What It Means to Be Whole | Church 5/3/26
Overcome name-calling. Let Judas betray you. Ever mad that others aren't? Is 'helping others' love? What it means to be whole: We are one.
Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, May 3, 2026
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š Biblical Question: Where are you seeking to exert yourself?
š NEW* Biblical Question: Are you aware that there are evil spirits controlling how you think, feel, and act?
š *NEWER Biblical Question (after Church): Do you ever get mad at anyone who disagrees with you? Why or why not?
šļø Men's Forum first Thur, May 7th, 2026, 7pm at BOND, L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events
TIMESTAMPS
(0:00:00) - 00 - Small talk off-mic; Welcome
(0:02:16) - 01 - 'N-word': Subject to words, name-calling
(0:10:45) - 02 - Tell 'Judas' to do it; Thoughts get busy!
(0:21:04) - 03 - People mad you're not! Love is absence of ego
(0:27:30) - 04 - Men stay away. Thoughts are darkness: Walking dead
(0:36:32) - 05 - Doing 'good' things to show 'love'? Make people feel good
(0:43:28) - 5B - Picking up trash for Earth
(0:45:28) - 06 - She 'helps' siblings; Puppy eyes to beta 'husband'?
(0:56:52) - 6B - Want for nothing; Be happy with cornbread and water
(1:04:50) - 07 - Become a whole person? Feedback
(1:07:41) - 7B - JLP: We are one: Every human being is the same
(1:13:57) - 7C - Picking up trash, all ego; Shopping cart return
(1:17:06) - 08 - Guilt, family reunion; How to overcome the Devil, the ego
(1:21:28) - 8B - Strayed; coming back
(1:25:59) - 8C - Sugar's boy; Raymond; JLP: You should want to seek God
(1:30:45) - 8D - Flat Earther?! Clean communities; Work identity; BQ
(1:41:40) - 09 - She had 3 husbands! Drop anger, the Devil: Forgive mother
(1:46:34) - 9B - Daughter, 8, bites nailsā¦ Did this help?
(1:50:25) - 9C - Do you love your husband? Love yourself? Let anger go?
(1:52:53) - 10 - JLP: Don't let the Devil take the truth away from you
(1:56:05) - 10B - New BQ, Closing
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CHURCH NOTES 5/3/26
š Biblical Question: Where are you seeking to exert yourself?
š NEW Biblical Question*: Are you aware that there are evil spirits controlling how you think, feel, and act?
*š NEWER Biblical Question (after Church): Do you ever get mad at anyone who disagrees with you? Why or why not?
šļø Men's Forum first Thurs, May 7th, 2026, 7pm at BOND, L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events
00 - Small talk off-mic; Welcome
(0:00:00) Start (0:01:08) Intro (0:01:21) Welcome
(0:01:43) Lot to sayā¦
01 - Overreaction to a word! "N-word," subject to words
(0:02:16) - Hake Report about the N-word
(0:03:01) Nicaragua ā¦ Hake explains a little
1B - Big head; Cleft lip; Girls; Name-calling
(0:07:49) - I was proud of my big head like my daddy
(0:08:41) - I didnāt want a fat gf ā but a thin one
(0:09:27) - Ever been called the N-word? Rochelle called her it! I call myself it too
(0:10:30) - JLP: Overcome words ā Big Ego if soā¦
02 - Tell 'Judas' to do what she gotta do; Thoughts get busy!
(0:10:45) - Young lady so scared, she trembledā¦ (0:11:54) How do I deal with this family member? As Jesus did: Tell Judas to do what he had to do. Know that story?
(0:12:38) - Jim in Alaskaās wife: Tell them who Judas wasā¦ Disciple who betrayed himā¦
(0:13:09) - JLP: Jesus knew Judas was gonna do it ā bumping fists and everything, having dinner. Go do it now. (0:13:53) - Emergency! Emergency! Thoughts made her think there was something there to protect! (0:14:53) - Shaking in your boots, go if you want ā but donāt not go because of that. She could barely breathe on the wayā¦ Every eye that looked at her, she assumed they were thinking it. She bore it anyway, had a good time. No one asked or brought it up! Finally, she was asked, but it was empty words with no meaning.
(0:16:24) - Finally she realized it was just words to her.
2B - JLP: Light is everything; Thoughts: suicide,
(0:18:36) - Light is everything; Love is something else. What it will do to help you. Thereās no you to be afraid of anything. (0:19:12) - JLP: Now I know why people commit suicide when things happen.
(0:19:58) - Everything they were thinking about the āN-wordā was inside themā¦
(0:20:37) What else? (0:20:51) Assassination attempt was last Saturdayā¦ We talked about it last Sundayā¦
03 - People mad that you're not mad at whom they're mad at
(0:21:04) - Why still support Trump? I told this tall guyā¦ āIf I was a black person, I would beat your aā!ā I said now youāre acting like a black person! WHy you acting like that?
(0:22:36) - Alex: Man cut my hair ā he charged me again after he fixed it, and cut it more ā and I got mad. Buddy didnāt get as mad as me, and told me to let it go. And I got mad at him.
(0:23:17) - JLP: Letās say you get mad at your husbandā¦ (0:24:18) - āEpstein!ā How you gonna tell me what I should be mad at!
(0:24:40) - Wow! Thatās my cousin!
3B - Love the absence of the ego
(0:25:05) - Love is the absence of the ego. When you donāt have egoā¦ all powerfulā¦ Youāve got to die in order to live ā¦ Anyone with ego is of their father the Devil!
(0:26:41) - Devil treats everyone the same way! Everywhere, Ooh, you want rice? All born of the woman must be born of the father.
04 - Men stay away from wives. Thoughts are darkness: Walking dead
(0:27:30) - Daniel: My whole life I never agreed with my mother. Grandmother raised me while parents worked. Grandfather stayed away. (All men stay at work; their kids suffer, though!) Daniel continues: Mother listens to preachers, priestsā¦ (0:28:43) - If you gotta be a Mexican, itās best to be a white one.
(0:29:16) - Jim is anxious to get home. Does she obey you? Wife: I understand what it really means ā not what I originally thought it meant. I understand women anyway.
4B - Positive thoughts are darkness, a segue
(0:30:25) - She asksā¦ Positive thoughts is where the darkness is ā good, happy stuff sucks me back into the negative thoughts, like a segway (sp) maybe segue (yeah, segue).
(0:31:41) - In God, in Truth, there is no thinking ā¦ Sheād think itās what she had to do.
(0:33:02) - The light is everything. Walking dead. (0:33:34) No, they are the walking dead
4C - Practical thinking and No thinking: Only two worlds
(0:34:26) - Two worlds only: (1) No thinking, and (2) practical thinking. (0:35:08) - Practical thinking ā¦
(0:36:06) - JLP: Good both working on yourselves, Jim and wifeā¦
05 - Doing 'good' things to show 'love'? Make people feel good
(0:36:32) - No free will, Jesse asserts with someoneā¦ (0:37:27) - Crying in appreciation (0:37:51) - Lying? Appreciation tears, let it come and go. (0:38:09) - Good things he does. Why do you call them good? Make someone else feel good? āItās love.ā What love?
(0:39:01) - One galās grandma: Make you feel good. To make others feel happy, youāre happy! Thatās a good thing!
(0:39:46) - Daniel: Doing good for people, thatās passing on loveā¦ āRecently, my cousin, he asked me for gas money.ā Oh, you feel good about it! You the sucka! āIf they pay back, Iām not AS dumbā¦ā
(0:41:38) - Boy, 9, says: The other person youāre helping feel happy and want to make others happy.
(0:42:10) - Alexis ā itās nice, but fleeting
5B - Picking up trash for Earth
(0:43:28) - I tear up when I see the Lord working through me ā¦ The Earth likes it. Weāre cells of the Earth, trying to clean up what we live on ā¦ JLP: picking up other peopleās trash! Iām gonna and you to my neighbor! (0:44:38) - Pick up dogsā stuffā¦ (0:45:13) - Nice to see thereās no more trashā¦.
06 - She helps siblings; Puppy eyes to beta 'husband'?
(0:45:28) - The granddaughter: We wanna help others to feel a way, or feel in control. Iām quick to help my siblings ā maybe Iām the fool too. Iām not anymore. Not truly helping them ā doing a disservice. (0:46:40) ā¦ I feel I owe themā¦
(0:47:56) - What do you tell your husband to STOP ā I probably just give him puppy eyesā¦ He gives up. What a beta, huh? āI donāt think heās betaaaa.ā (0:49:01) If heās not alpha, heeeeāsā¦ āBeta.ā (0:49:51) - Why donāt you listen when he says not to help themā¦ Man says: āGuilt.ā Yeah! āProbably guilt and shameā¦ā
6A - Won't obey him! Still gonna marry her?! Not gonna change!
(0:51:26) - If you loved whatās rightā¦ Forgiven mother? ā¦ Heās not my husband YET! ā¦ Why you looking right at him? (0:52:11) - Like those white womenā¦
(0:53:19) - You still gonna marry her? āI donāt think it happens very often.ā She says, āIām very independent, in charge of my family.ā
(0:54:09) - Sheās NOT gonna change! Whatās happening now, is not gonna happen. (0:54:47) - Why donāt you let God change you NOW? āI fall asleep a lot when Iām busy.ā Why do you fall asleep so much? Catch myself and slow down more. Not praying. He is. You about to marry the Devil! (0:55:48) - Put the marriage off for 20 years or so.
6B - Want for nothing; Wife killed husband; Be happy with cornbread and water
(0:56:52) - Any questions? Not wanting anythingā¦ Shall not wantā¦ (0:58:14) ā¦
(1:00:00) JLP story of a woman who killed her rich husband whose mother, he finally told her, controlled his inheritance.
(1:01:37) Be happy with cornbread and water
(1:02:06) - Do you obey your husband? āI try.ā Repeatedā¦ āgetting much better.ā Doā¦ youā¦ obeyā¦ your husband? āI would say now.ā ā¦ That was the devil in your mother that was painfulā¦ (1:04:30) We do the best we can. Right on, Don! Donās wife talking, apparently.
07 - Become a whole person? Everyone is the same, by God
(1:04:50) - Become a whole person: Heard that? Adriana answers ā youāre not thinking, present with mind and body. Why is that necessary? āNot where weāre at ā where we are.ā
(1:06:10) - To be present, says Randy. Wife wanna add to itā¦
(1:07:19) - My daughter if I had one ā¦ Not to compare or judge others.
7B - JLP: Every human being is the same
(1:07:41) - What I didnāt know about being whole ā Every human being is the same. I did not know that! We do have different talents, but I always thought we were different. (1:08:58) - I couldnāt see because I was into thoughts. If someone offended me, I thought they were a nasty person ā I didnāt know they didnāt know what they were doing, that something else, another spirit, makes us think and feel whatever it wants us to think and feel.
Weāre all created by God. (1:09:55) Sons and daughters of God, nothing but love ā but look how we treat each other! ā¦
(1:10:47) - In thoughts, weāre divided, becoming another person, evil, wicked, no love, thinking youāre better or worse than someone else. (1:11:42) - JLP: Because we are one, how we treat others, weāre doing to ourselves.
7C - Picking up trash, all ego; Shopping cart non-return judgment
(1:13:57) - Picking up trash, if you feel one thing about it ā itās all ego. Die from the ego. If they donāt ask for help, donāt help themā¦ Cancer ā¦ fundraisersā¦ (1:15:24) - I didnāt know we are one! All the same.
(1:15:36) - Man had retail spots, picking up trash every time, judging myself when I didnāt do it, and judging others when they didnāt do it ā Iād yell at people for throwing trash on the ground. (1:16:18) - Goes back to the shopping cartā¦ JLP goes on it too ā yāall take āem back! What da!
08 - Guilt, family reunion; How to overcome the Devil, the ego
(1:17:06) - Man opening his eyes, forgave mom ā feels he should forgive his siblings for things heās done to them, take that guilt off his heartā¦
(1:18:05) - If you want to go, go. But not out of obligation or guilt. āI know Iām gonna get a lot of hellā¦ from dad, siblingsā¦ they know Iām trying to be different.ā
(1:18:59) - You test the ego by not listening to it ā donāt go into the fireā¦
(1:21:08) - Be aware of the thoughts, but do NOTHING.
8B - Strayed; coming back
(1:21:28) - I was probably stretching, says a young lady. Where you been? Idaho 4 weeks? Working Sundays. (1:23:04) - JLPā¦ No, you love your hell! āI didnāt see it until I had that time by myselfā¦ kinda sadā¦ strayed away, then came running back to God, b/c thereās no other way.ā (1:24:27) - JLP: Best not to start if youāre not willing to endure to the end. ā¦ (1:25:02) - JLP: The thought of āI made itā is a lie from Satan. Thereās no where to go.
(1:25:19) - Hake asks Mariaās question
8C - Sugar's boy; Raymond; JLP: You should want to seek God
(1:25:59) - Don is Sugarās boy; she has a sister named Sweet. Their mom Uda (sp). Donāt be laughing at my folks!
(1:26:57) - Raymond: Price of true freedom ā¦
(1:27:39) - JLP: You should want to seek God ā not because ā¦
(1:28:13) - Donās wife: Dad died when I was 2 ā¦ Iām getting better at praying, letting things go, and being present. I see the shift. Praise the Lord.
8D - You a Flat Earther?!
(1:30:45) - Man: Pay attention, if your egoās involvedā¦ āClean up the Earthā¦ā (1:31:30) - Are you a flat earther or something? āYeah.ā Iām not judging you! Where in the Bible does it say the Earth is flat?
8E - Let people suffer
(1:33:15) - Love is letting people suffer ā¦
8F - Keep community clean; Round earth
(1:34:09) - Daniel: Why you think white communities are so clean? āIām not considered white.ā And donāt forget it! 60-percent southern European, 30-percent indigenousā¦
(1:35:28) - Jim in Alaska: Totally roundā¦ Neil deGrasse Tyson: two dimes above globe
(1:36:10) - Be conscious.
8G - Laid off: Let go of 'work' identity. No other God.
(1:36:43) - Randy: Update, being laid off took a toll; I got sick. Another identity of āwork,ā dying.
(1:38:14) - JLP: No other god before God ā¦ die from ego, and be healed.
8H - Loving hell, BQ answer
(1:38:55) - Loving my hell, asks Andrew: Nothing I can doā¦
(1:40:53) - Andrew on BQ š Biblical Question: Where are you seeking to exert yourself?
09 - She had 3 husbands! Drop anger, the Devilā¦
(1:41:40) - The grandma been all over the place ā¦ I had 3 husbands (1:42:22) - Never gonna get married again? Life is good? Dropped your anger? ā¦ ānoā¦ You gonna always be angryā¦ Maybe God was lyinā a little bit.ā How old are you? Oh yeah, 80-something ā¦
(1:46:13) - Donāt need another BFā¦
9B - Daughter, 8, bites nailsā¦ Did this help?
(1:46:34) - Daughter bites nails, age 8 ā drop anger, forgive mother ā
(1:47:31) - Randy: Ask whatās on your mind? Children do it to cope. Call it out, donāt make it a big deal. Keep it simple. Donāt say, Oh, your hands are nasty.
(1:48:12) - Did this help? Alex: Everyone dealing with the same thing.
(1:48:30) - First timeā¦ (1:49:24) - Don says challenges never stop coming ā but weāll have a different relationship with how we address it. (1:49:53) - JLP: As we overcome thoughts, they wonāt be challenges. Youāll deal with it without being affected inwardly about it.
9C - Do you love your husband? Love yourself? Let anger go?
(1:50:25) - You love your husband? You took too long to sayā¦ Do you love yourself? ā¦ Why you have to think about it? Thereās a real love? (1:51:19) - You let anger go? Why not?
10 - JLP: Don't let the Devil take the truth away from you
(1:52:53) - What youāve heard is the truth ā¦ Don't let the Devil take the truth away from you ā donāt let other people do it! The lie does not want you to know the truthā¦ It wasnāt my truth ā it was Godās truth. God is the Truth.
10B - New BQ, Closing
(1:56:16) - New BQ š NEW Biblical Question: Are you aware that there are evil spirits controlling how you think, feel, and act?
šļø Men's Forum first Thurs, May 7th, 2026, 7pm at BOND, L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events
REMINDERS / Assignmentsā¦
- 2026 Theme: Endurance (since Church 1/4/26)
- 2026 Assignment: Be a doormat. (since Church 12/28/25)
- Rise to the 3rd, 30th, 50th or 100th floor, out of the basement (Church 2/15/26)
- Be a thought watcher. (JLP Mon 4-20-26)
- Resist anger. (Church 3/29/26, Church 4/5/26)
- Don't think about you at all this week. (Church 3/8/26)
- Keep your mind where your body is, for one week. (After Church 3/1/26)
- Next time you cry, check yourself. (Church 3/1/26)
- Watch the Devil in you. (Church 2/1/26)
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