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Elon Musk’s father: Do not tell a woman your problems, nor if you cheat. Have no leader. Anger is evil. Thoughts bring collisions.

Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, September 29, 2024

Elon Musk’s father, as opposed to complaining men…
A man should never tell a woman his problems, and if he cheats, he should never tell.
Don’t have another person lead you.
You cannot manage anger. It’s evil. Real life documentary horror stories…
Biblical Question: Why is your life one collision after another?

ANNOUNCEMENT: Men’s Forum first Thurs, Oct 3, 2024, 7 PM at BOND in L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/

|| See clips, links, and notes below.

TIMESTAMPS

(0:00:00) Start, Welcome
(0:04:35) Raymond: black representation in media
(0:05:51) Elon Musk daddy: Men never complained or cried
(0:15:57) Don’t tell your wife if you cheat?
(0:27:11) Never complained. Women concerned about getting cheated on?
(0:43:13) Never heard men gossip. No forgiveness from wife.
(0:48:40) Don’t cheat. But if you do, don’t tell it. Don’t do it again.
(0:54:37) Men having leaders? The Fallen State: Louis Farrakhan
(1:04:39) “Our community”?
(1:06:08) Haitian doctor, two wives. What drove him? Same spirit in you!
(1:10:29) Disagreement: False pretenses in marriage? Telling women? STD’s? SORRY KIDS
(1:23:09) JLP: Managing evil? Woman thought man cheated: life in prison. God’s Discernment.
(1:34:42) God’s “anger” in the Bible. Abortion? Every thought in captivity.
(1:36:57) Cheating? World says tell it. God: stop doing it. God not holding it against you.
(1:40:41) Sharing God’s wisdom?
(1:43:16) Watch anger.
(1:44:51) Elon Musk’s daddy in South Africa. White people: Men, values
(1:52:38) How to maintain Western Civilization? Overcome fear/anger, and see.
(1:58:47) BQ: Why is your life one collision after another one?
(2:03:42) JLP on BQ: You’re consulting with thoughts: Another life within
(2:06:55) Closing, announcements, last words

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Church Notes

Elon Musk’s father, as opposed to complaining men…

A man should never tell a woman his problems, and if he cheats, he should never tell.

Don’t have another person lead you.

You cannot manage anger. It’s evil — never justified or necessary. Real life documentary horror stories…

Biblical Question: Why is your life one collision after another?

ALREADY ANSWERED TODAY: New Biblical Question idea: Why is anger never, ever justified or necessary?

ANNOUNCEMENT: Men’s Forum first Thurs, Oct 3, 2024, 7 PM at BOND in L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/

Welcome

(0:00:00) Start (0:04:19) Welcome to Church

black representation in media

(0:04:35) Anybody bring anything?

(0:04:47) Great statement from Raymond about being “represented” in media.

Elon Musk daddy: Men from the old school didn’t complain.

(0:05:51) I want to trade daddies. I want Elon Musk’s daddy to be my father.

(0:06:45) He hated his father, says a man — because of his mother, but not anymore.

Men never complained or cried. (0:10:41) Oprah said to cry.

(0:11:56) How many cried and told a woman your problems?

(0:13:05) Why did you tell her? Allahu Akbar country. (0:13:28) Anthony: I was 15.

(0:13:44) JLP: Moving to L.A. … Looks like a bell would go off. Omeed: You hear it everywhere. Women didn’t want to hear it.

Explain? Never tell a woman you cheated. Disagree?

(0:15:57) Q: Anthony’s wife: Difference between telling problems vs discussing issues? Should a man cheat… Never tell a woman you cheated.

(0:18:39) Why would you want him to tell you? Good communication… to go sour? Just gonna be a fight.

(0:19:20) I wouldn’t want him dippin’ and divin’ and me not knowing about it. (0:21:06) Can I go dippin’ and divin’ and not tell him? You’re taking it too far now! “Marriage under a lie…”

Agree?

(0:22:02) Donyale: I’d rather not know. None of my business. What’s the point of my knowing?

(0:23:20) Colin: A double standard that’s right. If you’re taking care of a woman… Women think there’s no difference between men and women, emotionally with sex, etc., him taking care of her, etc. Talking with the ladies, they were good sports but totally disagreed — 38.

(0:26:07) JLP: Men are so weak… just like the women now! Colin: No difference now. Strong, silent men. Different social clubs between men and women.

JLP: Stages of life. Never complained.

(0:27:11) JLP: Moved out here at 18, went through hell 18-30-something — a mess. I could’ve easily been at a Diddy party. Family didn’t know anything was wrong. I didn’t know it was wrong — crazy stuff… I didn’t know you were supposed to whine and complain. Glad I didn’t.

Women concerned with getting cheated on?

(0:29:36) Donyale: Never thought about a guy cheating. Never happened, to my knowledge. My nosy girlfriends got cheated on.

(0:31:23) Even the girlfriend wants to know if you cheated on her. What sense does that make? I didn’t know it was cheating, because it was just a girlfriend! A girlfriend doesn’t obligate you, guys! That’s ownership!

(0:33:10) Alexis… get it off his chest, an absolvement of guilt. Men not crying.

(0:35:06) Anthony’s wife agrees about men complaining or crying, sharing problems. But cheating… Dipping and diving…

Telling women… Christians, counselors, girlfriends

(0:36:18) Hake: It’s in the churches too… “confessing sins”

(0:38:59) Another man: Female Counselors. Women in these fields…

(0:40:20) Man told his girlfriend something, and then blamed her for how she reacted. My dad was pretty weak.

(0:41:45) A fourth man: If you don’t talk about your feelings, they’ll nag you. You can’t buckle.

(0:42:25) Raymond: men need validation from a woman, esp for their infidelities. As soon as you tell her, you are failing, it is over.

Never heard a man gossip.

(0:43:13) JLP: Never heard a man gossip. … A man told hot and less hot girlfriends things.

(0:45:20) Man’s wife died of AIDS in rural areas, after man went around with prostitutes. A real man should be honest about it, Alex says.

Personal experience: No forgiveness

(0:47:16) I cheated on her, and I told her about it. Worst mistake. No redemption, no forgiveness, just a tool to control whenever she’s angry.

(0:48:07) The fact a woman says you should tell her your problems should be the clue you shouldn’t.

(0:48:27) A man who wants

JLP: Don’t cheat. But if you do, don’t tell. Don’t do it again.

(0:48:40) JLP: Don’t cheat. But if you do, don’t tell it, and stop cheating. Anthony’s wife: But it’s a lie. (0:49:40) How is it false? He realized he shouldn’t, and stopped.

Anthony’s wife: I should have a choice. JLP: Venereal diseases have always been around.

(0:53:24) Don’t believe the Devil

Don’t tell it. You’re less likely to do it.

(0:53:36) Hake: When you don’t tell it, you’re less likely to do it again.

Need another person to lead you? Louis Farrakhan your leader?

(0:54:37) Believe you need another person to lead you? Alex: I’m 36. My dad is still my boss.

(0:55:56) JLP on The Fallen State interview with Rizza Islam: “Louis Farrakhan is my leader.”

(0:58:34) … Joel. (0:59:56) Anthony… Man called JLP show… A woman running for president: “Men have messed everything up!” … (1:01:34) Anthony … boys looking for leaders.

(1:03:54) Alex now saying he didn’t …

“Our community” language just creates problems

(1:04:39) **“Our community” — JLP: no such thing as a “black community”! Should white people be thinking about “our community”? No.

Documentary: Doctor from Haiti, two wives. What drove him?

(1:06:08) Documentary: Young doctor from Haiti met a nurse, and married her. Had another wife. Perhaps committed suicide, or an accident. Both wives showed up, not knowing about each other.

(1:08:21) What drove him to do that? (1:09:04) The same spirit convinced him it’d work. That same spirit is in this room and everywhere.

(1:10:13) When a man cheats, don’t do it! Same spirit. Ask what’s driving me?

Feedback: Truth or not? Go with understanding, not imagination

(1:10:29) Anthony’s wife continues… I don’t know what he’s bringing back… Don’t do an “if”… Why not going…

(1:13:49) It’s been a lie for 18 years if he cheated the 2nd year into the marriage!

(1:14:48) Donyale: A control issue. … (1:15:56) Franky: I wasn’t raised with men admitting. Women are like children.

(1:17:37) STD argument is an excuse to control the man

(1:18:11) Don’t go cheat. Stop. Don’t tell your wife.

It’s not excusable. SORRY KIDS

(1:18:56) Anthony’s wife: It’s not excusable. No one is encouraging. It’s not right. (1:20:24) If I cheated, should I tell him? No. Just don’t do it anymore.

(1:20:51) Darren: I don’t know if it’s right or wrong not to tell it. Sorry kids.

Managing evil: Anger

(1:23:09) JLP: My bigger point… Rizza Islam, people agreeing with managing evil — anger. Satan told this woman they were cheating and the woman beat the woman up at the party! … Anthony question about God’s “anger” in the Bible: Discernment

(1:32:09) Feedback

(1:33:06) Why don’t you let anger go? … Man’s feedback…

(1:34:11) War in Israel: No business fighting!

God’s ‘anger’… Abortion?

(1:34:42) When God is angry, it means to set aside or reject or dismiss. “Righteous anger” is not in the Bible. No right to be angry about ti!

Cheating?

(1:36:57) The world tells you to tell it. God tells you to stop doing it.

(1:39:32) Consuming unhealthy things, are we desecrating the temple of God?

Sharing God’s ‘wisdom’?

(1:40:41) Q… Ever a right time to talk about what I’ve found within with someone who hasn’t? JLP: When it comes naturally. Pay attention to thoughts… Not when the Devil has you do it.

(1:42:12) **Imagination a mess… telling about God to people who don’t wanna hear it. Jesus told the healed: Don’t tell anybody. And they told it. “What da!… Beta!”

Watch anger.

(1:43:16) Repress anger?

Elon Musk daddy in South Africa

(1:44:51) Elon Musk daddy in South Africa: Can’t let children play outside. So bad. He shot 3 people in his home already, and killed them — with two bullets.

Used to love going to Europe. A section of India people in Europe — a neighborhood. Horses and wagons. Food cooked on the streets. Hell. The Western culture gave in to the other cultures.

(1:47:47) **What is it that white people have that we don’t have? They build nice neighborhoods. Very creative, innovative. Like beauty, nice, order. Every other culture likes disorder. Why? Maybe because of the way men used to be. Elon’s dad and dad’s dad taught kids to be better than their parents. (1:48:58) **We would never go out and just kill people. Men were in charge then. The fathers. Never whined, gossiped: Women didn’t allow other women to gossip.

(1:50:06) Elon’s father bought his father a Rolls Royce or something. He wouldn’t take it. Nowadays a mother knows the son is a drug dealer. Values have changed.

(1:51:39) **JLP: Ladies, you can find God without the man.

How to maintain Western Civilization?

(1:52:38) **Colin: White people don’t have a community. How do you maintain Western Civilization? Overcome fear. Don’t be afraid to say no.

(1:54:23) **JLP: Overcome fear and anger, and see what to do. God loves us! **Elon so smart he’s going to get astronauts stuck in space. We have the ability to do great things, but connected to the wrong source.

(1:55:42) Dominican Republic: God and country first.

(1:56:40) Be less tolerant. Preserve American culture. Merry Christmas, not happy holidays.

(1:57:15) **Be like George Wallace, Gov of Alabama: Segregationist, justified.

BQ: Why is your life one collision after another one?

(1:58:47) Donyale: BQ… Various people answer… (2:01:11) Derrick: It’s not. … Young lady thought about it all week. Comfortable with being unaware… (2:02:18) Hake… Franky…

JLP on BQ: Consulting with thoughts

(2:03:42) **JLP on BQ: You’re in thoughts, one to another

(2:04:52) **JLP: Another life within us. Satan’s nightmare that you may find God, he’s constantly on you. Catch it by being present. Be aware. (2:05:51) **Work on yourself, stay with it, let your ego be embarrassed. Stay present. Practice.

(2:06:21) Overcome having leaders…

(2:06:55) Men’s Forum this Thursday. Monday 2 PM: Punchie TV with a woman, debating

(2:08:44) Closing: Don’t let a title create a leader in your head … Work on you, so you’re not relying on your husband. (2:10:05) Anthony’s wife: She talks about choice… No such thing.

REMINDERS…

2024 theme: Want for nothing.
2024 assignment: This year, don’t let the thoughts bully you.
8/25/24 Assignment: For one week, let the only evil you think of be your own.
8/25/24 try this: Never argue — with anyone.
9/1/24 Assignment: Completely surrender to thoughts. Feel it. Take the pain.
9/1/24 Assignment for Southern gal: For one week, don’t argue with anyone.
9-8-24 and 9-15-24 assignment: Don’t trust the thought. Let it overwhelm you.
Late 2023 assignment: Notice the mind repeats itself, and that it’s all about self.
Late 2023 assignment: Sit four minutes in your room in silence.
March 10-17, 2024 assignment: Get rid of your heroes. Trust no one.
May 19-26, 2024 assignment: If you feel anything, remember: It’s just a thought! No meaning.
Jun 2-9, 2024 assignment/discussion: Watch the different demons inside you.
Assignment from JLP show (Thu 6/20/24) Practice staying present.
We’re not messing around this year.

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