27 Oct Why do you need anyone else’s approval? | Church 10/27/24

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Most don’t want a peaceful life. Fathers and mothers on loss. Why do you need others’ approval? Do you return shopping carts?

Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, October 27, 2024

|| See clips, links, and notes below.

TIMESTAMPS

(0:00:00) Welcome
(0:02:06) Happy Halloween?
(0:03:58) Don’t want a peaceful life
(0:17:00) Trucker: Lost son to fentanyl
(0:24:26) Need a girlfriend?
(0:34:48) Late husband at rest; she is not
(0:43:32) Son and mother: prayer, “love”
(1:02:08) What’s it like knowing you’re so evil?
(1:14:33) Q’s: Addicted to thrills?
(1:16:57) Jesus the only Way?
(1:26:47) BQ: Why do you need anyone else’s approval?
(1:28:35) Re: Jesus… if you don’t know, don’t talk about it
(1:32:28) Back to BQ, Donyale, relationships, anger
(1:52:53) Returning shopping carts, thinking you’re better
(2:05:50) New BQ; shopping carts; closing

CLIPS

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Church Notes

Biblical Question: Why do you need anyone else’s approval?

New Biblical Question: Why don’t you presume others innocent unless proven guilty?

0 Welcome

(0:00:00) Start (0:01:41) Welcome

1 Happy Halloween?

(0:02:06) Happy Halloween?

2 Most don’t want peace

(0:03:58) Most don’t want a peaceful life. They lie.

Protesting, disrupting: All an act

(0:05:44) Train people to stir trouble (unions, protests) — scream out “You’re a baby killer!” Or “A woman’s right!” Scream in the meetings. Trained people, planned display, and people get excited — not knowing it was a setup. Accuse the politician of something. Loud, then get up and leave.

(0:07:34) Watching it, you take sides …

(0:09:04) City council meeting… I knew I was gonna yell and scream, because I knew the media loved it. The police were going to throw me out. If you want attention, you fall out, and get sympathy and hate from each half of the group.

Same with personal life… Gym story: Create thoughts? Need ups & downs in life

(0:10:32) That’s how you are in your personal life. Thrill from anger. Husband and wife want a situation, a false idea you’re trying to fix something.

(0:11:14) Musician-producer at the gym: Do you create thoughts? Yes! Can’t tell me how! “We need that in our life,” the ups and downs in life

(0:12:21) God said you don’t need a situation. You can have peace. Gossip. Revenge. You don’t REALLY want peace, but you want situations and incidents. “I’m bored, let me come up with something.”

(0:12:59) Do you love your misery? “Yeah! … I’m human…” Nothing is getting worked out.

(0:13:28) Christ came that you might have peace. … Worry, make relationships work… Not supposed to be working at life!

(0:14:38) People love their misery.

(0:15:58) My friend… he loves it! (Alex, ha!)

3 Feedback: Don’t love your misery?

(0:17:00) No, I don’t love it! I’m a truck driver, always had a bad temper.

(0:19:13) 2nd example: Guy cut me off, I honked. Caught it, didn’t get feeling.

Lost son to fentanyl

(0:19:43) I still have evil in me, not controlling my life… Gary (sp), lost my son to fentanyl a couple years ago… Guilt was killing me; I knew I could’ve raised him better. (0:20:20) Forgave my parents, doing best they could; they came from crazy households. **3a I was able to forgive myself with my son…

(0:20:58) 3a-cont: JLP: No reason to feel guilty over someone else dying. You had nothing to do with him taking it! You didn’t want peace.

Holding onto death: Lost loved one to serial killer

(0:21:55) JLP tells a story of a man who’s holding onto losing his sister or daughter to a serial killer.

(0:23:08) The man speaks again… couldn’t get out of bed. JLP: People don’t want perfect peace. … While you live, don’t have to wait until you die! (0:23:58) **3b JLP: DOn’t make their issue your issue. They get a thrill knowing they made YOU angry!

Under attack lately: “Maybe I need a girlfriend”

(0:24:26) Silent Prayer. I’ve been in peace. Listen to JLP… Doing good but it’s boring. We wanna drum up some drama. “I think you need a girlfriend!” (0:25:34) **3c Am I ever gonna have a partner again? “I’m not gay.” JLP: A temptation straight out of Hell! (0:26:13) Learn to live with you. Most can’t live with themselves!

(0:27:35) JLP: I’m laughing at Joel because he’s silly. JLP: Evil people make money setting you up!

“The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak”?

(0:29:53) Spirit is willing but the flesh is weak! Donyale (“Not a Bible thumper!”)

Matthew 26:41 KJV – Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation – Bible Gateway – the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.

(0:31:29) Vanessa… Holy Spirit, but this body.

Stay with it…

(0:32:33) Back to Gary (sp) the trucker: Stay with it. You will be free. Voice will be talking to you. s/o Donyale

4 Late husband is resting; She is not

(0:34:48) Norma or Nora… Bates Motel? 2nd time here… Once in a while anger… I’m very, very upset b/c… I lost my husband maybe a couple years ago. So mad at myself for not having talked to him, and loved on him… It bothers me. It’s just the Devil …

JLP: He’s already resting. You’re not! … (0:37:26) The Devil making you think that! It’s just a thought, not from God, not from you. Let the dead bury the dead. You live your life. … You don’t have a boyfriend?

(0:38:25) What you are is what you put out. … People treat you with sadness… You did the best you could. Bring every thought into captivity. All thoughts all lies… The Devil’s in the mind. Do you love your misery? No.

Get angry at myself for not being there for him. (0:39:44) Who is the self? Tried to be a good person. Never succeeded! Gonna keep trying? Ain’t gonna work! Never gonna be good! (0:40:55) **4a JLP: Stop trying to be good. … Didn’t tell me who you are.

(0:42:19) Tried hard to be a good mother. They still hate you! (0:42:43) **4b Who told you you need to try to be good? Mother and father… What is good? Tell you later!

Her son on prayer, affirmations

(0:43:32) Her son is also a truck driver… Tarping in the rain, tough work.

(0:44:54) Silent prayer: Distracted. Whole purpose of the prayer is to see the thoughts

(0:46:17) Don’t be saying affirmations

4-cont Forgiving mother?

(0:47:29) What did mother say when you went and forgave her? … (0:48:29) If you leave me I’m going to die. … Evil! Control. Not love.

(0:49:26) JLP: Reading this book… Men and women have the same anger, but the woman’s anger is double, worse than the man’s anger… book from 1800s… The woman’s god is Satan. She has his nature; she can overcome it.

Mother’s reaction to son forgiving, and her own mother

(0:50:14) Back to mother: Broke my heart. Love I have for him is very strong. Two years I lost my husband… Really bothered. Losing Larry, then losing Tom too.

(0:52:17) You were not losing him. You were gaining a son. Honor parents means: Forgive them.

(0:53:29) Forgave mother? You don’t have any good morals! She laughs. She was a good mother. What was good about her? She made no mistakes. … She recreated you in her image; she had no love; did things to make herself feel better.

(0:55:47) Tell me lies, tell me sweet little lies.

What is love?

(0:56:24) Human love vs. God’s love. What is love?

(0:59:16) Fighting with husband, yet you called it love. Maybe disappointed? No, it was hate. Stepkids. No one loves one another! (0:59:57) **4c JLP: Look how miserable people are! No love! … Using you for unnecessary war, and they call you a hero! Veterans sleep on the street. We gotta take care of the illegal aliens…

(1:01:52) Back off son… Don’t put requirements to check in on him…

What’s it like knowing you’re so evil?

(1:02:08) **4d JLP: What’s it like knowing you’re so EVIL? Laughter. Disappointing. Why? … Don’t call yourself bad or good. (1:04:12) Hard for people to confess they’re evil. Mother is God!

(1:04:57) Son speaks: She’s been a Christian all her life… (1:06:06) JLP: … All in the name! … “He was a good man.” He had problems. Wish him well. He didn’t know better. Putting guilt on your son, that’s not love.

(1:08:02) You’d go up there anyway! She laughs: “I know!” JLP: That’s not love, that’s ego, vanity. **4e Let go. If you love him, you’ll let him go. I let my son go so fast he doesn’t understand. He working on it, Lord. …

Live your life. Dark cloud over my head: (1:10:28) You loved it. … Come to Church, Women’s Forum…

(1:12:24) **4f JLP: There’s no you to feel sorry for… Don’t sit around and mope.

Feedback…

(1:13:04) Daniel: Trained to protest in meetings…

Thrills?

(1:14:33) Addicted to thrills like drugs? Are you referring to yourself? (1:16:32) There’s a higher way

5 Jesus? Raised Jewish

(1:16:57) You didn’t have to talk about the Allahu vest off! Trinity, son of God… Jesus brought you a message… Raised Jewish…

(1:21:40) I’m not that Jewish… I am a little Jewish! … You are your own world

(1:22:55) Q: I get angry… I guess I’m a little psycho … Get angry, have to drop anger, forgive mother, stuck in that cycle. You think the anger spirit is you. (1:24:50) Don’t call it you, Ryan… Who I am? Nobody, nothing… ego loves to have something to identify with…

(1:25:51) Our parents screwed us up, stuck to a name. “The Peterson name…” The Bloods… No meaning! “I want them to remember Ryan was a good man.” All fake!

6 BQ: Why do you need anyone else’s approval?

(1:26:47) Young lady… What have you realized about self that you didn’t know before? Oh that’s my Biblical Question! Living for others’ approval. **6a Thoughts told me not to come. Stop listening to those thoughts. (1:28:10) JLP: This is the best place in the world, the truth is here.

7 ‘Exclusivity of Jesus’? Don’t know?

(1:28:35) Another guy on Ryan’s question about Jesus, “exclusivity of Jesus.” **7a JLP: If you don’t know, you shouldn’t talk about it. You just throw out ideas about it. **7b JLP: Never try to prove anything to anyone… Shopping cart philosophy? Ok!

8 Back to BQ, Donyale

(1:31:11) Donyale: If I’m being truthful, from a manipulative place I need approval… My pajamas are runway worthy.

(1:32:28) **8a JLP: The life you want, not needing anyone’s approval … People love to … (Something Hake missed, distracted writing notes) … (1:35:24) Thank you, Jesse … Stay with it. (1:36:15) **8b “We’re gonna miss aboot…” “I have a complex…” Hake… Gonna miss you!

Alexis

(1:37:46) Alexis … (1:39:34) Do you give Nick Hell when you’re going through that stuff? (1:40:29) “What’s wrong honey?” “Nothin’!” (1:41:13) You and Nick never argue about anything? Don’t disagree? (1:41:44) You’re evil! “You’re eviler!” … He’s always right? He says it more simply. I have different words… confuse and take things astray from what the actual truth is.

(1:42:43) **8c JLP: Don’t communicate with the Devil (clapping) stop talking with the Devil! … BQ…

Want approval, don’t seek approval

(1:43:48) Darren on BQ: “We’re social.” I don’t like to live alone. Why not? Wanting their approval but not going seeking them …?

Practical vs spiritual approval

(1:45:53) Daniel: I need it to get hired! (1:46:35) What is he saying? Donyale: Practical approval … (1:47:30) **8d Daniel: Our body the temple. Are we desecrating the temple? JLP: Yes, you destroy the body. Anger does that too.

More on BQ

(1:48:15) Vanessa: Looking for fulfillment from the outside

Alex

(1:48:39) Alex… Rich people… If you rock the boat, you get swamped… (1:51:07) You stopped feeling like a victim? Aug 4 Sunday changed my brother’s and my lives. … Stop being angry, he can’t drive you insane. (1:52:45) Cut it out.

9 Shopping cart return

(1:52:53) Shopping cart return question… thinking you’re better? Self-governed

(1:56:32) Sometimes… (1:56:59) When you eat at a restaurant, do you take the dishes back to the kitchen? It’s not my job. It’s part of the service.

(1:57:24) Taking dishes back … Donyale: I vehemently disagree with this in every way possible.

(1:59:41) JLP: When I was 18… You are well-trained! Tell the people they need to put the dishes back in the kitchen

(2:01:27) I take it back because of the dings… One sane crazy woman here! … And I feel guilty!

(2:02:11) Omeed: Grocery stores uglier, dirtier, record profits

(2:02:51) Trucker: I’ve had my car dent before… (2:03:08) I park where my car won’t get dinged. (2:03:26) Franky: Most of the time… Trash cans at McDonald’s

(2:04:09) JLP: You’re being trained! Unions making money off you! You’re doing somebody else’s job.

(2:04:30) Nick: In my mind, that’s how it always was… (2:05:04) Alexis stacks her plates at restaurants … JLP: It’s fun!

10 New BQ, know yourself, more on shopping cart

(2:05:50) New Biblical Question: Why don’t you presume others innocent unless proven guilty? … All human beings are evil.

(2:07:49) Joel: It was lazy not taking it back … Hake on minimum wage… They take your money

REMINDERS…

2024 theme: Want for nothing.
2024 assignment: This year, don’t let the thoughts bully you.
10/13/24 Daily Assignment: 24hrs: Don’t judge with words, looks, emotions, or thoughts.
8/25/24 Assignment: For one week, let the only evil you think of be your own.
8/25/24 try this: Never argue — with anyone.
9/1/24 Assignment: Completely surrender to thoughts. Feel it. Take the pain.
9/1/24 Assignment for Southern gal: For one week, don’t argue with anyone.
9-8-24 and 9-15-24 assignment: Don’t trust the thought. Let it overwhelm you.
Late 2023 assignment: Notice the mind repeats itself, and that it’s all about self.
Late 2023 assignment: Sit four minutes in your room in silence.
March 10-17, 2024 assignment: Get rid of your heroes. Trust no one.
May 19-26, 2024 assignment: If you feel anything, remember: It’s just a thought! No meaning.
Jun 2-9, 2024 assignment/discussion: Watch the different demons inside you.
Assignment from JLP show (Thu 6/20/24) Practice staying present.
We’re not messing around this year.

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