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Get up and walk. Satan: the author of intellectual knowledge. Assignment: Don’t judge. Why do you criticize yourself and others?

Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, October 20, 2024

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TIMESTAMPS

(0:00:00) Small talk… Welcome
(0:02:25) Re: Drug addict woman caller this week
(0:07:55) JLP: blessed. Get up and walk: Face your pain.
(0:24:04) Feedback: Why won’t you get up and walk? Raymond… Hassan…
(0:48:43) Amber Alert; No you: Satan, author of intellectual knowledge
(1:00:32) Are you backing off your husband?
(1:15:14) Excited about sharing the truth, “pearls before swine”
(1:18:27) Judgment, the Devil’s voice, “disabled,” disease, feelings
(1:27:25) Assignment feedback: Judgment
(1:36:09) Story: Bubbly lady realized she’s evil. Assignment…
(1:45:23) BQ: Why do you criticize yourself and others?
(1:53:10) Donyale moving! Store union workers picketing
(1:59:58) New BQ: Why do you need anyone else’s approval? Closing

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Church Notes

Past week’s Assignment: For 24 hours, don’t judge with words, looks, emotions, or thoughts.

Biblical Question: Why do you criticize yourself and others?

New Biblical Question: Why do you need anyone else’s approval?

Welcome

(0:00:00) Start (0:01:33) Intro (0:01:52) Welcome to Church

1 ‘Drug addict’ lady caller this week

(0:02:25) JLP had a very interesting call…

(0:03:17) Feedback? Donyale (0:03:55) “I thought you were talking to me…” (0:04:17) Omeed: Good spirits! (0:04:51) Nick … others including Hake…

Blessed woman: Heard the truth

(0:07:55) JLP: One of the most blessed women on earth. Down and out, heard the truth. She accepted a little bit of it. Because of that, she could be healed.

The cripple and Jesus: Get up and walk. Face your pain.

(0:09:55) A man from a Bible story who couldn’t walk; according to a “movie” (The Chosen TV series) he fell out of a tree. He tried to get healed by getting in the water. Christ came. Do you want to walk? Get up and walk.

(0:11:56) Lady is facing her pain. **JLP: Some of you here won’t get up and walk. Won’t face your pain. Your pain is not you.

(0:13:35) You still believe you’re a sinner. Bank robber from 10 years ago. Won’t let memories go. Hold onto memories like they’re real. Can’t get up and walk. **JLP: My friend Raymond. (0:15:29) “I’m no good.” Stop saying that about yourself. (0:15:53) Man, he and his wife of 20 years, she’s into someone else now. Let her go! (0:17:05) Why do you hold onto anything? Get up and live.

Guys wanting to get married

(0:18:46) Guy called the show this week, in his 20s, dating a married woman. “She’s good to me… cooks…” (0:19:38) It’s so unfortunate… well… it’s so amazing you won’t be free…. **JLP: You don’t REALLY want the truth. You’d have accepted the truth and be free today. Did you know: Not one reason to argue.

(0:20:58) **JLP: You won’t let yourself feel pain. Get high, fight, blame… How will God save you something that you keep saving yourself from?

(0:21:29) Another guy wanting to get married. “Supposed to…” Don’t know any happy married people!

(0:22:52) Don’t be afraid to …. **JLP: Get up and walk. (0:23:38) Don’t think about the pain, the loneliness, don’t do anything about it. …

2 Feedback: Why won’t you get up and walk?

(0:24:04) Feedback: “You won’t get up and walk.” … Stay with it.

Raymond

2a (0:26:14) Raymond… (0:26:38) **JLP: Another lie world taught us: “Take responsibility for yourself.” How can you, when you didn’t make the decision to do it? God tells you it’s not you! You’ve never made one decision, good or bad.

2b (0:28:09) **JLP: God told us two things: Don’t judge. And love your neighbor as yourself. They do it so much they call it normal. … We cannot change ourselves, the old nature. Why get upset? It’s enough to know you want to.

(0:31:03) Stop saying “I’m no good.” Who’s Raymond? … Wrong nature through your mother, switched natures the moment you become angry. Crazy mamas, daddies. Anger is not you.

Hassan

(0:32:42) Hassan, why won’t you get up and walk? (0:33:45) Incidents… perfect time to walk.

2c (0:34:55) **JLP: Guy called the show calling himself “lazy.” Satan calls you lazy. Just do it! God said only a handful will find the straight and narrow. Thoughts and imagination (same thing) run deeper than what you think. You’re so identified, you think it’s you. “Who will I be?” Everybody lookin’ crazy.

2d (0:36:12) **JLP: Christ died that you may be free. You’re not guilty. Even the rapist, Mr. Rapist, or Miss Rapist. Don’t call yourself that. If you call yourself that, you’ll do it again. You’re giving life to death. Even the pothead. … Life and death in the power of the tongue.

(0:37:53) Hassan, those people rejoice in bringing you pain. … isn’t that amazing? … (0:39:26) Stop living a life of thrills.

Follow-up questions: Joel, Nick

(0:39:43) Joel: Drop misery? See you have it. Seeing it will change it. Stop? Or Watch? Both. Drop it by stop doing it. If you can catch it, you can not do it. (0:42:15) Catch yourself about to judge the person drinking wine.

2e (0:43:17) Nick… Remember: Sit in your room an hour, nothing… loneliness. (0:44:25) **JLP: Say you have a conflict with your wife: Satan will say call her up, and make up. You won’t grab a thought to get up and make up. No fight, you’re not angry, even if she or he is… Been lied to by therapists, etc…

2f (0:45:44) Hassan asking for a friend… (0:47:40) **JLP: Someone hurt you, “I can’t believe someone would be that evil!” If you don’t exist, how can someone be mean to you? … Hassan… There’s no one there, that someone can be mean to you. They took MY child…

Amber Alert: real Love… No you

2g-L (0:48:43) Amber Alert: This man in a “true story,” a man and wife broke up: The man wanted to be with his kids… He killed the child and himself. Look at that fool. Let go of the child. Work on himself, he’d be alive today. Amazin’ life. Identified with the child and emotional want for the child. Wasn’t love, but he called it love. Another false identity. Love lasts forever, it never ends.

(0:50:50) Joel: Devil make you think you see. He’s not even making you judge yourself, but the false self. His nature. Look what YOU done. Yea, look what I’VE done — and then you do it more. There is no you, no self.

(0:52:09) Cheyenne (sp): Imagination… (0:54:17) JLP: Drop means to see and do nothing. It’s so powerful that it’s not us. Satan is the author of intellectual knowledge… (0:55:52) Cheyenne q… (0:57:15) Today’s gonna be a GOOD day. A BLESSED day… Don’t lie either way, calling yourself good or evil. … (0:58:39) Saving you from the illusion of Hell… try before you drop your body. Bible won’t help. Satan author of the intellect.

3 Backing off your husband? Fighting a lot

(1:00:32) Are you backing off your husband? Vanessa, giving him permission… shut it down by not saying it or doing it.

(1:01:43) Husband: Things might be worse than ever. Angry, frustrated, fighting a lot. Deja vu. Try to participate with my wife… She tells me things she’s heard from BOND/JLP, women’s forum… he gets frustrated, she catches on… conflict. If she’s getting angry… …

(1:08:11) Codependence… Lost our independent thought. Wanna take an 8-hour hike… She’ll say that’s crazy. I wanna be polite. That starts a fight. You don’t owe her an explanation.

(1:10:41) Vanessa: Do you realize you’re not setting the example you’re talking about? (1:11:37) Didn’t Hake call you a crazy lady? “Listening to the Devil…” (1:12:43) Back off husband… Hiking…

(1:14:29) Stop arguing with her. Say, I don’t wanna hear it. God’s not getting mad at you.

Excited about sharing the truth

(1:15:14) Hake, excited about sharing the truth, pearls before swine, listening to the voice of evil, knowledge. (1:17:19) Can’t be of evil and do good. … I spoke in tongues… Makes your ego grow. To Vanessa: Back off of him!

4 Does this make sense? Judging, Devil voice, “disabled,” diseases

(1:18:27) Does this make sense? Manuel. (1:19:10) Assignment: 1-day only — don’t judge… (1:20:46) Pushing the truth on people… Watch the voice of the Devil.

(1:21:40) My dad told me: Your thoughts aren’t yours. Accident, I was depressed. Why would I give up on myself? That can’t be me. JLP: You’re not telling yourself to commit suicide.

(1:23:09) Get up and walk. I don’t believe I’m disabled. You’re not crippled just because of your body. (1:24:16) JLP: “I’ve been fighting with cancer.” How? Celebrities love talking about their diseases on TV …

(1:25:13) Can’t really feel anything.. Without the thought you can’t have the feeling. Force the emotion to feel something to try to be alive, when you’re not really alive.

5 Assignment feedback

(1:27:25) Don’t judge with words, thoughts, looks, emotions… Donyale: “I failed the first 24-hours…”

(1:30:04) **JLP: Something on the other side that you don’t see yet. God said don’t judge. And to love. People so dumb they call themselves a righteous judger.

5b (1:31:43) **JLP: I can’t wait for this election to be over: people at the gym all wanna talk about Kamala Harris. Then the anti-Trump people… (1:32:38) Good friend at the gym: You gotta not have an opinion. They’re from Satan. Not yours.

(1:33:10) Doug: Feeble attempt. You’ll see things about yourself you haven’t seen yet, don’t know is wrong… A life of non-judgment. God doesn’t judge us. If you know who you were, you would never judge.

(1:34:36) Another man: I failed every day. Maybe an hour. Should be an every day assignment. No judgment with thoughts, looks, words, gestures, or feelings.

Story: Bubbly lady realized she’s evil

(1:36:09) JLP: Counseling with a lady: “I am one of the most bubbly… people call me bubbles.” Bubbling, evil, … showcase personality. Couldn’t say one thing she did wrong. Then she focused a minute and became aware all the things she did wrong. She realized she’s evil.

(1:39:21) There’s no justice in society…

(1:39:49) Assignment feedback continues: Man: I judge myself the most. Maybe it’s I, whom I need to forgive. Why not stop saying “I,” so the “I” can disappear.

(1:40:49) Couple: We didn’t know about it… Like it though…

(1:41:52) Nick: Reset every 24 hours on assignment. I judge everybody else the most. **Nick/JLP: By not doing the face, the feelings didn’t come. (1:42:40) It’s painful to judge… (1:43:02) Look in the mirror while judging.

(1:43:29) Franky … Put it in your back pocket. Write it down! Carry it with you! (1:44:27) Hassan…

6 BQ: Why do you criticize yourself and others?

6a (1:45:23) BQ: Why do you criticize yourself and others? Donyale… (1:46:08) Vanessa, back off your husband! Donyale relates… **I drove my husband crazy, not literally. He said back off, I did, and now he does Silent Prayer…

6bcd (1:47:33) **JLP: Can’t tell number of times a husband or wife, been into this or that, all excited, try to impose it… Husband knows his wife still crazy, but secretly, quietly started working on himself. She doesn’t know to this day, bc she crazy. Stop imposing this on anyone! God doesn’t impose on anyone! … (1:49:34) Donyale: I got banned off Instagram… JLP mentions Hake’s story

6ef (1:50:54) Cheyenne (sp) on a hike, judging every other person. Then myself. Caught it late. Meant for me not to stop, but to see how judgmental I was. Seeing it changes it. JLP: Pray without ceasing. Watch. The guy at the gate, waiting for Christ. Stay present with God. He’s always with you. Stay with the Assignment: no judging. You’ll love one another.

7 Donyale moving! Union game being played: Human nature…

(1:53:10) Donyale moving… maybe come sometimes… 4-hour round-trip… Glad to leave? Yes. It’s changed. Sad. Don’t feel safe.

7b (1:55:11) JLP: CVS store employees picketing … No love! The Devil works you the same way with thoughts… Wake up. Human nature is evil. (1:59:30) God lets you suffer. Stop imposing your ideas, emotions, thoughts on someone else. Be the light.

8 New BQ: Why do you need anyone else’s approval?

(1:59:58) New BQ: Why do you need anyone else’s approval? Hassan… (2:01:18) Daniel: Depends on what you mean… (2:01:48) Vanessa’s husband… feel like a good person?

(2:02:50) Closing… “Sorry,” no Women’s Forum last week…

REMINDERS…

2024 theme: Want for nothing.
2024 assignment: This year, don’t let the thoughts bully you.
10/13/24 Assignment: 24hrs: Don’t judge with words, looks, emotions, or thoughts.
8/25/24 Assignment: For one week, let the only evil you think of be your own.
8/25/24 try this: Never argue — with anyone.
9/1/24 Assignment: Completely surrender to thoughts. Feel it. Take the pain.
9/1/24 Assignment for Southern gal: For one week, don’t argue with anyone.
9-8-24 and 9-15-24 assignment: Don’t trust the thought. Let it overwhelm you.
Late 2023 assignment: Notice the mind repeats itself, and that it’s all about self.
Late 2023 assignment: Sit four minutes in your room in silence.
March 10-17, 2024 assignment: Get rid of your heroes. Trust no one.
May 19-26, 2024 assignment: If you feel anything, remember: It’s just a thought! No meaning.
Jun 2-9, 2024 assignment/discussion: Watch the different demons inside you.
Assignment from JLP show (Thu 6/20/24) Practice staying present.
We’re not messing around this year.

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