Assignment: Don’t think about you. Be responsible for your spiritual life. Why do you feel sorry for anyone? You’re already a child of God. Sleep on the couch? 

Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, March 15, 2026 

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• 📝 Assignment: Don’t think about you at all this week. 
• 🧐 What is your life all about? 
• 📖 Biblical Question: How is it that a wife can make her husband sleep on the couch, instead of the other way around? 
• 🗓️ Women’s Forum third Thurs, Mar 19, 2026, 7pm at BOND, L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/

TIMESTAMPS 

• (0:00:00) – 00 – Small talk off-mic, Welcome 
• (0:02:36) – 01 – Economy, Iran war, listening to the crowd 
• (0:04:33) – 2A – Assignment: Don’t think about you all week. Feedback 
• (0:17:30) – 2B – Satan never tells the truth. Assignment: Hake, etc. 
• (0:25:46) – 3A – Be responsible. She’s lazy like Hake. Devil wants you to give up 
• (0:32:50) – 3B – It’s not all about me: Being a doormat, with no opinion 
• (0:37:14) – 3C – Freeing to take responsibility ONLY for self, not others 
• (0:44:22) – 4A – I felt sorry for my dying mother 
• (0:50:32) – 4B – It’s all about you. Unlearn. The real person is not suffering. 
• (0:59:33) – 05 – He forgot the assignment?! Vicious coworker 
• (1:08:02) – 06 – A mother and her grown daughters: Less pressure 
• (1:10:55) – 7A – Southern gal: Don’t be angry about situation: Spiritually responsible 
• (1:15:55) – 7B – Devil treats everyone the same way! “I thought I was a good person.” 
• (1:19:40) – 8A – Q: What is your life all about? 
• (1:23:04) – 8B – He’s mad Iranian made him move his bike 
• (1:28:29) – 8C – Money brings peace? Helping family? 
• (1:31:37) – 9A – “You complain so much” I want to be a child of God 
• (1:38:19) – 9B – You’re already a son of God. You just deviated off the path. 
• (1:43:26) – 9C – JLP: Your life is not about your happenings. We own everything. 
• (1:52:46) – 10 – BQ: Wives make husbands sleep on the couch
• (2:00:45) – 11 – JLP: Love. Closing

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CHURCH NOTES 3/15/26 

📖 Biblical Question: How is it that a wife can make her husband sleep on the couch, instead of the other way around? 

📝 Assignment: Don’t think about you at all this week. 

🧐 What is your life all about? 

🗓️ Women’s Forum third Thurs, Mar 19, 2026, 7pm at BOND, L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/  

00 – Small talk, Welcome 

(0:00:00) Start (0:01:47) Intro (0:02:02) Welcome 

01 – Economy, War, Listening to the Crowd 

(0:02:36) – People tripping, listening to the crowd, not their own mind. 

(0:03:56) You tripping? 

2A – Assignment: Don’t think about you all week. Feedback 

(0:04:33) – Assignment: Don’t think about yourself. (0:05:02) Raymond: I did it, and I failed… 

(0:06:20) – Another man would catch himself, and back off. Who were you thinking about? (0:06:52) – Last night, I had to talk about myself 

(0:10:12) – Nick started it on Thursday. 

(0:11:28) – Doug (0:14:27) So common to be in my head… 

(0:15:12) – Doug’s situation at work, he found out it was nothing like (Don’t sit there!) (0:15:53) – Mental torment… It was easy once I dealt with the situation… 

2B – Satan never tells the truth. Assignment feedback 

(0:17:30) – JLP: Imagine waiting a month: Don’t worry… Satan will never tell you the truth about the outcome. Continue working on: There’s no you. Doug: All thoughts are all lies, all the time. You’re right. 

(0:19:45) Hake did the opposite… (0:20:52) – Hake very lazy… 

(0:21:23) – Man didn’t know. 

(0:21:38) – Donyale … She and husband selling a house; her mother died. He’s working on himself. 

(0:24:33) – Alex. 

3A – Young lady lazy like Hake 

(0:25:46) – Miss “I ain’t got time, I wanna have my career” — I thought about you all week. Jesse said something on the radio that I don’t wanna take responsibility like Hake is lazy. Devil wants you to give up… 

(0:30:20) – “Damn…,” she says. Be responsible for your physical AND spiritual life. At first the kid doesn’t wanna be responsible. But after a while…. Be spiritually responsible for your own life. 

3B – It’s not all about me: Being a doormat, with no opinion 

(0:32:50) – Example of being not all about you. Alyssa (?) job situation. If I’m not thinking about myself, I’m just doing my job, what I’m supposed to do. Being a doormat and not having opinions. 

(0:34:23) – JLP follows-up: You can’t have ANY idea at all. Let both imposters pass… The first young lady ate up a compliment like chocolate cake, about doing good work. Be responsible for your spiritual life. Going to the beach like Hake, or to the mountains. Escaping. Be present. Silent Prayer. Know where you are and what you’re doing at all times. 

(0:35:43) – Proud that mother didn’t give a hoot? “Damn she doesn’t care.” 

(0:36:19) – Mother Dolores would be angry if anyone told her she was hovering. 

3C – Freeing to take responsibility ONLY for self, not others 

(0:37:14) – JLP: I love knowing we’re not supposed to be in our children or anyone’s business! Not supposed to care one iota about it. Isn’t that freeing? Story of a lady in a wheelchair: Employee said, “Ohh!” My uncle real sick. My wife’s preacher came and prayed on me. I had to re-pray to make sure his prayer didn’t mess me up! Beautiful to take responsibility for oneself. 

(0:39:28) – Dolores: Idk what to pray for … 

(0:40:54) – I failed at the assignment this week. (0:42:17) – Everyone’s life so different, circumstances, situations — and we have no clue. (0:43:55) – JLP: Fun working on self. Jesse to the young gal: I know where you live! 

4A – I felt sorry for my dying mother 

(0:44:22) – Brothers… Donyale – Feeling sorry for people? Mother in agony; she’d scream at a touch. Isn’t it natural to have compassion? (0:45:51) – What did you feel? Sad. Bad. 

(0:47:17) – Who told you you were feeling bad? “You’re gonna say the Devil.” (funny) JLP: You and the Devil were communicating, and you didn’t know it. What good did it do the lady? Donyale: We see things. Idk if it’s because you said it, or because I know it. I came back to the present. 

(0:49:09) – I watch these murder shows, mystery shows, about little children, or abused pet: Dog or cat! You feel sorry for an abused dog, too? Elderly, children, and animals… 

(0:49:54) – Jesse… stay with me! “I don’t cry.” 

4B – It’s all about you. Unlearn. The real person is not suffering. Judgment. 

(0:50:32) – Respond to that! Jason(?) It’s all about me. 

(0:51:45) JLP: He’s right … Unlearn the training. 

(0:52:58) – Jesus… Practice being aware at all times. All ego. 

​​(0:53:58) – JLP: My fave uncle. Weird to see him sick. (0:55:33) – I asked my uncle what it’s like, if he thinks of Jesus differently, and if he’s afraid to die, looking at death’s door. (0:56:14) – Donyale: Dem, Repub, devil-devil, talking with my husband… We/I’ve been lied-to about everything… Unlearn everything. We will see the real person, but don’t try to make yourself. 

(0:57:50) – JLP: Judging one another, we’re judging God. She says she feels fear. (0:58:32) – JLP: When you catch the thoughts, it’s not you judging. Don’t feel anything. Catch it and let the thoughts pass. “I’m afraid of the repercussions of judging.” If you don’t call it you, YOU’re not judging. The thoughts are. 

05 – He forgot the assignment?! Vicious coworker 

(0:59:33) – Eric FORGOT the assignment! Coworker can be vicious and got mad at me. It forced me to watch myself and her. He didn’t vent to his brother either. Did the assignment on accident. 

(1:03:31) – Man says sometimes it’s a whisper, sometimes a roar. 

(1:04:14) – Doug on that work thing last month. People say, “I failed the assignment.” I didn’t fail, because eventually I caught myself. You’re not failing if you’re catching it! Very convincing thought, “You failed.” 

(1:05:28) – Jesse watching Doug suffer. 

(1:05:40) – Marissa (sp) on the assignment… (1:06:18) – Watch yourself if you’re crying. 

(1:06:55) – Kurt, did you do the Assignment? “My employees.” Every time I heard you say it, I said, I wish it was that easy. (1:07:44) – Franky didn’t do it. 

06 – A mother and her grown daughters: Less pressure 

(1:08:02) – JLP: Don’t let these people talk to you about God! Q to mother… 

(1:10:01) – Marissa (sp) feels less pressure from mother. 

7A – Southern gal: Don’t be angry about situation 

(1:10:55) – I saw Satan walk in! What’s wrong? Southern gal did the assignment. Devil attacking… (1:12:32) – Moving situation… It is what it is. Don’t be angry about it at all. Angry about it? Don’t be. 

(1:14:35) – JLP: You walked in like you were in pain! My sister said same thing: She doesn’t hear cussing at night. She doesn’t know what it’s like! 

7B – Devil treats everyone the same way! “I thought I was a good person.” 

(1:15:55) – Doug — JLP: the Devil treats everybody the same! Chinese, ooh! Doug’s situation, feeling it in his body, and seeing the same in them, what he was going through! Squirming, freaking out. That thing in them is freaking out! 

(1:18:25) – Alex’s good buddy on a ventilator — been meaning to visit him. “I’d want somebody to see me if I [were there]. I thought I was a good person.” JLP relates with his uncle situation. Die from the ego to be free! 

8A – Q: What is your life all about? 

(1:19:40) – Q: What is your life all about? Raymond… (1:20:51) – Young man, 22, son of one of the gals who comes to church… “I’d catch myself.” He’s 22. Stay with it, and avoid a lot of hell. 

(1:22:07) – Woman: Defeating the Devil. How? I spend more time thinking about what I’m going to have for lunch, dinner, preparing meals, than praying, etc. 

8B – He’s mad Iranian made him move his bike… 

(1:23:04) – Alex(?) Avoiding trouble, avoiding problems, how? “By avoiding it!” He goes off about the Iranian next door who made him move his bike. They’re my clients! 

(1:27:10) – Donyale: My life is about nothing. Staying present… 

8C – Money brings happiness? To help family?

(1:28:29) – Peace? Or thrills. Hoping you’d tell the truth. Independent. “I wanna have a great, comfortable life.” She insists money brings happiness, peace… (1:29:50) – JLP: That’s how I came up with this. Loaded people… “I’m not superficial like that…” You wanna make money to do things for your family? 

9A – “You complain so much” I want to be a daughter of God 

(1:31:37) – Southern gal: My sister pointed out you complain so much, not showing signs you trust God! (1:32:51) – JLP: Never want to be a little girl / child of God again. Shame on you. She says children of God know there’s no problems. (1:34:00) JLP: You don’t know that yet. Why do you want to be a child of God? You’re tryna use God! Isn’t that why we’re here? (funny) 

(1:35:01) – Man can relate with her thought, asking God’s help: “I’m tired of this.” You’ve been begging God? Same thing goes through her head. “My hands are out. Pick me up.” 

(1:36:31) – Jason(?) can relate: Lay down your weapons… “I struggle with this too.” (1:37:22) Why you struggle if you know this? 

9B – You’re already a daughter of God. You just deviated off the path. 

(1:38:19) – JLP asks them: Do you understand you don’t have to fight? (1:38:48) – What makes you think you’re not already a daughter of God? “…agony.” Jesse laughs. When you’re in your head, who do you belong to? God. You just deviated into your mind. “I’m in His car…” 

(1:41:52) – JLP: The worst thing you can do is forget to be present. The Devil works hard to get you to leave the Light… 

9C – JLP: Your life is not about your happenings. We own everything. 

(1:43:26) – JLP: People think their life is about their happenings (HAPPENINGS, NOT HAPPINESS). … You’ve never been that important to anyone — not even the Arabs or Iranians. Your life is not about your happiness. Don’t think it happened to you. “My mama died today.” or “My cat/dog.” That’s dumb! … Hake clarifies: Not “happiness” but “happenings”… 

(1:48:15) – Stop begging the Lord and bugging your sister! Donyale quick comment: She was on vision boards, cars, computers, got everything, but it wasn’t right! It’s from God. 

(1:49:35) – JLP adds to it: I’m part of this whole world. Heaven, earth, us — we’re all one, but we don’t know and forgot. Everything already belongs to you! You are from the Father. He thought of Christ, and made it exist. Everything on earth belongs to God. (1:50:40) – Sickness… Looking at nature, they say they see God. They didn’t see God; they just said it because the preacher said it. We own everything, including the plants. The Father loves you. 

10 – BQ: Wives make husbands sleep on the couch 

(1:52:46) – Donyale: No way. Woman owns stuff, or the man is beta, or… I forget. (1:54:34) Anita — Jesse imagines his grandmother… 

(1:55:29) – A single father… It’s just the body. His father’s heart attack story. He woke up like nothing happened after being in the hospital a while. 

(1:57:16) – Alex(?) – The laws of the land in the Western world allow it, and men are afraid of the law of the land. (1:58:05) – Another man: Man is afraid of woman. Why? You’re getting neutered. 

(1:59:19) – Jason: Mother god; wives or girlfriends too. 

(1:59:37) – Alex did it! When I was married, she didn’t make me. I chose to go: TV, wifi, she was nagging. My escape. Why didn’t you make her leave? TV. 

(2:00:38) – Nick… 

11 – JLP: Love. 

(2:00:45) – JLP: You’re already sons and daughters of God. The nature of God is love. Not allowed to hate your enemies. 

(2:02:33) – Worry presents itself as the Light, but you’re in darkness. It’s not “caring.” Don’t judge anyone; they cannot see. It’s finished. Pick up your cross, and walk: Pick up your ego, and let it die. Stay in the present. You are sons and daughters of God. He set the captives free. You’re free already. 

(No new BQ yet) 

(2:03:50) – Stay with it. … Don’t get mad. If people had love… Stop believing the lie. Weird people think being angry is life. 

Women’s Forum, ladies

(2:05:15) – There’s no you! You are just a thought! 

REMINDERS / Assignments… 

1. 2026 Theme: Endurance (since Church 1/4/26) 
2. 2026 Assignment: Be a doormat. (since Church 12/28/25) 
3. Rise to the 3rd, 30th, 50th or 100th floor, out of the basement (Church 2/15/26) 
4. Don’t think about you at all this week. (Church 3/8/26) 
5. Keep your mind where your body is, for one week. (After Church 3/1/26) 
6. Next time you cry, check yourself. (Church 3/1/26) 
7. Watch the Devil in you. (Church 2/1/26) 

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