04 May Have you ever been betrayed? | Church 5/4/25
Have you ever betrayed anyone? You’re either on the side of good or evil: Destroy words (the “N-word” controversy). “When she’s crying, she’s lying.”
Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, May 4, 2025
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TIMESTAMPS
- (0:00:00) Small talk… Welcome
- (0:02:07) Should we be grateful? The garden…
- (0:09:29) Either Good or Evil: Destroy words
- (0:20:21) Ever betrayed anyone?
- (0:31:45) More betrayers…
- (0:42:35) Betrayal: Treating each other in an evil way…
- (0:49:48) Forgive your mother: Put her in an old folks home
- (0:55:31) Ever been betrayed?
- (1:01:07) Crying, lying. More betrayed people…
- (1:21:12) When she’s crying, she’s lying: “I was angry…”
- (1:24:17) JLP: Time to start living: Welcome betrayal
- (1:31:01) Emotions confirm the thoughts. Crying alone?
- (1:38:05) Acting on emotions? “Jesus wept”?
- (1:41:35) Heaven on Earth: Stay with it…
- (1:46:43) BQ: Making decisions?
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Church Notes 5/4/25
📖 Biblical Question: Can you make a conscious decision?
1 Welcome… Should we be grateful?
(0:00:00) Small talk about something… (0:01:40) Welcome
(0:02:07) Ryan: Should we be grateful? (0:04:33) JLP: Not the right way to be thankful… (0:05:45) JLP: In the kingdom of hell, people get what they deserve
(0:07:53) Anthony: God asked Adam, Where are you? And: Who told you that? I get the same questions. Same thing as the garden in each of us. Amazing. Stay with it.
2 Either Good or Evil: Destroy words
(0:09:29) JLP monologue: You’re either on the side of good or evil. All people are afraid to live.
Today, I want to destroy words. (0:11:28) If you don’t destroy words… you’re afraid of words, controlled by words.
(0:12:15) Woman playing with her kid, and she said the “Nicaragua” word … Separate from ‘Equal Rights’ people | JLP Fri 5-2-25 (timestamp 1:30:40) … A man and woman chime in…
(0:15:13) JLP: That word is just a word. You can only control a person if they’re afraid. … Children of God…. Slut, OK, fine! (0:17:11) N-word was made to make the DEI and govt-dependent people to get money and power. Mad and controlled.
(0:18:04) If you have anger, you’re hateful, and on the side of evil. (0:18:58) Angry people sneak around and gossip, and play games, and put on a front. It’s not real. Either on the side of good or evil.
3A Ever betrayed anyone?
(0:20:21) Q: Anyone ever betrayed anyone? Everybody!
(0:21:26) Betrayed someone out of love? … others…
(0:24:18) Kat: For the person’s sake, supposedly to help them.
(0:25:59) Black sweater (not blue) – I’m sure I’ve betrayed someone, but can’t think of it. (0:26:32) Cheyenne… (0:27:19) One of the Korean guys… I felt justified.
(0:28:00) (Derrick, don’t walk like you’re black! Like you’re Leroy! Walk a little faster, man! Laughing) … Shayan (sp) betraying women, wanted to be alpha… (0:29:52) Another man chasing women or money, blinded by desire. I thought it was right for me. I’m against betrayal.
(0:31:45) Man: I betrayed my brother, and he gave me repercussions, it ruined our relationship completely. Hurts… I did it out of my own selfishness. No excuse, being young.
(0:33:22) A woman betrayed her father … Her mother’s behest
(0:35:15) Ryan: I liked my friend’s girlfriend. She and I were dishonest with him. (0:37:14) People don’t forget. They’ll pretend, but they haven’t.
(0:37:29) You look like you betrayed! Just joking… Young lady betrayed her father a few months ago, haven’t gone to him….
(0:41:07) Revenge…
3B Treat each other in an evil way
(0:42:35) Mother: Ego… Protecting my self-image, reputation … Didn’t feel great
(0:43:47) JLP: What do you think about the fact that human beings treat each other in such an evil way? Mother continues… Then someone betrayed me.
(0:45:33) JLP: What you’re doing to others, you’re doing it to you. Even while you’re doing it to others, you’re burning. No way around it.
(0:46:16) Can you betray someone with your thoughts? Yep… Smiling in your face…
(0:47:00) Raymond was sleeping… I betrayed someone because they betrayed me.
(0:47:55) Vanessa… making promises to grandma not to smoke pot… Betrayed husband? …
3C Mother and son
(0:49:48) First-timer Graciela (sp) … Grace and Mercy Mondays… I feel like I betray God when I don’t read the Bible and pray. People anger me, and then I’m sinning.
(0:51:40) Joins with her son… Why haven’t you forgiven your mother? Jesse asks the mother… Trying to work through that anger, feeling her mother betrayed her, and it hurts a lot. … Gotta be able to dump her. (0:54:31) Do you know how to give her the finger? Put her in an old folks home. Forget about her. Honor your parents means don’t resent her. It doesn’t mean taking care of her.
3D Ever been betrayed?
(0:55:31) Ever been betrayed? Ryan: I lost myself. Went down a dark path. (0:57:11) A woman: Hurt, lost … Nigerian gal…
(0:58:16) The gal who’d betrayed her father has been betrayed, and told her friends: It felt good for them to feel bad for me. A whole show… now I don’t take it personally. I let it go. No big deal.
(0:59:17) Doug (1:00:14) Adriana: I don’t feel like i ever have been… (1:00:40) Gal: Angry, disappointed I lost the friendship: I thought I had a good friend in you.
3E When she’s crying, she’s lying?
(1:01:07) When she’s crying, she’s lying… Clarity? JLP story: Are you that n— on the radio? Are you black? He gave me some free BBQ, Mac N Cheese… Idk why I told you that…
(1:02:41) Bless: I felt lost, more than I was lying. (1:04:15) JLP: I’m not trying to help when I say it. I’m laughing. But sometimes it does help them. Bless: I had to think about it deeply. Lying to yourself and God. The body just does it.
(1:05:06) Man from Missouri loves mowing and listening to us talking about our problems. (1:05:57) Shayan (sp) (1:06:27) Man who betrayed his bro, can’t think of a time he’s been betrayed.
(1:06:50) Pearl: I didn’t see it coming. Couldn’t believe he did that. Affect you? Hurt. (1:07:22) Thought of a time I betrayed… I said some stuff, friend was annoying me. I didn’t really mean it.
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More betrayed
(1:08:49) Kat: Life lesson, my best friend, anyone could do it to me (1:09:38) Cheyenne had money stolen by family … (1:10:19) Raymond: Felt stupid, like I should’ve known better. (1:10:34) JLP: There’s always signs, but we ignore them.
(1:10:54) Mother: Felt ashamed. Angry, ashamed. Daughter knew, but was told to keep it secret. Forgive your betrayers? Yes.
(1:12:51) Man realized people don’t give a d— about you… How’s your pain? Slow going. Stop thinking about it. Don’t call it you. … I felt betrayed by my own body. I thought I was taking care of myself. And my body said f— you.
(1:15:39) Hake was mad (1:16:59) Derrick (1:18:05) Anchor Baby … human beings are a mess! (1:18:59) Franky: it still hurts. Devil reminds me.
(1:19:33) Rochelle. ….
4 When she’s crying, she’s lying
(1:21:12) Pearl: When she’s crying, she’s lying. So true. Bless: What if you’re alone? We have a tendency to view ourselves as victims. Lying to yourself… Kat was angry at first, used to cry every day.
5 Time to start living: Welcome betrayal
(1:24:17) JLP: If you can conquer this, you’re on your way to conquer the world… Invite, welcome, hope for, let it happen… let people betray you. Welcome it. Feel the pain of it. Hear it. Don’t run from it. Don’t get mad about it. Stop protecting your ego.
(1:27:01) Like the N-word… it means nothing! It was demons called “betrayal.” It was never you. (1:27:52) Let yourself feel disappointed, ashamed… The reason she’s crying: There’s no you to cry. It’s about attention, to control someone, to get what your ego wants. The real you has never cried one tear, never felt betrayed at all, never had fear, jealousy, envy, strife. … Live. thoughts are lies.
5B Emotions confirm the thoughts
(1:31:01) Adriana: Living? Serving good or evil? Can you live and be aware whom you’re serving?
(1:32:45) You can’t have emotions without thoughts … Emotions confirm the thoughts … If you catch the thoughts, they’ll pass by. (1:34:39) You want to see. Be present. The greatest sin other than forgetfulness is to stop seeing. DOn’t fight thoughts or emotions: Just see them, and do nothing about it. The Devil tells you to fight them. Don’t call them you.
(1:35:30) Ego, you’ve got to let it go — Adriana the rapper SoundCloud https://soundcloud.com/loctuz
(1:36:25) Bless… even crying in the shower…
5C Acting on emotions? Jesus wept?
(1:38:05) Acting on emotions — never do that. Love one another, not hating one another.
(1:39:34) What about “Jesus wept”? The right kind of compassion cry.
5D Heaven on Earth
(1:41:35) Man: Heaven at hand, here now — the other churches give you heaven after you die. JLP: Every time you get angry, you put Christ back on the cross. … Worship in spirit and truth. Practice staying present: Silent Prayer.
5E Making decisions
(1:46:43) BQ: Can you make a conscious decision? Ladies answer… Never get angry again or feel bad. Make a decision: See how it goes, Pearl. You can’t make a conscious or unconscious decision. Evil makes all of your decisions?
REMINDERS…
- 2025 theme/assignment: Practice being present.
- 2024 theme: Want for nothing.
- 2024 assignment: Don’t let the thoughts bully you.
- 10/13/24 Daily Assignment: 24hrs: Don’t judge with words, looks, emotions, or thoughts.
- 8/25/24 Assignment: For one week, let the only evil you think of be your own.
- 8/25/24 try this: Never argue — with anyone.
- 9/1/24 Assignment: Completely surrender to thoughts. Feel it. Take the pain.
- 9/1/24 Assignment for Southern gal: For one week, don’t argue with anyone.
- 9-8-24 and 9-15-24 assignment: Don’t trust the thought. Let it overwhelm you.
- March 10-17, 2024 assignment: Get rid of your heroes. Trust no one.
- May 19-26, 2024 assignment: If you feel anything, remember: It’s just a thought! No meaning.
- Jun 2-9, 2024 assignment/discussion: Watch the different demons inside you.
- Assignment from JLP show (Thu 6/20/24) Practice staying present.
- Late 2023 assignment: Notice the mind repeats itself, and that it’s all about self.
- Late 2023 assignment: Sit four minutes in your room in silence.
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