Everything We're Taught Is Wrong | BOND 9/20/26

CHURCH: We're taught wrong, but thought it right. No one has morals & values. "I'm my own problem." Prayer: Silence is wisdom. Think about Jesus? Give up your life to live. Guilt supports the ego.

Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, September 20, 2026

📖 Biblical Question (BQ): Are you content with living and being with just you alone?

📖 NEW BQ: TBD

📝 Assignment: Practice self-interruption.

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TIMESTAMPS

(0:00:00) Small talk (off-mic). Welcome.
(0:02:22) Everything we're taught is wrong: Golden Rule, work hard, listen
(0:12:45) In an insane asylum: School, Think before you speak?
(0:20:55) Pray for specific things; Vietnamese, Chinese? Purgatory?
(0:25:55) No problems: Separated from God?
(0:29:35) Story: Car break-in, angry, feel worse about black-on-black crime?
(0:32:07) Still think you have problems? Work, Sunday Scaries
(0:34:00) Morals and values don't work. Jail? Telling vs being the light
(0:48:47) Examples vs words. "I'm my own problem." (Dorothy, husband)
(0:55:48) What you're missing in life. "Need love"? Silent Prayer
(0:58:15) Who are you? Nobody: Perfect peace. Mother–Son-husband
(1:00:45) Bible. Drop anger? Thrills. Silence is wisdom: Be still.
(1:07:15) Why people refuse to pray
(1:09:15) Educated wife looks like she fights ICE. "Same." Thoughts on women?
(1:12:35) Taught to think about Jesus and God. Seeing crosses? What's the point?
(1:23:42) Listening to the Devil. Give up fake ego life, to have real life. In a ditch!
(1:29:03) He hears everyone's prayer: Realize: "I'm wrong." Spoiled! Men's orders.
(1:32:13) Taught to think: What's your purpose? God & self?
(1:36:37) Real fun. Being still: Noise is a weapon. Wanna be different.
(1:43:52) Lie: Hold onto each other. Make relationship work?
(1:47:10) Guilt supports the ego. Hassan
(1:52:45) You have never gone through anything. Heaven is here, now.
(1:59:00) Franky's b-day cake. 12yo mad at times? The point: Love.
(2:04:55) Young lady did the assignment: Self-interrupt. Closing

CLIPS

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CHURCH NOTES 9/20/26

📖 Biblical Question (BQ): Are you content with living and being with just you alone?

📖 NEW BQ: TBD

📝 Assignment: Practice self-interruption.

JLP NOTES Week 9/14 – 9/18/2025

Old Testament insane asylum, or new reality (JLP Fri 9/18/26)
Don't base life on feelings at all. (caller Roland, JLP Fri 9/18/26)
It's "unfortunate" that people don't know they're in an insane asylum. (JLP Thu 9/17/26)
Didn't know "negro" word was bad. (caller Gerome, JLP Thu 9/17/26)
You went to sleep as a kid, and woke up identifying… with no love. (JLP Wed 9/16/26)
Guilt supports the ego. There is no you. You're free. (JLP Wed 9/16/26)
Segregation vs integration (JLP Wed 9/16/26)
Write it down: Practice self-interruption. Wake up in the middle of conversation. Sleeping in a boat nearing a rock. (JLP Tue 9/15/26)
Most people are sad. It's the life they want. (JLP Mon 9/14/26)
Prior BQ: You have nothing to sacrifice. God wants mercy, not sacrifice. (JLP Mon 9/14/26, Church 9/13/26)

Welcome

(0:00:00) Stream: small talk (0:01:37) Intro (0:01:53) Welcome

01 - Everything we're taught is wrong

(0:02:16) I noticed... Everything we've been taught was wrong.

(0:04:02) Never questioning. Why marry? Y'all just fight, don't like the kids.

(0:05:13) Everybody live in the crazy house. Every decision wrong.

(0:05:46) Any thing that's been taught that's true? Daniel.

(0:06:22) Always love your mother.

(0:06:49) Doug: Not trust in doctors.

1B - Golden Rule: be kind? Are you kind?

(0:07:22) Golden Rule: Treat others as you want to be treated. Young lady still thinks that's true. Why?

(0:08:14) (What is kind?) Were you kind to people? Were you?

1C - Work, or work hard? Stress

(0:08:47) Taught to work hard

(0:10:20) JLP: The people who work hard, rather than just work, they're stressed

1D - Learn to listen, listen to learn

(0:11:39) Another man: Learn to listen, and listen to learn

(0:12:17) Grandma lied!

1E - JLP: Realized everything taught doesn’t work? Insane asylum!

(0:12:40) Isn't that amazing? Everything we’ve been taught doesn’t work.

(0:13:47) Examples… ?

(0:14:38) It work by itself without you having anything to do with it at all. We'd be better off if parents had said just live and stay present; don't do anything about your life. Ideas and plans. Perfect peace.

(0:15:22) Raymond told he had a learning disability…. (0:16:08) JLP on school, parents didn’t care, getting an A on accident. (0:17:16) Best friend became a doctor. Never thought or tried to be smart.

(0:17:55) Being in touch with feelings, says Jackie

1F - Think before you speak? That one's good.

(0:18:38) Rochelle? Think before you speak? That's a good one!

(0:20:06) Andrew: Teacher's do unto others... emotion behind the intellectual living up to it

1G - Pray for specific things; Vietnamese, Chinese?

(0:20:48) Pray for specific things

(0:21:25) JLP: I always asked God for a wife ..

(0:22:01) Angry at God … Vietnamese discrimination (0:22:33) I can only tell by hearing them talk (0:23:07) Korean friends already know now

1H - Purgatory vs hell. Put your mind to it.

(0:23:42) Hispanic young man on hell vs purgatory

(0:25:17) Doug: Put your mind to it, you can do anything you want.

1I - Problems: Separated from God?

(0:25:48) JLP: Examples of being taught wrong… Such thing as PROBLEMS

(0:27:01) Isn't it a problem we're separated from God? You are not separated from God. You just think you are.

1J - Story: Car breakin

(0:29:28) I was somewhere… Car breakin… I’m sick of these N— says a black person when mad.

1K - Still think you have problems? Work, Sunday Scaries

(0:32:02) No problems. How many believe you have problems?

(0:32:53) I talk with coworker when I have to… I used to get Sunday Scaries really bad …

1L - Morals and values

(0:34:03) This lie is so big. We’ve been taught we have morals and values. Nobody on earth has them. … No s— before marriage? What do you do when you’re alone?

(0:35:44) Anybody? Hispanic man: What’s the point of being taught not to steal, but to be civilized?

(0:36:45) Out of jail? In prison of your own mind.

(0:37:30) Man agrees … (0:38:54) Don't steal so you don't go to jail. Why do you call those values?

(0:39:35) Man: morals and values (0:39:58) Right on (0:40:10) Armenian gal

(0:40:24) JLP: I ain't coming to get you out of jail.

(0:41:34) Lost people tell you not to go to jail. Don't steal.

(0:41:55) If you were the light, would you ever think about stealing? BEING right.

(0:42:36) Man says they change… Morals and values change where you are. In prison they change to survive.

(0:43:11) JLP: Nobody lives them. People with morals and values are so nasty and mean. They don’t work!

(0:44:06) I'm a lil better than the rapist or the molester

(0:44:31) Corporal punishment? (0:46:28) Make a long story short

(0:47:47) Raymond

02 - Examples vs words. "I'm my own problem." (Dorothy, husband)

(0:48:41) They don't work! Am I wrong? Young lady responds… examples to show us, not words.

(0:49:58) Do you see now you don't have any problems?

(0:50:35) I'm my own problem. Who are you?

(0:51:41) Why do you say I'm my own problem? Good point, no a good question

(0:52:51) Why is it so hard to see you don't exist?

(0:53:43) Haven't forgiven mother. What a beta! Why not?

(0:54:47) Shake in boots. Never enter until you forgive

(0:55:48) If you don't wake up, you'll never know what you're missing in life. A great life. A sad way to live.

(0:58:04) Father loved you, he just didn't know how to deal with your crazy mama

2B - Who are you? Nobody: Perfect peace. Mother–Son-husband

(0:58:10) Who are you? "Nobody." What do you mean?

(0:58:39) Nobody has perfect peace. Somebody has no peace.

(0:59:09) My mother came to me with problems of her mother. Son-husband

(0:59:47) JLP: Most mothers turn sons into husbands

03 - Morals & values in the Bible? Drop anger?

(1:00:45) She has morals and values?

(1:02:17) JLP: Whoever taught you that was lying to you. The Bible tells you HOW to get there

(1:02:42) Love God with all your heart, soul, and might, along with NOTHING else. You'll never love one another.

(1:03:31) Dropped your anger? "Umm..." Why don't you drop it? “Working on it”?

(1:04:47) Knowing silence is wisdom

(1:06:16) She loves her pain. God knows — he won’t interrupt your life at all. That’s the life you want.

3B - Why people refuse to pray

(1:07:15) Another man on people not doing the Silent Prayer

3C - She looks like she fights ICE

(1:09:08) How do you deal with your wife when the hell comes out of her? She’s very educated; we’re opposites.

(1:12:26) Wake up in 50 years

04 - Taught to think about Jesus and God. Seeing crosses?

(1:12:30) Biggest one: taught to think about Jesus and God

(1:15:58) (Delay) Shayan …

(1:16:46) Telephone pole that looks like a cross? "Jesus is with me."

(1:18:52) Don't worship the cheeseburger… Life without thinking is a perfect life. Let ideas go. “Who will I be if I don’t…?”

(1:21:15) Let the shaking happen. Live and walk in fear. Be bored. Healing will come. Shaking. Be afraid.

(1:22:06) Endure to the end. They think they're their emotions, past, future, think they know God.

(1:23:14) Did you see Jesus on the cross?

4B - Listening to the Devil. Give up fake ego life.

(1:23:36) Y'all having fun? Jackie: I wanted a Lexus. What is the point?

(1:24:20) JLP: Every human being has the same problem, listening to the Devil. Stop trying, give up — the Devil gets busy, doesn't want you to let him go.

(1:26:15) Dolores, what's wrong? Stay with it. Women’s Forum. Revelation how un-present I am.

(1:27:40) What are we gonna do about that one? (Jackie, Dolores's daughter)

4C - He hears everyone's prayer: Realize: "I'm wrong."

(1:28:59) JLP: He hears everyone's prayer. He helps everyone who wants help. When you realize, I'm wrong, He helps.

4D - Taught to think: What's your purpose?

(1:32:08) Daniel: “Find a purpose” in life. “What’s the point?” Looking to future rather than staying present.

4E - Taught about God and self

(1:32:59) Another man: Taught my reality is a reflection of God…

(1:34:31) JLP: Every religious person thinks that about themselves — as if they know God

(1:35:13) JLP: Only time we need the intellect… Let the knowledge go. Wisdom will come.

4F - Real fun. Being still: Noise is a weapon

(1:36:31) Yet another man on 'what's the point?' — just to have fun

(1:37:16) Being a slutmaker or slut ain't fun

(1:37:57) What is it about being still...?

(1:38:28) Noise is a weapon

(1:40:17) Don't have an idea of what different is.

(1:42:20) Psychopath with no emotions? The emotional person is the psychopath.

05 - Lie: Hold onto each other

(1:43:46) JLP: Two other things we've been lied about

(1:45:56) Even if you stay together you're fighting, miserable… Hate when you have to go home…

5B - Feel guilty? Guilt is your enemy, supports the ego.

(1:47:03) Stop it! One other quick one, a doozy — feel guilty at times about things, that you do and all that?

(1:49:47) God created us in His image … I’m gonna flood ‘em out! Drown ‘em all!

(1:51:02) Hassan, "Waitin' on God."

(1:51:24) Stopped the Silent Prayer? — Don’t feel guilty!

5C - You have never gone through anything

(1:52:39) Laughter — young man… Don’t think about him at all, just don’t judge him. Love God by not thinking about God.

(1:54:52) JLP: You have never gone through anything.

(1:58:28) Grandma on her grandpa

5D - 12yo, father, what’s the point?

(1:58:54) First-timer? Sergio, 12

(2:01:06) Sergio Jr, boy is the third

(2:01:31) Another question / comment on what’s the point

(2:01:56) Someone's son was killed… Son’s son was killed

(2:02:52) God created you to create love through you.

(2:04:20) Out of time!

5E - Assignment: Self-interrupt

(2:04:52) Young lady did the assignment: Self-interrupt

(2:06:20) 99% of people are afraid to stand alone.

(2:06:45) BQ tomorrow

(2:07:49) Hake? Closing

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📖 Biblical Question (BQ): Are you content with living and being with just you alone?

📖 NEW BQ: TBD

📝 Assignment: Practice self-interruption.

REMINDERS / Assignments…

2026 Theme: Endurance (since Church 1/4/26)
2026 Assignment: Be a doormat. (since Church 12/28/25)
Rise to the 3rd, 30th, 50th or 100th floor, out of the basement (Church 2/15/26)
Practice self-interruption. (Write it down. JLP Tue 9/15/26)
Don't get angry or argue with your wife. (Men's History, JLP Mon 8/3/26)
Catch the waves of pain. (Church 8/2/26)
Be a thought watcher. (JLP Mon 4/20/26)
Resist anger. (Church 3/29/26, Church 4/5/26)
Don't think about you at all this week. (Church 3/8/26)
Keep your mind where your body is, for one week. (After Church 3/1/26)
Next time you cry, check yourself. (Church 3/1/26)
Watch the Devil in you. (Church 2/1/26)