How Do You Overcome Judgment? | Archive 11/21/10
Reality: I am not God. Fear of speaking up. Judgment: Feeling like nothing. Following the world. “Big Mama” Oprah! Ice cream escape!
Archive Sunday Service, November 21, 2010
|| See clips, links, and notes below.
TIMESTAMPS
- (00:00) Intro / Welcome
- (00:47) Weird: Nothing I planned … Judgmental man
- (05:01) What reality is: I am not God
- (07:06) Go to your spouse to apologize?
- (08:27) Stubborn, judging, identifying with thoughts in “prayer”
- (10:00) What should our mindset be? Couldn’t speak up to sister
- (18:21) Why not have your husband deal with her?
- (21:40) Story: Young lady going through Hell. Why don’t parents let children suffer?
- (24:07) Q: Judgment messes with your life
- (31:14) Once-popular guy: God is not with you judging yourself
- (35:16) When I felt the pain of nothingness
- (36:42) Hearing the word “realize…” won’t set you free; can’t imagine the change
- (42:21) Using things to build “self-esteem”: BET show for black women
- (45:50) Story: Nice lady called JLP on radio, was angry at Jesse
- (46:55) Children of God using the world’s fancy sayings: “her body, her choice”
- (49:01) World tells parents: You can’t tell your kid what to do
- (49:34) Raymond: Judgment, building “self-esteem,” parents
- (50:55) JLP WND article on “Big Mama” Oprah: Tyler Perry, Ricky Martin
- (53:24) Email: Not judging self for eating ice cream: An escape from hate
- (57:58) Still haven’t forgiven… Closing
MUSIC: “Changes” (unreleased track) by Jon Parfitt / Bright Lights
CLIPS
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TIMESTAMPS (Extensive)
- (00:00) Intro / Welcome
- (00:47) Weird: Nothing I planned
- (01:41) Judgmental father, husband
- (05:01) What reality is: I am not God
- (07:06) Go to your spouse to apologize?
- (08:27) Stubborn egos, hard to realize reality
- (09:01) Judging and identifying with thoughts even in “prayer”
- (10:00) Saying “I can’t help myself” doesn’t work
- (10:49) What should mindset be?
- (11:00) When God changed JLP’s mind, heart
- (12:50) Problem with older sister
- (14:35) Habit of hurting, weakening people
- (15:46) Finally spoke up to sister
- (16:27) Not speaking up, holding a person back
- (17:45) Sister’s a know-it-all, a cover-up
- (18:21) Why not have husband deal with her?
- (18:54) A man’s responsibility to stand up for his wife
- (19:30) A real man wouldn’t let his wife tell him what not to do
- (20:32) No honesty, no relationship with your sister
- (21:26) I like freedom, perfect peace
- (21:40) Story: Young lady going through hell
- (22:24) Women/”men like women” won’t let you suffer
- (22:39) Best to let them suffer
- (23:12) Why do parents do that to their children, Ed?
- (24:07) Q: Each person’s reality: habits, judgment, out of the moment
- (25:28) Realize you’re not God
- (28:34) Judging my wife, damaging, what about judging self
- (30:03) Judgment cuts you off from appreciation
- (30:26) Judging at work
- (31:14) Popular guy judged himself
- (31:35) When you’re popular
- (32:38) God not with you when you judge yourself
- (33:15) Unconscious, judging everything
- (33:37) Feelings of greatness stripped away, feeling like nothing
- (34:43) Feeling like nothing
- (35:16) When I felt the pain of nothingness
- (35:41) Most want more of what they had, not God… judging yourself
- (36:42) Hearing the word “realize…” won’t set you free
- (38:30) It takes desperation?
- (39:24) Cannot imagine the change
- (40:19) Pure love
- (40:49) “I’m nothing”
- (42:21) Using things to build “self-esteem”
- (43:34) BET show for black women
- (44:28) These women all phony, not going to make them better! Spirit. Being born again
- (45:10) When you’re old, you’ll be an old fool
- (45:37) Let them judge you
- (45:50) Story: Nice lady called on radio: Was angry at Jesse
- (46:55) Children of God using the world’s fancy sayings. Abortion “right”
- (48:18) Even preachers say, “her body, her choice”
- (48:30) She tells her son to speak on right and wrong
- (49:01) World tells parents you can’t tell your kid what to do
- (49:22) Parents let the world tell them
- (49:34) Raymond: Judgment, building “self-esteem,” tempted as children to pride
- (49:55) Parents train kids wrong, set them up
- (50:38) You must be born again, so parents see by the light. Not emotions
- (50:55) JLP article on Oprah in WND
- (51:11) WND: Men going to Big Mama Oprah
- (51:20) A man should never, ever, ever
- (51:46) Like Christ crying to Oprah
- (51:59) It’s not set up that way
- (52:08) Ricky Martin on Oprah: Everybody come out of the closet!
- (52:30) 200 men crying to big mama
- (52:42) Never supposed to let wife see you weak: Worst thing!
- (53:12) Feminized world. Masculinity not important anymore
- (53:24) Email: Not judging self for eating ice cream
- (53:46) I used to eat ice cream when I felt like nothing
- (54:21) My favorite ice creams, peanuts, strawberry pop
- (55:34) I became a fat pig
- (55:39) I learned to sit quietly, do nothing about it
- (56:06) I used it to escape. Anger, judgment, the more I judged myself, using it more;
- (56:52) God took away anger: Most hate parents, mostly mothers first
- (57:58) Make sense, Wayne?
- (58:06) Have you forgiven? Hard to forgive?
- (59:21) Closing
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