06 Apr How can you change your future? | Church 4/6/25
Talk to us. What did he say? She told her brother’s business! How do you be in the world and not of it? How can you change your future?
Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, April 6, 2025
|| See clips, links, and notes below.
TIMESTAMPS
- (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk: Accents
- (0:02:35) Track meet stabbing…
- (0:07:38) Tell us about you… What’d she/he say?
- (0:21:38) Betrayed my brother’s confidence …
- (0:48:09) Christianity turned anti-Christ …
- (1:00:37) Q: In the world and not of it?
- (1:08:43) How do I watch the thoughts?
- (1:12:18) How do you feel about the Christians?
- (1:19:00) Telling it…
- (1:24:46) Forgive your mother. “What?”
- (1:42:33) “I think I have forgiven her. I don’t wanna hurt her.”
- (1:50:50) Changing the future… Did you forgive your mother?
- (2:01:54) JLP on BQ… Closing
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Track meet stabbing: Saddest story of the year (5-min) YouTube | Rumble
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Church Notes 4/6/25
In the news this week: Track meet stabbing…
Biblical Question: How can you change your future?
New BQ: Are you a single-minded person?
1 Accents, Welcome, Track stabbing
(0:00:00) Small talk about accents: Pippy Longstalking (sp) and Mary Poppins… (0:02:12) Welcome
(0:02:35) Track meet stabbing: Thoughts?
(0:04:25) JLP: Any woman kill a man for retirement money?
(0:05:30) Jesse’s thoughts on the stabbing… Fathers… Anger, control
Tell us about you, five minutes… What’d she say? Ask her a Q…
(0:07:38) Talk to me/us for five minutes… 11:06… Kim (sp) from Georgia, strong Christian, here with daughter, business owner… Bunion repair. (0:09:31) Cancer survivor, says daughter — don’t help her, mama!
(0:10:06) Man reiterates… Sod… Turf farm… (0:11:22) Ask her a Q… How’d you stumble across Jesse? Husband via YouTube
Man’s turn… How do I enjoy and not get lost in things? TBA
(0:11:53) Speak 5 mins… Ryan… Perfect night. Opera about horrible things. I distract myself to be of the world, and not pray. He relates himself to the rich young ruler…
(0:15:24) Man recounts what he said.
(0:16:24) How do I enjoy things, but not get lost in them? I’ll come back to that…
Dying daily
(0:16:58) Researching stalking… found JLP interview with grandmaster of Santa Monica or something — Freemason? (YouTube: Jesse Lee Peterson Interviews a Freemason Grand Master! (Ep 124) — Also on Rumble) A little about her mother… Dying daily… Creative person… Appreciate this fellowship.
(0:19:49) What’d she say, Colin… That’s it? She said important stuff… How do you die daily? (0:20:56) Casting down imagination, bringing every thought captive… I see the thought as a devil or demon…
2 I told my brother’s business, betraying his confidence
(0:21:38) Southern gal: 5 mins about you — go. … Prayer… Brother told me something, told me not to tell anyone. I listened to thoughts, got afraid, felt someone else should know this. I told my sister about it. She said something to him about it. I took a long look at myself in the mirror…
(0:25:54) Raymond: Trapped in family intrigue… How’d you feel facing your brother about that? Wanted to deny it.
(0:27:46) How should her brother react to her now, knowing she’s an enemy? Young lady says he can have his little mad period.
(0:30:29) Another woman: Learning you shouldn’t trust anybody… Another man: He supports telling it … “A cry for help”… Jesse gives an extreme example: Don’t tell it! (0:35:27) Your friend doesn’t trust you. How many of his secrets have you told?
(0:35:57) Colin: The thrill of telling it… way greater than holding it. The justification is “danger.”
(0:36:35) Kim’s daughter — from Georgia… He didn’t ask for help! Don’t tell it! Listen to what people say. (0:38:07) Do you tell secrets? I really try not to gossip anymore. (0:38:32) Gossip AND trying to help… Satan told you to think about it.
(0:39:40) Anthony’s wife Kat … [BEST THING NOW]
A mother speaks…
(0:41:14) Give us a 5-minute talk. Mother speaks… (0:45:36) Wanting, that keeps you in your hell, wanting something too much.
(0:45:53) What’d she say? In-between stage, longing for a lot of stuff… I don’t really remember. Q? How to you remind yourself to be grateful to break your mindset? [PRESENCE…]
3 Omeed… Christianity is anti-Christ
(0:48:09) Omeed, give us a five-minute talk… Christianity is anti-Christ. He told us that. How separate we all are, even together in this room. Heart of a lot of conflict. Mad about each other’s perceptions. The mind seeks out problems, things to be mad about.
(0:52:15) What’d he say? Cheyenne: How are you similar?
Rochelle…
(0:53:53) Rochelle… Finding God… Found you on YouTube, talking about the blacks. Agreed about that and women. Questions answered with others…. Silent Prayer….
(0:58:32) Alexis… How light and simple life can be. (0:59:51) Do you remember the moment you realized life was easy?
How do you be in the world and not of it? How to enjoy life?
(1:00:37) Ryan again: How do I live in the world and not become of it. Hake answers… Praying without ceasing… not obeying the thought… (1:02:20) Asian guy: Not gaining any identity, like a really good song… (1:03:29) Omeed… Aspirations… never turns out how you picture it. (1:05:14) Anthony: not being identified, enjoy in the present, and let it go… (1:06:05) Rachel…
4 How do I watch the thoughts? Enjoying things
(1:08:43) Young lady speaks about driving, getting lost in thoughts… (1:09:24) Jesse responds… How do I watch the thoughts?
(1:10:30) JLP: God created things for us to enjoy… but not to be so you can’t wait to get back to it. JLP sings: I’m in love with Mary Jane. (1:11:32) Give up everything you have and follow me. You can take it or leave it.
5 How should we feel about Christians? Telling it
(1:12:18) How should we think about Christians? (1:14:56) For the third or fourth or so time: How do you feel about Christians? She’s 24. … Good and bad Christians … You smoke pot? “Not anymore…”
(1:16:35) Vanessa: How should we feel about the Christians? No different from how we feel about anyone else. You’re judging the Christians! (1:17:41) If you believe in Jesus you’re not a Christian (something like that…)
(1:18:26) Omeed doesn’t label himself as Christian, but believes in Jesus. Hake talks about the Southern gal’s brother (1:19:42) JLP: You can never be a counselor. You’re not gonna be able to hold it. A man shouldn’t tell a woman anyway! She can’t hold it!
(1:20:32) Kat: Room for overcoming and forgiveness.
(1:21:08) The Danish couple gives feedback…
5B A no-thinking life
(1:22:56) To the mother: You want a no-thinking life… Hake makes a brief point: “Cast all your cares upon Him…”
6 Have you forgiven your mother?
(1:24:46) First-timer: Have you forgiven your mother? I don’t talk to my Southern gal friend about family stuff. Has she told you you need to drop your anger?
(1:27:13) I have a right to be mad, but not for so long. When something bothers me, I express anger. You like doing that? No. Makes me feel out-of-control.
(1:28:23) Is anger a natural — a normal or abnormal emotion? Idk that much info on emotions… (1:29:20) I wanna regulate my emotions…
Being like mama
(1:30:04) How do you feel being like your mother? How did you become like her? “What?” I’m confused right now. (1:30:46) You don’t wanna be like her, but you became like her anyway. “That’s just the way it is…”
(1:32:02) Would you rather be you or like your mother? “I’m still tryna figure out who I am.” Do you wanna be you? Yes. Forgive your mother for recreating you in her image. Imposed will, controlling, or too mothering… She could not help herself.
Father…
(1:34:17) Did your father help you when you asked him to help you deal with her? Never asked him — not the relationship I had.
(1:35:32) … Perfect peace. Otherwise you’ll have hell…. Forgive: You’ll shake in your boots … Do that, and you’ll be fine. You’ll LOVE being you. When you were a little girl, you were free, but when you became angry… Anger is evil.
(1:37:00) Makes sense… (1:38:06) Have a talk with your father too …
(1:38:45) It’s not black-and-white easy to talk with them … FaceTime with them? (1:39:32) Confess your sins: Admit you’re wrong for being angry.
(1:40:13) Southern gal: I didn’t wanna feel like I was tryna save her.
6B The sister whose brother shouldn’t trust her.
(1:40:55) Brother should never trust you again. Southern gal — her sister yappin’ at her.
(1:41:54) Stop being mad at your boyfriend. I don’t have one. Why not?
7 Georgia gal: “I think I have forgiven her”
(1:42:33) Georgia daughter: Have you forgiven your mother? Why haven’t you? Work in progress? (1:44:41) How do you say you love her when you really can’t stand her? (1:45:50) I had to smoke pot! Forgive your father… You were spittin’ facts… Every human being on earth has the same problem: They will not forgive. Every mother on earth screws up their children. Even Jesus’ mama…
(1:48:25) Father’s afraid of her! Even the cat!
To the black girl (1:49:18) Do the Silent Prayer. All angry people live in their thoughts. And to the white girl: Don’t tip toe. Don’t try to avoid hurting her feelings.
(1:50:30) All your praying to the Devil …
8 Changing the future …
(1:50:50) Danish man: God knows our hearts. Mention of the BQ… (1:51:38) JLP: When you go into your thoughts, you change things. They really think they’re a woman, because they have their mother’s spirit.
(1:52:58) All people have chosen evil because of the hell from their mothers — they didn’t choose it, or did without being aware of what they were doing. All been traumatized by mothers.
(1:53:29) The Danish fiancée / “married lady” … If you don’t forgive your earthly father, you’ll never know God.
(1:54:42) When she’s crying, she’s lying
(1:55:02) Did you forgive your mother? Man: Bible thumper mother… Most men and women don’t hate their fathers. (1:56:31) Q… Last year’s theme: Want for nothing. I don’t want what’s right. But you do. Stay with it, and the Truth, God, will cause you to want Him. We can’t make ourselves want it. Stay with it.
(1:58:40) Another man: Did you forgive your mama? … (2:00:14) Did you know you’re a woman? What do you feel? I feel bad for her. You’re not God! Beta! … Stop being a coward, man! Shake in your boots, if you want to be free. … What?
8B Change your future (BQ)
(2:01:54) BQ: How can you change your future? Raymond. JLP: If you wanna, change your thoughts, your mind. Counseling, crying: Stop thinking about it. It’s the thoughts. … Bye!
REMINDERS…
- 2025 theme/assignment: Practice being present.
- 2024 theme: Want for nothing.
- 2024 assignment: Don’t let the thoughts bully you.
- 10/13/24 Daily Assignment: 24hrs: Don’t judge with words, looks, emotions, or thoughts.
- 8/25/24 Assignment: For one week, let the only evil you think of be your own.
- 8/25/24 try this: Never argue — with anyone.
- 9/1/24 Assignment: Completely surrender to thoughts. Feel it. Take the pain.
- 9/1/24 Assignment for Southern gal: For one week, don’t argue with anyone.
- 9-8-24 and 9-15-24 assignment: Don’t trust the thought. Let it overwhelm you.
- March 10-17, 2024 assignment: Get rid of your heroes. Trust no one.
- May 19-26, 2024 assignment: If you feel anything, remember: It’s just a thought! No meaning.
- Jun 2-9, 2024 assignment/discussion: Watch the different demons inside you.
- Assignment from JLP show (Thu 6/20/24) Practice staying present.
- Late 2023 assignment: Notice the mind repeats itself, and that it’s all about self.
- Late 2023 assignment: Sit four minutes in your room in silence.
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