28 Sep Never think about yourself | Church 9/28/25
Assignment and Biblical Question: What would happen if you never thought about yourself again? Charlie Kirk’s wife? Only God forgives.
Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, September 28, 2025
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TIMESTAMPS
(0:00:00) – 01 – Small talk, “drunk,” welcome
(0:05:55) – 02 – Shootings: The new norm
(0:07:42) – 03 – Assignment: Not thinking about yourself
(0:27:53) – 04 – Thoughts: demons in your house. Snapping out of it?
(0:38:35) – 05 – Experts… “not gonna be able to do it.” Mimi crying
(0:53:49) – 06 – “Being a B—” Letting go of ego. Evil in women.
(1:09:10) – 07 – More assignment feedback… Obey your husband?
(1:25:31) – 08 – “I believed her.” Charlie Kirk’s wife, “I forgive him.”
(1:30:41) – 09 – JLP on BQ: No you to think about! It’s only thoughts.
(1:36:28) – 10 – Showcase personality. God allows you to see.
(1:46:17) – 11 – “We are Charlie Kirk.” How to give up… “It’s hard.”
(1:59:11) – 12 – Feedback: The real you. “EGO.” Horrible human beings.
(2:05:20) – 13 – JLP: You don’t have to want for anything. Closing
CLIPS
Human beings can’t forgive: Why Charlie Kirk’s wife is wrong (4-min) YouTube | Rumble
There is no self to think about. (10-min) YouTube | Rumble
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CHURCH NOTES 9/28/25
🎈🎂 Francisco’s b-day this past week!
📖 Biblical Question: What would happen if you never thought about yourself again?
📝 Assignment: For one week (or month for the ladies), never think about yourself again.
🗓️ Announcement: Men’s Forum FIRST Thurs, Oct 2nd, 2025, 7pm at BOND, L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/
01 – Small talk, “drunk,” welcome
(0:00:00) Start — small talk about a man getting drunk over the weekend. (0:01:55) Welcome … Jesse has a blazer on again.
(0:04:14) Raymond talks about the burden of Hell…
02 – Shootings: The new norm
(0:05:55) Shootings over the weekend, including at a Mormon church this morning… (0:07:01) The new norm…
03 – Assignment / BQ: Not thinking about yourself
(0:07:42) A man says it was freeing a little bit… no conflict, confusion.
(0:10:16) Another man Shayan (sp) realized how many thoughts about himself come.
(0:12:05) Young lady: Biblical Question / Assignment: “Easy.” A worry, she’d drop it — it’s like you’re a kid again. (0:13:03) funeral… crying, lying … (0:15:02) She doesn’t cry over a kid who’s wayward anymore. (0:16:01) When you say “Freeing,” what do you mean?
(0:16:54) Man attempted not to think about himself. It’s the same as staying present: Every single thought is about yourself. After minutes of not thinking of himself, he’d fall back into it.
(0:18:22) Another man: This week was challenging — with money involved. He drifts in and out of thinking about himself. Although he thinks he’s not thinking about himself, he notices that he is thinking of himself.
(0:20:19) A prior man disagrees on something: “I think the world is gonna get better.” Although he agrees that it’ll get worse, he thinks the pain will get people to look for a way out.
(0:22:26) A third man says it felt like he was unconscious the whole week. He thought he was doing it this morning…? But this morning he felt like he was doing it wrong all week.
(0:24:09) Mimi didn’t notice she’d forgotten… So complicated today.
04 – Thoughts are demons in your house. Snapping out of it?
(0:27:53) Thoughts feel like narrations. JLP: They’re called evil demons. (0:28:46) JLP: Your mind is your house, and in your house there are demons in the attic.
(0:29:05) Shayan: Snapping out of it a thousand times vs doing nothing about the thoughts? Doug answers and converses… (0:30:46) Did you do the assignment? Doug stutters. (Come to the front, ladies!)
(0:31:19) Doug, I tried — I didn’t do it very well. Mostly in my thoughts, and very rarely aware.
(0:33:07) Back to the “snapping out of it” question… Alexis: I’m the wrong person to ask. “I did the exact opposite of the assignment.” What a beta. … “setting my house on fire, in a way…” (0:36:09) JLP jokes about Alexis dressing like the man next to her. While you’re out looking for sugar, somebody stealing your honey!
(0:36:43) A man gives feedback… (0:37:10) JLP: Become aware of what your body’s doing — walking, your hands…. Don’t just stay in your head. Shayan
05 – Experts, Raymond, Mimi: “not gonna be able to do it”
(0:38:35) Hake… (0:41:39) Bill did a little bit. (0:43:06) Derrick… (0:45:16) Raymond… I failed at it…
(0:46:13) Mimi: Pressure: “You’re not going to be able to do it.” (0:47:17) Who told you
(0:48:47) Nick… When he was offended or happy… I was able to do it when I wanted to, and when I noticed it.
(0:50:29) Mimi: “That was another thought that kept me in hell.” (0:51:06) Crying, seem crazy. “You are crazy.” JLP mocks how Charlie Kirk’s wife cried, dabbing her makeup on her face. “All this work …” (0:52:27) “I forgive him!” Mimi: “It feels good to cry.” A thrill. (0:53:09) JLP: That’s the problem, feeling something. You’re your own problem.
06 – Being a b— … “letting go of my ego.” Evil in women…
(0:53:49) Dolores (sp) started after Women’s Forum … She admitted to herself: “You’re being a b—,” hateful… Started calling people.
(1:00:07) A young lady: I just started working on myself this year, hearing you from my husband. Eve story made it make sense. “Letting go of my ego.” Don’t be in your head so much.
(1:01:16) Mimi, did it help? How?
(1:02:07) Back to the gal. Do you see women are evil? “Every day… Feel sad for the youth.”
(1:03:15) Her husband says she mostly but not always is obedient. She doesn’t know what to think about it. Is he crazy? “Sometimes.”
(1:04:01) I didn’t know how to stop thinking about myself.
(1:04:53) Meredith heard of us from her boyfriend — first-timer. “It sounds difficult…” Are you able to stop thinking about you? “I’ve been trying to stop the thoughts… I try to put myself in better situations to help people… to care about other people… I’m a very giving person. I think it’s the right thing… what I’ve been taught” by society. Are you a good person? “I’m kind.” (1:07:12) JLP: Rosario, she’s here!
(1:07:25) Another gal: “I haven’t tried. I haven’t considered it.” Are you a good person? “That’s a trick question… The real me, my life force is perfect, not good or bad.” What do you mean?
07 – More assignment feedback.
(1:09:10) Jim (I think) got more productive. “I just stayed busy.”
(1:10:10) Second man: I didn’t know about it. I wouldn’t be able to do it. I always put myself first. Survival.
(1:10:53) Third man: We all tried. Quieting thoughts completely.
(1:11:29) Francisco: Overwhelmed, in my head. JLP: It’s his birthday: 64.
(1:12:14) Another gal…
(1:13:32) Yet another gal: Maria… “after I went to the hospital.” Medication, hearing things. (1:15:54) Somebody told her it’s a gift that she hears things. JLP: Your friend is crazy. Sometimes the clouds’ shapes are reassuring.
(1:16:53) Her mother didn’t know about it. BQ…
(1:19:08) Do you obey your husband? Not always. Think you have to agree to obey? Why? “I think I should insist on what’s right for both of us…. Sometimes I don’t agree with his ideas.” You love him? God? Why don’t you obey…
(1:21:51) Man says assignment was easier during work.
(1:22:39) The man with the wife and daughter… (1:23:39) “I will pray for that” — his wife obeying him. He respects that women have their sixth sense, gut feeling of situations that men don’t have. JLP: Extra bit of hell in them?
(1:24:23) Shayan: Helps you make you aware.
08 – “I believed Charlie Kirk’s wife.”
(1:25:31) Man: No, I was busy watching something. Wanted to agree it’s not gonna get better. And he’s an optimist. I believed her when she said she forgives.
(1:27:47) Jesse reenacts it… (1:28:50) Does she have to say it in front of everyone?
(1:29:12) The man: How do YOU not think of yourself?
(1:29:30) JLP: We can’t forgive. … Make her president?!
09 – JLP on BQ: No you to think about! It’s just thoughts.
(1:30:41) JLP: If you get a moment of not thinking about yourself, you’ll realize there’s no self to think about. There is no you to think about!
(1:32:44) Crazy to spend a lifetime thinking there’s a me to think about, to protect, etc. …
(1:35:50) There’s nothing there. Your whole self is just an illusion.
10 – Showcase personality. God lets you see.
(1:36:28) Dolores (sp) remembers our showcase personality that we’re caught up in. (1:37:45) Trying to cover up something.
(1:38:59) JLP on Erika Kirk: Showcase personality
(1:39:42) Don’t forget to be present. Everything would disappear. It’s an illusion that you’re a sinner. (1:40:46) Be present so you can see reality.
(1:41:31) Man asks: Does God do all things for us? JLP: You’re born into a crazy family, and become angry, evil, in the wilderness of imagination — lost, judging self and others. God allows you to see that. (1:43:26) The man speaks more… JLP: God doesn’t think you’re nice. (1:44:51) You and God are one already. But you don’t see that. (1:45:43) You can go up on a roof and shoot somebody — the Devil can make you do it. You’re not in control.
11 – “We are Charlie Kirk.” How do you give up? “It’s hard.”
(1:46:17) JLP: When that woman was carrying on about Charlie, it was all an act. And you fell for it because you were in an emotional false state of being, an illusion. JLP: “I am Charlie Kirk.” or “We are Charlie Kirk.” (Brave, Google) You better start tryna be you. “I am Malcolm X.” That’s evil! Stop letting the world make you do this crazy stuff. Overcome the world in your mind. You can.
(1:48:34) Young lady asks: How do you give up? Doug responds… (1:51:20) She speaks again. (1:51:41) JLP: Example, emotional, beta with women … Whatever issues. See it and do nothing about it.
(1:55:25) Did that help? “Not really.” You know how mean you are. And you don’t wanna be. Real mean. “Sometimes.” It’s all in your head. If you can see those thoughts before you act them out, they disappear. “I started working on myself 2021… It’s getting harder… Harder to be aware and catch it before it escalates.” JLP… (1:57:17) It’s not harder for you. It’s hard for them. Bring them to the light. They’re demons. (1:58:39) JLP promises her… stop identifying, and let the light fight for you.
12 – Feedback: The real you. “EGO.” Horrible human beings.
(1:59:11) Mimi: This is a hospital. I have amnesia. I’ve forgotten who I am. (2:00:07) JLP: You do get clues who you are when you stay present.
(2:01:08) E.G.O. — Edging God Out. 100
(2:01:32) Alexis … (2:02:05) Meredith: Did this help? In what way, a little way? (2:03:30) JLP: Human beings are… (2:04:20) Stop being mean to Rosario. He doesn’t love you, but stop thinking about that.
13 – JLP closing: You don’t have to want for anything
(2:05:20) JLP: You don’t have to want for anything… (2:08:30) Bye, all!
REMINDERS / Assignments…
- 2025 theme/assignment: Practice being present.
- Never think about yourself again. (for 1 wk/mo, BQ/Women’s Forum Sep 18-21, 2025)
- Don’t overreact to your anger this weekend (JLP show Fri 8/29/25)
- Be nothing for three days. And on the third day, see if you rise. (Fri, July 25, 2025)
- Communicate with few words. (June 29, 2025, didn’t mention)
- Don’t agree or disagree with anyone. And see what happens. (June 2025)
- Quietly live with the hell in you (May/June 2025)
- Write down all the stabs you get (May 11-18, 2025)
- Be a single-minded person, not a double-minded person. (BQ/Women’s Forum Apr 13-27, 2025)
- Don’t judge with words, looks/eyes, gestures, emotions, or thoughts. (Oct 2024)
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