08 Mar Refusing to Give Up False Feelings of Life | Church 3/8/26
Iran war: Thoughts? Kingdom of heaven is within. Don’t play nice with the devil. Don’t judge: Be aware. A “mama” father’s false feelings.
Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, March 8, 2026
|| See clips, links, and notes below.
📖 OLD Biblical Question: Why do you refuse to give up your false feelings of life?
📖 NEW Biblical Question: How is it that a wife can make her husband sleep on the couch, instead of the other way around?
📝 Assignment: Don’t think about you at all this week.
TIMESTAMPS
- (0:00:00) – 00 – Small talk off-mic; Late start; Welcome
- (0:01:41) – 1A – Iran War: Get it off your chest
- (0:07:24) – 1B – JLP on Iran war
- (0:09:14) – 02 – JLP: The kingdom of heaven is within you
- (0:20:58) – 3A – Question: Jesus died from the ego
- (0:26:37) – 3B – Jesus didn’t judge. Stop playing God.
- (0:29:53) – 3C – Return to present
- (0:31:59) – 4A – Q: Walking away from an argument
- (0:44:12) – 4B – Nice devil is the worst devil! Grandma demon
- (0:48:08) – 5A – Are you good or evil? Mama didn’t believe I ate the peach!
- (0:55:19) – 5B – I thought my mom was genuine, nice
- (0:58:05) – 06 – Being aware without judging
- (1:03:06) – 7A – Forget the word “discernment.” Christian word.
- (1:09:54) – 7B – Ticked, Couldn’t find parking. No roadblocks in life.
- (1:13:58) – 08 – 87yo father on his son; Raymond on the marathon
- (1:22:12) – 9A – Need more anger? Paying too much insurance
- (1:26:39) – 9B – Angry at brother? Who’s worse: the thief or the person judging?
- (1:34:37) – 9C – Father, let your son be.
- (1:37:09) – 10A – Don’t I have a right to judge? Mother and not-real-daughter
- (1:42:52) – 10B – Not-real-daughter, their friend
- (1:46:45) – 10C – Forgive your mother. Leave your daughter alone.
- (1:52:04) – 11A – BQ: Why refuse to give up false feelings of life?
- (1:58:27) – 11B – Feeling for daughter who doesn’t want it
- (2:01:52) – 11C – JLP on BQ: False feelings. Assignment: Don’t think of you.
- (2:06:22) – 12 – Judgment? Being helpful, being used, is mama, not God
- (2:12:41) – 13 – Job of a father? Wanting for your son’s sake is for you, not for him.
CLIPS
Trump’s War in Iran: Get It Off Your Chest (8-mins) YouTube – Rumble
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CHURCH NOTES 3/8/26
📖 Biblical Question: Why do you refuse to give up your false feelings of life?
📖 NEW Biblical Question: How is it that a wife can make her husband sleep on the couch, instead of the other way around?
📝 Assignment: Don’t think about you at all this week.
00 – Small talk off-mic. Late start. Welcome
(0:00:00) – Start (0:01:19) Intro
1A – Iran War: Get it off your chest
(0:01:41) – Iran War: Multiple guys at church are not happy.
(0:04:36) Some of the ladies don’t have strong opinions or know much about it.
(0:06:34) Doug: Sometimes you have to
1B – JLP on Iran war
(0:07:24) – JLP: Neither for nor against… daddy’s home, tough… been mama up till now.
02 – Jesus taught what we forgot
(0:09:14) – Life of Jesus, came as a teacher, what we forgot, what was lost.
(0:11:46) The Kingdom is at hand, right here, right now. Look within. We’ve been taught wrong. Religion established to control the people, make sure they’re never free. Set us up to control us. Don’t want you free. But in reality you’re already free, but don’t know it.
(0:12:58) When you’re afraid, lonely, etc… looking everywhere but within for God. (0:13:52) The Catholic thing
(0:15:30) Salvation is about love … Satan doesn’t want to let you go. He makes you worry but it’s not you worrying.
(0:17:10) Who ever decided to be a sinner?
(0:18:49) Salvation is here, at hand. Do it now. Don’t know what’ll happen when you die.
3A – Question: Jesus died from the ego
(0:20:58) – Q: Donyale: Jesus died an “ego death”?
(0:21:59) JLP: Similarly to Jesus we can’t blame anyone at all. He was an example.
(0:23:28) Why she asks… guilt rises up (0:24:11) JLP: You’ve never done anything wrong. The guilt is from the spirit of darkness, accusing you to make you feel bad. And you’ve identified with the pain.
3B – Jesus didn’t judge. Stop playing God.
(0:26:37) – JLP: The only thing you do differently from Jesus is you judge. Playing God keeps you from God.
(0:28:21) – We don’t know right from wrong. We only know wrong… (0:29:14) D: I will say, That’s not me judging.
3C – Return to present
(0:29:53) – Who wants to respond to that statement or Q? Man: Go right back to the present. There is no you.
4A – Q: Walking away from an argument
(0:31:59) – One last thing: Discussion on spiritual things… Person wasn’t seeking understanding. Donyale corrects herself saying “literally.” The person became combative: Where is that in the Bible? (0:33:37) – You’re being too nice to the Devil!
(0:34:58) – I didn’t want the person to think I was angry. Don’t feel like you have to set an example.
(0:36:08) – I still eat peanut butter and hot dogs. Can’t want that… Showcase personality, and it’s not real. Who is wanting to portray yourself? I thought I was doing the right thing? Who thought that?
(0:37:43) I feel like I should know… Explain myself to this person. (0:39:15) It feels like the right thing to do. (0:40:07) I can’t walk away from a person midstream! What’s reasonable about telling the Devil I gotta go now. Even if it’s the President. (0:41:12) – You don’t owe the Devil any respect at all.
(0:41:42) – Blind people see the person, but not the Demon in the person. They’ve been taught to respect the person.
(0:43:00) – I’m the one being controlled. You’re getting a thrill trying to show the Devil you’re right.
4B – Nice devil is the worst devil! Your grandmother was a demon
(0:44:12) – D: I was so kind, respectful, same as being angry.
(0:44:42) – JLP: In relationship … mothers will play nice.
(0:45:18) – D: my maternal grandmother. JLP: Your grandmother was a DEMON.
(0:46:18) – Want to be different, but don’t say what the difference is. Already have so many trillions of demons. No more identities.
(0:47:38) Stay with it.
5A – Are you good or evil? Mama didn’t believe I ate the peach!
(0:48:08) – Steven or Ealie (spelling?) from Gary, IN — Glen Park. Are you good or evil? It doesn’t make sense. I feel like I’m good, but… What’s good about you?
(0:52:24) – Mother gave me a peach… drama over she didn’t believe. Forgive her for that. She was evil!
(0:53:42) – Grandmother on my mother’s side was the greatest! How many people thought their mother was evil? Unless she’s working on herself…
(0:54:58) – From apples to peaches. Eve, mama.
5B – I thought my mom was genuine, nice
(0:55:19) – Another man speaks. My mom was genuine and nice, I thought. If I forgive her, does it cancel her being evil? It causes you to overcome her, but she’ll still be evil.
(0:57:31) – Showing is better than saying…
06 – Being aware without judging
(0:58:05) – How do you forgive without judging?
(0:59:11) – I watch what the GWH does without judgment. I don’t agree with the women hires, but don’t judge him for it.
(0:59:50) – Our judgments of the war. You’re right, they were JUDGING! They don’t know. Best to have no opinion… Most locked-down place. Be aware and cautious. Not hating. You can be aware without judging. You should be.
(1:01:32) – I feel like this kid’s a gigantic magnet. He can draw people into him. But he also has a repulsive force. Your son? Your daddy telling all your business. He has a good heart…
7A – Forget the word “discernment.” Christian word.
(1:03:06) – Another man: Difference between judgment and discernment? FORGET ABOUT THAT WORD. Christian will judge, but say they’re discernment. (1:04:09) JLP
(1:04:21) – JLP: Only one reason to think. Only one reason time to think. JLP stands up (his head is cropped off partly)
(1:06:32) – Man example of making a deal. (1:07:41) – You’re trying to Jew him down… Not like that … (1:08:20) – Those thoughts are not practical. The voices in your head.
(1:09:11) – …
7B – Ticked, Couldn’t find parking. No roadblocks in life.
(1:09:54) – Was in San Jose, redwood forest, going back into the city to park — became angered. Every time I tried to get a space, it seemed like there was something preventing it. Drove for like an hour. Got upset after a great day. (1:10:58) – Why didn’t you catch it right away?
(1:12:08) – There are no roadblocks in life. That’s in your head.
08 – 87yo father on his son. Raymond on the marathon
(1:13:58) – He’s 87, we gotta have patience. He wants help for his son.
(1:14:51) – Raymond. (1:15:49) – Marathon: The black community mad either way, whether it’s there or not! (1:16:25) – That situation didn’t make you judge
(1:17:29) – JLP: Eventually there will be no devil in you. All thoughts will be taken away from you. Stop thinking about you. (1:18:24) – Some people think anger is good! … Jesse explains about love.
(1:21:34) – The Light is Life. But you go into the darkness of thoughts, and try to make another life work for you.
9A – Need more anger? Paying too much insurance
(1:22:12) – Is your father right you have anger? Do you want help? What do you dislike about yourself? I’m overpaying… I’m at peace with it, meaning contented or complacent, more like… Can you get cheaper insurance without being angry? Why do you want to be like anyone?
(1:24:40) – Paying too much… I need to be angry, more anger in my life? What good is it doing you to be angry at all…
9B – Angry at brother? Who’s worse: thief or person judging?
(1:26:39) – Are you angry at your brother? (1:27:51) What good is it doing you? Inspire me to talk with my mother and bring the family back together… Why does it bother you if he doesn’t want that? (1:28:42) – He’s stealing from my parents. They don’t care! Why do you care about other people’s business?
(1:30:39) – You’re acting like Adam and Eve’s kids! (Cain and Abel) Jesus gonna ask you where’s your brother?
(1:31:32) – Brother, I’m judging. I’m wrong. I’m no better than you. Never trust an angry person. An angry person is evil.
(1:32:51) – Why haven’t you forgiven your father for not protecting you from your mother… You’re busy judging, not looking at yourself. Same happened to him.
(1:33:57) – Do you see you’re wrong for judging your brother, your father, … Stay with me, Satan!
9C – Father, let your son be.
(1:34:37) – Father, let him suffer until he’s ready. Don’t worry about him. (1:34:59) – He has nothing negative about his mother except for the silly peach story.
(1:35:52) – I wanna be… Jesse says…
10A – Don’t I have a right to judge? Mother and not-real-daughter
(1:37:09) – Sachko (spelling?) or Sachie (spelling) — I don’t get angry much. Why don’t you drop it? (1:39:04) – Don’t I have a right to judge anyone? (1:39:59) – Cry at night. Drop judgment.
(1:40:21) – Biggest challenge with daughter, 21. You’ve destroyed her.
(1:41:07) – Not-real-daughter in the back. (1:41:54) Don’t let Satan adopt you?
(1:42:17) – It’s a process to forgive your real mother?
10B – Not-real-daughter, their friend
(1:42:52) – What do you think about the way she screwed up her daughter. (1:43:49) – Not my business to tell her… I think I have told her, what I see went wrong. Do you see the mother as evil? Or good? Hold on, Satan. (1:44:47) – Yes, it’s not good. People have their own traumas.
(1:45:47) – Are you honest with your friends? Huh?
10C – Forgive your mother. Leave your daughter alone.
(1:46:45) – Forgive your mother. If your daughter has children, she’ll screw them up.
(1:48:10) Getting better? No, it’s not. You’re imposing. Why haven’t you left her alone?
(1:49:10) – You don’t have love — not one ounce; You’re calling evil good! (1:49:50) You’re walking around all cute, dressed up. That doesn’t cover up the evil! Don’t chase your daughter! You’re calling it love. That’s not love!
(1:51:50) – Tell her to stop chasing her daughter. Let me know if she yells at you!
11A – BQ: Why refuse to give up false feelings of life?
(1:52:04) – Y’all make me earn my money! BQ 📖 Biblical Question: Why do you refuse to give up your false feelings of life?
(1:53:31) Alexis: I don’t call them false. (1:53:56) Gal: Idk how – I love having goals and a plan. (1:55:51) This is the hospital. (1:56:07) Dolores…
(1:56:40) – Examples of false feelings (1:57:13) JLP: Anger, worry, resentment, fear, crying, doubt, loneliness, emptiness — to want for something is a false feeling. I wanted something so bad.
11B – Feeling bad for people who don’t want it
(1:58:27) – How do you feel about your daughter giving up? Feel anything about it? Inwardly, don’t feel bad for her at all. Don’t wish she would.
(2:00:55) – Hold onto your goals, and be lonely in a big house
(2:01:20) – Forgave mother? Young man…
11C – JLP on BQ: False feelings. Assignment
(2:01:52) – JLP on BQ: False feelings … (2:02:33) how you overcome: Forgive. You could go out and rape somebody. Don’t rape. The world will call you rapist, but God won’t. It’s the spirit of evil that made you do it. It was never you.
(2:03:38) – I was listening to people talk about the war… they put in all this other mean stuff to make it sound so bad, to influence you and control you, to take their side.
(2:05:01) – You’re not a sinner, not a saint; you are free; never done anything wrong, and couldn’t if you tried. Something else drove you. Stop calling it you.
(2:05:44) – Assignment: Do not think about you at all for one week. You’ll walk on water.
12 – Judgment? Being helpful, being used, is Mama, not God
(2:06:22) – Man’s question… (2:06:47) Question again? Feeling like I have to judge to protect myself or something… (2:08:03) JLP: What you’ll do… It’s not you judging. (2:09:29) – Work-related and family-related; fixing, installing things… Do they want you to help them? (2:10:36) Eagle Scout: In my nature to be helpful. Mama, not God.
(2:11:13) – Stop loving the thrill of being used! You love it…
13 – Wanting for your son’s sake is for you, not for him.
(2:12:41) – What a mess!
(2:12:59) – 87yo Eli (spelling?) asks for 10 more minutes. Leave your son alone, in his hell? Very difficult.
(2:14:26) – JLP: What you want for him, is for you, not for him. …
REMINDERS / Assignments…
- 2026 Theme: Endurance (since Church 1/4/26)
- 2026 Assignment: Be a doormat. (since Church 12/28/25)
- Rise to the 3rd, 30th, 50th or 100th floor, out of the basement (Church 2/15/26)
- Don’t think about you at all this week. (Church 3/8/26)
- Keep your mind where your body is, for one week. (After Church 3/1/26)
- Next time you cry, check yourself. (Church 3/1/26)
- Watch the Devil in you. (Church 2/1/26)
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