If You Never Judged Yourself Again? | BOND 10/4/26
CHURCH: Lazy people's minds lie. Switch personalities? Devil does people. Angry victim demands. Hamster wheel. Clear mind, calm wisdom. Worried men. Afraid of wives? If you never judged yourself?
Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, October 4, 2026
📖 Biblical Question (BQ): What would happen to you if you never felt good or bad about your emotions or yourself?
📖 NEW BQ: Have you noticed that you have a repetitious life? Why is it?
📝 Assignment: Put no demands on anyone for a week.
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TIMESTAMPS
- (0:00:00) Small talk (off-mic). Welcome. It's hot!
- (0:04:48) How the mind works: Jesse's gavel. Lazy people. AI?
- (0:12:20) Have mood swings, switch personalities? 78yo "mama's boy"
- (0:20:50) Jesse's different personalities. Bubbly at work? Reserved. Angry.
- (0:32:40) Want nothing. Be one. Mercy to others, not self?
- (0:40:20) Devil doing people, I shed a tear. Angry thrill victims
- (0:46:05) Creating victims. Just a thought. Hamster wheel
- (0:53:10) Cloudy mind, clear. No demands. Christ: Love
- (1:02:20) Thinking. “Obey.” Calm wisdom. Can’t help anyone
- (1:10:50) She’s different with her husband now. Kids jealous.
- (1:23:30) One thought is overthinking. Worried sick. Identity.
- (1:30:55) Guilt; mad that parents moved; protect wife’s feelings? Afraid?
- (1:41:10) BQ: If you never felt good or bad about emotions, self
- (1:47:24) BQ: On the phone, popping gum: Mimi, others
- (1:55:22) Assignment: No demands. JLP on BQ: Can’t imagine.
CLIPS
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CHURCH NOTES 10/4/26
📖 Biblical Question (BQ): What would happen to you if you never felt good or bad about your emotions or yourself?
📖 NEW BQ: Have you noticed that you have a repetitious life? Why is it?
📝 Assignment: Put no demands on anyone for a week.
JLP Notes Week 9/28 - 10/2/26
Have you noticed that you have a repetitious life? Do you know why that is? (JLP Fri 10/2/26)
Which is easier to accept after complaining: "I understand," or, "You're lost"? (JLP Fri 10/2/26)
As a victim, you put demands on the world. Give up demands for one day. (JLP Thu 10/1/26)
As a victim, you are being used for others' ego. Not a victim, but a liar and evil. Don't you know God's in control? (JLP Wed 9/30/26)
Aren't you tired of trying to win? Rat race. Everybody's losing. No one wins. Afraid of winning & losing. (JLP Tue 9/29/26)
John 12: 25 - He who loves his life will lose it. (JLP Mon 9/28/26)
Don't want for anything, explained. (JLP Mon 9/28/26)
Welcome
(0:00:00) AWKWARD START (0:02:51) We're back (0:03:38) Intro (0:03:56) Welcome. it's HOT out
01 - How the mind works: e.g., this gavel… AI
(0:04:44) How the mind works
(0:05:02) (Delay) all kinds of stories about this gavel.
(0:06:44) Anyone done that? Create stories and think you're right? Sam thought it was a prop; Doug…
(0:08:27) Lazy people don't care about themselves enough to question their thoughts
(0:09:05) Damn, I can't think of one … interrupt the thought.
(0:10:36) Andrew assumed AI would take his job
02 - Mood swings, switch personalities? 78yo "mama's boy"
(0:12:20) How many have mood swings, different personalities.
(0:14:35) Why are you like that at 78?
(0:15:17) Speak into the mic. Forgiven mother?
(0:16:25) Father didn't like you because you were a mama's boy.
(0:17:38) Have kids?
(0:18:22) Forgive your mama … get a grip on dating life. //
(0:18:48) Who else has several personalities? Happy grandma, serious with mother, party personality with friends.
(0:19:38) Another man
2B - Jesse's different personalities
(0:20:44) Jesse remembers church personality, dating personality…
(0:21:57) Sha reserved at work, bubbly away from work.
(0:25:27) She relates. Another gal angry at work.
(0:27:43) Why not the same all the time? Like God? Back to Sha.
(0:28:32) God flooded the earth?
(0:29:10) Loud scratch audio.
(0:29:51) Why do you want respect?
(0:30:44) How would they see something different about you? How can you help the lost if your light is not shining at work.
(0:31:45) Church, home, friends … Kurt
2C - Want nothing. Be ONE. Be whole.
(0:32:36) Want respect? If you didnt want anything you wouldn’t switch. You’ll love being one.
(0:34:06) Man omits stuff (0:34:45) Don’t impose
(0:35:06) Vanessa not merciful to herself
(0:36:34) Genesis 45: 5
(0:37:31) How are you merciful with others but not yourself?
(0:38:00) Catch yourself and stop.
(0:39:25) Clear mind
03 - So bad I shed a tear
(0:40:16) Speaking of the mind
(0:41:24) So sad I had to shed a tear
(0:44:07) (Bill doing stuff bad popping.)
(0:44:43) Sons and daughters of God
3B - Creating victims. It’s just a thought. Hamster wheel
(0:46:02) I noticed angry person is a vicious person. Live off thrill of being angry. They love creating victims. Love being a victims!
(0:48:07) It’s just a thought. Sha living in AZ with sister.
(0:50:35) Hamster wheel. Rat turnaround things.
(0:51:51) I used to let my mind spiral and be anxious. Another girl.
3C - cloudy mind, clear mind. No demands on others. Christ: Love
(0:53:08) Cloudy mind, clear mind.
(0:53:42) Men try to appease wives.
(0:54:46) Lost. Don’t judge them.
(0:55:12) Stop being a victim, stop imposing and putting demand on other.
(0:56:03) Don’t demand anything from anyone.
(0:57:21) Christ told you how to be free yourself.
(0:58:14) Imagine loving everybody.
(0:59:45) Jesse mocking the relationship dating delusion
(1:00:30) Ever fought God for love?
(1:01:16) Man and woman on their marriage
3D - Thinking back into hell. Responsible. Calm. Wisdom. Can’t help anyone
(1:02:20) The minute you thought it’s gonna work, or I’m in the light, you go back into hell. There is no thinking!
(1:04:19) The more you calm down the more wisdom comes
(1:05:21) Wisdom will come
(1:06:19) Raymond
(1:07:10) JLP: I cannot help anyone. Women got it bad. Men you can’t help your wife! The Source will help them. If they want it.
(1:10:02) They’re not mad you rejected them. It’s a thrill. No excuse being homeless, afraid, you want it.
04 - She’s different with her husband now
(1:10:50) Lady, Jesse
(1:12:14) Lady more: I don’t feel like going.
(1:13:16) He loved being around me now.
(1:14:04) JLP: Nothing worse than a wife who says he drinks too much. She’d just ignore him.
(1:14:50) JLP: Never ask a person what’s wrong. “Nothin’.” Kids jealous. Husband appreciated Jesse.
4B - Taught lies about life
(1:18:55) Sam interpreting
(1:20:14) JLP: Everything you’ve ever been taught about life — wrong. Nothing but lies.
(1:22:18) Gay — feeling guilty you’re not married.
(1:23:21) Our parents hate us!
4C - One thought is overthinking. Stay present.
(1:23:30) Update me! Go with one thought — overthinking already!
(1:25:15) Randy continues — fallen ill twice in 30 days.
(1:27:45) Nothing or no one is a big deal. Let go of fears? What a beta. He was praying “meditation… going deep.” Trauma event became an identity.
(1:30:31) JLP: All thoughts lies
4D - Guilt, parents moved, protect wife’s feelings? Afraid of wife?
(1:30:55) Vanessa’s husband … guilt.
(1:32:39) Not responsible for other family members. Resented parents moving to AZ. He thought it was selfish.
(1:37:15) They’re not your parents anymore just random people. Afraid of your wife? Umm. No? Scared?
(1:39:50) JLP: you don’t pray to a god that you don’t believe in?
(1:40:22) Randy: I was. Not anymore. Afraid of wife?
05 - BQ: If you never felt good or bad about emotions, self
(1:41:09) Alyssa was in her head afraid to speak b/c of others thoughts, what she thought others thoughts were.
(1:42:17) Man on BQ…
(1:45:52) First name?
(1:46:57) Raymond
(1:47:24) What if you never got on the phone or popped gum? Mimi
(1:49:49) Another guy
(1:50:25) Anchor Baby
(1:50:51) JLP... Lily
(1:51:28) Another man
(1:52:13) Andrew: I'd be an individual.
(1:52:43) Doug, “quick” story
(1:54:31) Hake: I’d be normal.
06 - Assignment: No demands. JLP on BQ: You can't imagine.
(1:55:22) 📝 Assignment: Put no demands on anyone for a week.
(1:56:20) JLP on BQ: You cannot imagine. Thoughts would define what it means.
(1:59:47) Making fun of Hake laying down for his show. New BQ.
(2:00:24) Stay watching. Never judging.
(2:02:00) Amazing men’s forum. Love yourself enough to work on you.
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📖 Biblical Question (BQ): What would happen to you if you never felt good or bad about your emotions or yourself?
📖 NEW BQ: Have you noticed that you have a repetitious life? Why is it?
📝 Assignment: Put no demands on anyone for a week.
REMINDERS / Assignments…
- 2026 Theme: Endurance (since Church 1/4/26)
- 2026 Assignment: Be a doormat. (since Church 12/28/25)
- Rise to the 3rd, 30th, 50th or 100th floor, out of the basement (Church 2/15/26)
- Give up demands for a day. For victims (JLP Thu 10/1/26)
- Practice self-interruption. (Write it down. JLP Tue 9/15/26; Women's Forum 9/17/26)
- Don't get angry or argue with your wife. (Men's History, JLP Mon 8/3/26)
- Catch the waves of pain. (Church 8/2/26)
- Be a thought watcher. (JLP Mon 4/20/26)
- Resist anger. (Church 3/29/26, Church 4/5/26)
- Don't think about you at all this week. (Church 3/8/26)
- Keep your mind where your body is, for one week. (After Church 3/1/26)
- Next time you cry, check yourself. (Church 3/1/26)
- Watch the Devil in you. (Church 2/1/26)
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