26 Jan Do you pay attention to what’s happening to you or in you?
Fathers and children. It’s happening in you, not to you! Fear is not from God. Live a life of no thinking.
Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, January 26, 2025
|| See clips, links, and notes below.
TIMESTAMPS
- (0:00:00) Small talk with a kid… Rain, fires
- (0:02:13) Judgment… My children’s friends
- (0:11:30) Making girls first…
- (0:14:53) Whuppings
- (0:18:48) No anger
- (0:20:24) Slow to speak
- (0:23:44) No politics! Delivery driver
- (0:29:27) JLP: Fathers, have no other God
- (0:40:31) BQ: What’s happening to you or in you?
- (0:49:20) “I go to therapy.” JLP: It’s in you!
- (0:55:03) JLP: Learning… false gods
- (0:59:18) Having/Teaching kids
- (1:04:33) Fear? … Stay with it.
- (1:10:46) Looking like an idiot
- (1:25:07) JLP: Fear, you are your own god
- (1:37:53) Scared, whooping and hollering
- (1:46:43) Smoking, Adultery, No thinking
CLIPS
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Church Notes 1/26/25
Biblical Question: Do you pay attention to what’s happening to you or what’s happening in you?
Welcome: Kid, Fires…
(0:00:00) Small talk with a kid… (0:00:56) Welcome
(0:01:20) It’s raining. Fires still going?
1A Judgment? Unsafe drivers? Children’s friends?
(0:02:13) Any questions?
(0:02:47) Ryan: Judgment: Getting away from an unsafe driver? (0:04:07) JLP: Don’t get into judgment: Thinking all these things…
Wife could leave with another man at the bar… You wouldn’t miss her… (0:06:27) What if you’re happy? Friendships of my children… Daughter’s life direction…
(0:09:09) Your parents couldn’t stop you. Deal with love, not judgment…
1B Making girls first… Bad influences…
(0:11:30) JLP: I feel for you; you don’t care if the boys slutmakers. If it’s a girl, it’s a different story.
(0:11:50) JLP: So you made both girls? What a beta! (0:12:36) Caring what people think in some respects? Related to business, yes…
(0:13:00) Randy: … Don’t you feel sorry for the men making girls first? … (0:13:53) Not that girls are bad! … Randy talks…
1C Whuppings? Punishment? JLP story: Fear of the jab
(0:14:53) JLP story: parents would say: Stay away from that bad-a— child. I’ll whup your butt! (0:15:37) Why don’t you whup them? Randy: I take stuff they’re attached to… without their phone they lose all sense of self… Young man doesn’t trip about a phone, he still has a PS5, etc.
(0:17:19) Afraid of needles, shots: JLP story: … Kids saw my whupping by the principal… Embarrassment. Adults didn’t play around.
(0:18:38) They’ll even fight the teacher!
1D No anger, kids love it
(0:18:48) Mateus (sp) feared his father. Daughter in AZ never called for advice. He’d yell and scream, full of anger. Now she calls… (0:19:56) JLP: Kids love it when you have no anger. Love conquers all…
2A Be slow to speak, quick to hear
(0:20:24) Alexis realized… Better, easier when you shut up. JLP: “Be slow to speak and quick to hear.” … She shares a story…
(0:22:53) JLP: If you pay attention, people don’t say anything!
2B Daddy’s home
(0:23:44) A man brings up the President…
(0:24:34) JLP: It’s like daddy’s home.
2C Delivery driver
(0:25:11) Spend a lot of time alone… Delivery driver, leaving package to be stolen… “Now it’s their problem.” I don’t do that anymore…
(0:27:38) JLP: Is it weird I break out in song? Yes, It’s a sign of being crazy! Normal crazy. It will change.
2D How to be, how to act
(0:28:02) Doug… He black! No politics… (0:28:52) Showing us how to be, how to act…
3 JLP and father separated from children
(0:29:27) Alimony, child support, paying the lawyer, still don’t get what you want… (0:30:05) Child abductions are not child abductions — bitter mamas tripping over 10-mins late! (0:30:38) …JLP: Not one ounce of energy… I wish my son would go back to mama! Leave me alone! Love nothing more than God!
(0:32:45) Man has a settled deal… But you get it, and the kids don’t like you! (0:33:22) JLP: Counseling with a guy… 3yo daughter: “I don’t like you; I’d rather be with my mama.” … She’ll make up stuff!
(0:35:50) JLP: Do what you want! You’re dealing with evil hearts. Man: “I’d like to talk to my kids.” JLP: It’s emotional, all ego, nothing to do with love. (0:37:16) Do what you want! Man: I have a thought that I can fight. JLP: That’s the lie. Why not, don’t cut the baby in half. Give the whole baby to the woman. Leave it there for the rest of your life. Work on you.
God love us. He’ll make it work… Maybe she’ll fall off the porch for you. (0:38:16) God’s not that good. God let my son’s mother die. Then we became friends.
(0:38:57) Fear of her recklessness: Car accident or something! That’s Satan. Lawyers ready for you. All about the money. (0:40:15) It shows a lack of appreciation of money. God gave it to you so you can live…
4A Biblical Q
(0:40:31) Biblical Question… You weren’t working on yourself! We must not forget them…
(0:41:13) … Almost ain’t good enough! I paid attention to both…
(0:42:58) Nigerian lady: Both… (0:43:38) Randy: Only what’s happening in me… (0:44:40) Ryan…
(0:45:11) … Nick: what’s inside now. Fear… (0:46:38) Joel: Seems like nothing’s happening to me — it’s only in me. (0:47:01) Omeed… Life works out. (0:48:16) Doug (0:49:02) Francisco… Yes…
4B I go to therapy … It’s IN you.
(0:49:20) I react to everything going on inside of me… I go to therapy. I have a reaction to everything! She didn’t like that. “Get in touch with your feelings…. You can’t connect to what you’re feeling.” … Did you ask for your money back? I reduced my sessions. Don’t waste your time. Do it the way you see it.
(0:51:00) JLP: No such thing as something happening TO you… It’s happening IN you…
(0:52:40) There is no you. Omeed: I don’t know how to see that. (0:53:07) Another man: People think you’re crazy when you don’t react emotionally.
(0:54:02) JLP advises Omeed… It will be made clear… practice staying present.
4C Educated people, “moral values,” false gods
(0:55:03) Mateus on the lady with the therapist. … (0:55:28) JLP: Educated people are dumb. More degrees, the dumber! I love degree people! … They don’t even love one another!
(0:57:37) … Mary, the Catholic lady… Come down and “confess Jesus.” Confession, that doesn’t work. “Accept Jesus.”
4D Teaching kids
(0:59:18) Biggest lie: You can’t have perfect peace. … moral values, learning, misery… Have children: You do, then they hate you. They lied to us!
(1:00:47) JLP: Let everything go. … You have a false god … Not supposed to teach children that mess.
(1:01:53) To lady: Teach children NOTHING. Be the example. (1:03:10) I’m not ready to have kids… That’s for sure! (1:04:06) … Buy yourself a dog if you need love!
5A Fear?
(1:04:33) Writing a book, BTW… How many have fear? How many don’t? (1:05:12) Big fan, Kevin … public speaking … (1:06:18) First child, girl. “…Beta!”
(1:07:01) How did you overcome fear? … (1:07:31) Mateus (1:08:14) Franky
5B How you see yourself?
(1:08:51) How do you see yourself? Young lady, the girlfriend from some recent Sundays… I have fear… makes you react, see things, do things. JLP: Working on yourself. Stay with it. It’s gonna get harder. So get ready.
5C Fear, worst thing you can have: She looked like an idiot!
(1:10:46) Fear is the worst thing you can have in your life. It’s not given by God. (1:11:11) The Southern gal still has it. … Person made me look like an idiot. I lost it a little bit. I was very apparently bothered. (1:13:00) JLP/gal: I cursed him out in my mind.
(1:13:21) Why did you not want them to see you as an idiot! (1:15:49) JLP: When the thought told you you looked like an idiot. … what a mess
(1:19:01) He’s somebody I consider my friend…
(1:20:12) Don’t come up with any more ideas. Have a “wait-and-see,” but don’t judge him.
(1:21:32) You all Southern, lil tiny body, pretty, everybody think you an idiot, and you smart. You probably wanted to shoot him! It’s all ego.
(1:22:20) “I slipped up.” You were unconscious. God is still with you. Don’t be mad at that boy.
5D Overcome your fear?
(1:23:02) Another young lady: Have you overcome your fear(s)? It takes practice. I notice it now, different from before — i identified with it. Fear from wanting control.
(1:23:54) This preacher … Grasping things, it’s not for us. JLP: The Devil will give you what you want. (1:24:31) The Devil will give you stuff; he can’t save you.
6A JLP on fear, your god
(1:25:07) JLP: Devil… Everybody responds in the same way. Counseling: Because of fear, the men can’t guide their wives. Women won’t obey their husbands.
(1:26:45) JLP: Fear is not from God. You can walk out of your prison. … some alligator’s gonna get you … (1:27:49) JLP: There is no you. Stop worshiping fear, worshiping thoughts, you made your god. “I’m an idiot” — she’s worshiping false gods. THere is no her to want or be embarrassed by anything.
(1:28:37) You can overcome fear by letting fear happen. It’s an illusion. Worshiping fear, you made fear your god. They are their own god: The problem with people today.
(1:29:42) JLP: You are free. Your sins forgiven. You’re not guilty. God is not holding it against you. You think you’re your thoughts and feelings. When you do them, Satan and Satan’s children say you’re guilty! ….
(1:32:59) Your nature will change … [Hake spider web]
(1:34:35) … Friends / fam will pretend to agree with you, because they want gossip. Human beings don’t have love!
(1:36:09) Never trust another person or gossip about another person. … You are your problem
(1:36:53) JLP recounts a mother nodding her head in counseling… You nod even though you don’t agree! Catch evil, catch the thoughts.
6B Whooping and hollering, JLP on fear
(1:37:53) Randy’s wife… Waking up 2, 3, 4 AM, with fear… she did whooping and hollering, and got even more scared! (1:39:48) Demons operating in you… they need a reaction from you to stay alive…
… It’s normal to want to be married, but leave it be!
(1:41:19) To hell with the way somebody treat you! … JLP: It’s a job trying to have a reputation! Think of how many boots you have to lick! (1:42:28) “I’m protecting my reputation,” a press conference — and people still don’t believe you! You are responsible for your world. It’s just thoughts!
(1:43:11) You’re already perfect! You’re not your body! Walk out of the gate of fear today!
(1:43:56) Man: Have some fears, but sit in it, and push through… Go and forgive mama.
(1:44:51) Going through it… Die from the ego… “Don’t go to the meeting.” You’ve never come up with your own idea at all. … Going to the gym… (1:46:23) Shock your body! By not going with the lies!
6C smoking, adultery, no thinking
(1:46:43) I started smoking again, I look all paranoid… JLP demonstrates …
(1:48:20) Lily (sp) on the gym, church… what about committing a very bad sin, and thoughts tell you don’t do it… Like say committing adultery, have you considered your values? I’ve been praying over this.
(1:50:57) JLP: Adultery? Oh, OK! Nice! “That’s not possible.” If you had real love, understanding (1:51:46) JLP: You want a life of no thinking. JLP: The person judging is worse than the one being judged! (1:53:19) “It’s hard.” You’re judging that person. A judger, an angry person is a murderer… “It’s in the 10 Commandments.” Mama, no! (1:54:24) … Is it wrong to judge them? … Small voice: “Yes.”
(1:56:02) Because of their actions, so many people are suffering. But because of you too — you’re judging. You have no love! “I think you are so right.” (1:56:34) JLP: Why is it hard to see you’re so evil?
(1:57:30) Man, Ryan: It’s in the 10 Commandments… That’s for us, not for you to take ‘em and throw ‘em at other people! Amen’s mama!
(1:58:31) Don’t go around town talking about this person.
7 Closing: Walk out of prison; Punchie’s Coffee
(1:58:45) JLP: Have no impression of yourself. Walk out of the prison of fear and anger. Don’t wanna be with me? Fine!
(1:59:53) JLP: God doesn’t care you don’t love him! … People in bad situations, stop playing God by judging yourself. Who are you to judge yourself? Stop it! There’s no self to judge! *clapping*
(2:00:58) Punchie’s Coffee etc https://jesseleepeterson.shop/ … Looking for a social media person…
REMINDERS…
- 2025 theme/assignment: Practice being present.
- 2024 theme: Want for nothing.
- 2024 assignment: Don’t let the thoughts bully you.
- 10/13/24 Daily Assignment: 24hrs: Don’t judge with words, looks, emotions, or thoughts.
- 8/25/24 Assignment: For one week, let the only evil you think of be your own.
- 8/25/24 try this: Never argue — with anyone.
- 9/1/24 Assignment: Completely surrender to thoughts. Feel it. Take the pain.
- 9/1/24 Assignment for Southern gal: For one week, don’t argue with anyone.
- 9-8-24 and 9-15-24 assignment: Don’t trust the thought. Let it overwhelm you.
- March 10-17, 2024 assignment: Get rid of your heroes. Trust no one.
- May 19-26, 2024 assignment: If you feel anything, remember: It’s just a thought! No meaning.
- Jun 2-9, 2024 assignment/discussion: Watch the different demons inside you.
- Assignment from JLP show (Thu 6/20/24) Practice staying present.
- Late 2023 assignment: Notice the mind repeats itself, and that it’s all about self.
- Late 2023 assignment: Sit four minutes in your room in silence.
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