Does God Favor Some Over Others? | BOND 10/18/26
CHURCH: "Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated." Does God favor men over women? Prodigal Son. Looksmaxxing? Let wants go. Forgiven yourself? No time in God.
Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, at BOND in L.A., Sunday, October 18, 2026
📖 Biblical Question (BQ): Are you the sum of every high and low?
📖 NEW BQ: Did God create one group of people to be hated and one group of people to be loved?
|| See clips, links, and notes below.
TIMESTAMPS
(0:00:00) Small talk (off-mic). Welcome.
(0:01:55) "Jacob I loved. Esau I hated." - Bible
(0:10:30) Believe He favored one over the other?
(0:19:30) Prodigal son, men & women: God's favoritism?
(0:26:40) JLP: Insane. God didn't create you to hate you
(0:33:40) "Looksmaxxing" for love? Finding BOND as prodigal son
(0:37:45) Want a family? Tricking God? Nothing missing. Let wants go.
(0:50:05) Pain of letting go. To live you must die. Stop thinking about it.
(0:57:25) Wife left. God & women's cycle: Don't be mad, no excuses.
(1:04:20) Have you forgiven yourself? Guilt over "alcoholic" husband…
(1:26:30) How did you forgive yourself?
(1:34:35) All thoughts are lies. Fear is wrong.
(1:38:35) JLP: In God there is no time. Eternal life.
(1:51:40) Words cannot express Truth. "I’m spiritual." BQ's
CLIPS
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JLP NOTES: WEEK 10/12 – 10/16/2026
You have a repetitious life because you have a repetitious mind. Last BQ (JLP Mon 10/12/26 - Substack)
The pain of losing the image of your false gods: One of the ladies going through hell last week (BOND 10/11/26 - Substack). You make everything your god. And you know it only when you feel the pain of losing something. The pain is losing your god. (JLP Mon 10/12/26 - Substack)
Give up your riches. (JLP Mon 10/12/26)
You are condemned by your words. When you say, "I am this," or "I want this," who's saying that? Never say what comes to mind. Whose conversations in your mind? (JLP Tue 10/13/26 - Substack)
Every thrill seeker is a murderer with "moral values" that don't work. Did Jesus talk about moral values? (JLP Tue 10/13/26)
Everyone with anger is mentally ill. (JLP Wed 10/14/26 - Substack)
People are vicious, even with themselves. (JLP Thu 10/15/26 - Substack)
You are so conditioned, it's stopping you from living. It's so evil. You have to lose a life to find a life. You love the thrill of thinking and believing you're a good person. Delusional: I did bad, I did good. All ego. Lay your weapons down. Give up your fantasies: marriage, relationships. No one has made the world better or safer. (JLP Fri 10/16/26 - Substack)
CHURCH NOTES 10/18/26
📖 Biblical Question (BQ): Are you the sum of every high and low?
📖 NEW BQ: Did God create one group of people to be hated and one group of people to be loved?
📝 Prior Assignment: Sit in your room for 5-10 minutes, and do nothing.
Welcome
Small talk (off-mic)
01 - Jacob & Esau: Love & Hate from God?
(0:01:54) "Jacob I loved. Esau I hated." - Bible — Malachi 1: 2-3, Romans 9: 13
(0:03:08) Thoughts? Trouble maker? Which one God liked?
(0:05:46) Are you Esau or Jacob? Raymond was not happy with favoritism at first
(0:08:59) Italian
(0:09:07) Controversial
1B - Why do you believe he favored one over the other?
(0:10:29) Believe God loved one and hated the other? Kurt, Hake
(0:13:29) He favors one over the other?Another man?
(0:15:51) Not comfortable with it
(0:16:14) No, he loves all, says man
(0:17:00) Shayan, Idk
(0:17:59) You favored b/c you ran away?
(0:18:38) God favors one over the other? Jackie
1C - Prodigal Son, God Favored?
(0:19:44) Do you really believe God would favor one after creating us?
(0:20:43) Prodigal son story
(0:21:42) Young lady jealousy story, Jackie too
(0:24:27) Another man
(0:25:17) Conditioned, says Dolores
1D - JLP: Insane. God did not create you to hate you
(0:26:38) Insane
(0:27:39) Got, all love, sent you down here to hate you.
(0:30:27) At the pearly gates, I don’t like dogs, but she loved the dogs. Who goes back? How could anybody believe God is not for you? He created you. That’s how you treat your children and friends. And you think God is like you.
(0:31:28) Man discusses with Jesse
(0:32:51) Parents do that, not God.
1E - Looksmaxxing to get love? Finding BOND. Want a family?
(0:33:43) Looksmaxxing: everybody wanna look the same. You can’t get love based on looks! Build ego, don’t change your hearts
(0:36:08) Ugly men got the girls. Nothing to do with God!
(0:37:08) Finding BOND as the prodigal son
(0:37:43) You have everything you want?
(0:40:14) More? More of me? Joel why wanting for a family?
(0:43:31) Children of God do not want for anything. Do you know your name disappears when you leave this earth?
(0:44:21) If you don’t have money they don’t come to your funeral!
(0:45:14) Don’t even want for looksmaxxing. Lost, lonely
That’s insane. Who was suffering? “The not me,” so why say you’re suffering? You have not suffered at all.
1F - Letting go. Stop thinking.
(0:50:08) 150,285,000,000 450T things I still liked. (man references Paul and the thorn in his side. I would if I could let go. You don’t want to.)
(0:52:10) You can. Stop thinking about it.
(0:53:20) They won't stop thinking.
(0:54:23) All thoughts are lies. Stop thinking about it! It's just a thought. Everybody’s made something their god. Only one God. What you want becomes your god.
(0:56:00) Stop wanting this week, and lmk how it goes. — to Joel, I believe his name is. And righteous thinking will come.
(0:56:31) Hands, then a Q I gave to the ladies Thursday night, Women’s Forum.
Man speaks on Viking tradition
02 - Listened to wife. Women emotional "Once a month"?
(0:57:26) My wife up and left me … idc anymore. I did care for a while. Why? … I started rebuilding myself. Destroyed myself a while.
(0:58:31) Every time you listen to the woman you suffer. It's not her fault you're crazy. a
(0:58:54) Back to Gender thing? Young lady asks… about biologically women are more emotional once a month.
(1:03:06) Stop making excuses
(1:03:18) Favoritism discussion, man comments — seeing Jesus flipping tables, thinking he’s mad.
03 - Forgiven yourself? Married to "alcoholic"
(1:04:20) I have a question! How many have forgiven yourself? 5.
(1:06:14) Lady on "Alcoholic" husband, should have been stronger…
(1:07:17) Guilty people, the most vain people on the planet. You’re supporting your ego.
(1:10:13) Who else hasn't forgiven themselves? idk how, says perhaps Joel. Late parents…
(1:11:27) Laughter — you know that's crazy.
(1:12:03) Why haven't you forgiven yourself? You only told me to forgive my mama, says Andrew. I'm kidding. I never thought about it.
(1:14:15) Another man doesn't know how
(1:14:54) I keep turning my back on this stuff. WHATEVER.
(1:15:13) Idk if I have, says a lady — Dolores: think about it, sit with it. Yes I did. Then: No self to forgive. Don’t feel guilt anymore. Letting go of spirits within
(1:16:38) Kurt
(1:17:34) Young lady didn't realize she needed to … I have not forgiven my mother … she lives far away. When she comes next month. Instances this week — maybe I don’t forgive my mother. Skype.
(1:19:27) My daughter if I had one, Idk who I am… Interesting!
(1:19:57) Why not? Overthinking, says young man — thoughts, guilt, demands on myself. Younger naiveness and ignorance.
(1:20:40) Raymond
(1:21:32) Mimi talking
(1:22:39) Mimi backing up a tiny bit — nothing means empty
(1:23:32) How you see your brains? You’re the funniest man. …
3B - How did you forgive yourself?
(1:26:29) You have forgiven yourself? How?
(1:27:05) Rochelle
(1:28:32) When your wife tries to come back again? What you gonna do?
(1:29:03) How did you do it? Shayan
(1:29:48) Jackie: You told us to stop judging ourselves
(1:30:12) One of the Armenian ladies stopped dwelling on past mistakes
(1:30:48) In the back — Franky
(1:31:15) Hitler Doug
(1:31:54) Nitt
(1:32:28) Hake on the couch
3C - All thoughts are lies. Fear is wrong.
(1:34:14) He’s persevering — Dolores speaks
(1:35:28) JLP: all thoughts are all lies all the time.
(1:35:50) JLP: All fear is wrong. Instincts, danger, hunger. Psychological emotional fear. Watch all thoughts.
(1:37:51) Real fast
(1:38:11) Want me to wait till you come back from the bathroom?
04 - JLP: Kingdom, no time. Eternal life
(1:38:32) Your intellect cannot understand this.
In God there is no time.
(1:43:11) Franky
(1:44:16) Drop your illusions
(1:45:19) I've never gone through anything! Stay in the light, you’ll see. All time disappears, you’ll be one with the Father. Live from within. You ain’t nothing but a bucket of illusions. Looksmaxxing people, same illusion. Gonna fade away.
(1:46:31) Yessir. You gotta see time doesn't exist, except physical time. Young man speaks….
(1:49:35) Mimi
(1:50:41) Raymond
4B - Words cannot express Truth
(1:51:39) JLP: It's not enough just to do the Silent Prayer
(1:53:00) Don’t fall yourself spiritual.
(1:53:31) Any questions?
(1:54:53) Devil try to make you remember it. Let it go. You’ll see time doesn’t exist. Illusion.
(1:55:46) BQ
(1:56:54) New BQ
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Malachi 1:2-3 KJV - I have loved you, saith the LORD. Yet - Bible Gateway
Romans 9:13 KJV - As it is written, Jacob have I loved, - Bible Gateway
📖 Biblical Question (BQ): Are you the sum of every high and low?
📖 NEW BQ: Did God create one group of people to be hated and one group of people to be loved?
📝 Prior Assignment: Sit in your room for 5-10 minutes, and do nothing.
REMINDERS / Assignments… (Church 10/18/26)
- 2026 Theme: Endurance (since Church 1/4/26)
- 2026 Assignment: Be a doormat. (since Church 12/28/25)
- Rise to the 3rd, 30th, 50th or 100th floor, out of the basement (Church 2/15/26)
- Sit in your room for 5-10 minutes, and do nothing. (Church 10/11/26)
- Put no demands on anyone for a week. For victims (JLP Thu 10/1/26, Church 10/4/26)
- Practice self-interruption. (Write it down. JLP Tue 9/15/26; Women's Forum 9/17/26)
- Don't get angry or argue with your wife. (Men's History, JLP Mon 8/3/26)
- Catch the waves of pain. (Church 8/2/26)
- Be a thought watcher. (JLP Mon 4/20/26)
- Resist anger. (Church 3/29/26, Church 4/5/26)
- Don't think about you at all this week. (Church 3/8/26)
- Keep your mind where your body is, for one week. (After Church 3/1/26)
- Next time you cry, check yourself. (Church 3/1/26)
- Watch the Devil in you. (Church 2/1/26)
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