13 Jul Is it hard to say goodbye to the past? | Church 7/13/25
The Epstein files? Nosy! How to “count it all joy”… Truth will not bend. Stop trying to “save” people! Hard to let go of the past? It’s just a thought!
Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, July 13, 2025
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TIMESTAMPS
- (0:00:00) Pre-service small talk
- (0:02:15) Epstein files: Care about it?
- (0:10:05) JLP: Nosy judgment
- (0:12:05) Questions… Count it all joy?
- (0:17:35) JLP: When you feel… live with hell in you
- (0:23:00) Emotions… You and Jesus: difference?
- (0:32:00) Crying, lying… words…
- (0:42:25) JLP: Truth will not bend… Stupid, suffering… Kingdom first
- (0:55:00) Forgive your mother?
- (1:00:40) Recreated in mother’s image… sacrifice? Anger, testosterone?
- (1:12:40) Why try to bring him out of his hell?
- (1:27:35) Stop trying to save someone who believes in “racism”!
- (1:35:40) They love complaining
- (1:48:25) BQ: Is it hard to say goodbye to the past?
- (1:55:20) Try to save others? BQ continued…
- (2:00:55) JLP on BQ: It’s just a thought. No need for others… Closing
CLIPS
Epstein files: Care about this issue? ⚠️ [Warning: Explicit] (10-min) YouTube | Rumble
How do I count it all joy? (23-mins) YouTube | Rumble
The truth will not bend for you (13-min) YouTube | Rumble
It’s hard to say goodbye to the past (6-min) YouTube | Rumble
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CHURCH NOTES
📖 Biblical Question: Is it hard to say goodbye to the past, to people, or to a person?
📝 Prior Assignment: Communicate with few words.
🗓️ Women’s Forum third Thurs, July 17, 2025, 7pm, BOND, L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events/
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0 Welcome
(0:00:00) Start… (0:01:36 — add about 10-12 seconds) Welcome
1 Epstein files: Care about it?
(0:02:06) Interested in the Epstein files?
(0:04:56) Not interested …
(0:05:33) “Age of consent” clarification, discussion (0:06:42) It takes a village?! (0:07:18) This is church! In case y’all wondering… (0:08:38) Are we arguing that it’s OK? Sounds like it!
(0:09:55) JLP: The only reason people wanna know, because they’re nosy. Not gonna change anybody’s lives. Judgment… (0:11:00) It will change the lives of the people in the files. Judgmental people …
(0:11:34) Derrick standing there like a knot on the log. He black!
2 Questions … Count it all joy?
(0:11:56) Man asks about his son dealing with a 4-year-old who died. JLP: The way you deal with it, is the way he will. Be the light.
(0:12:58) Catching the thoughts, catching the images
(0:14:56) What does it look like to count it all joy? Different people give feedback
(0:17:24) JLP: … When you feel loneliness, fear, … Live in the pain, the hell in you. It’s not you. (0:19:58) You don’t have to be you anymore. … Die in hell as you’re living in hell. Angry people are evil. (0:20:46) Human nature is evil. Die from it, live from your real self. You’re so identified with it. “Who will I be, if I don’t have my misery… thrills… pain…?”
(0:21:43) Doug: I don’t wanna be bothered… (0:22:24) JLP: Don’t leave me, I love you! Real love is: OK, bye! You’re one, a whole person.
3 Emotions … Difference between you and Jesus?
(0:22:51) Lamar (sp) — Very theoretical. Easier said than done. You could be in love. That’s hate. Lamar (sp) from SC… practical things to find joy. We are emotions. (0:24:03) JLP: That’s being dumb. Lamar: No, it’s not! (0:24:38) His new friend who brought him talks about controlling emotions. (0:25:03) Crying, lying! “BS,” unconventional church…
(0:25:55) JLP: Cannot trust a crying person. They’ll cut your throat! Crying people are wicked people! Lamar: But that’s asinine, what if someone cries when someone dies! JLP: Why would you cry? Jesus said, Let the dead bury the dead. (0:27:11) JLP: What’s the difference between you and Jesus? … (0:28:38) Do you create your own thoughts? How?
(0:30:51) Who are you? “Healer, teacher, story teller…” Not what you do, but who are you? (0:31:31) His new friend wants to help him. Don’t help him. Leave him in his hell.
4 Crying, lying … words
(0:31:50) Evil people cry. Man asks… When human beings are crying, they’re lying, because they’re evil, and they have an agenda — whether behind closed doors or in public. It’s all about you, and no one else but you. … One hundred percent. (0:33:10) JLP: 99.999-percent they’re lying.
(0:33:29) Another man on Emotions… (0:33:52) Young lady experienced this last month or so. Someone cried in front of her, and they wanted a response from her. (0:34:50) JLP: When you start understanding yourself…
(0:35:21) A third man… nervousness and words pouring in his head. (0:35:53) JLP: Paying attention to what’s going on in him. The man talks about words, and life as a baby before he knew words. (0:37:06) JLP: Children of God without words… voiceless voice… Communicating with the Devil and calling him God. … More from the man … (0:38:04) JLP: We all know the truth.
(0:38:55) Woman: Who are you? A very evil person. But I feel i’m better because I’m trying to be better (JLP: Put your cell phones away) … (0:40:02) JLP: Every evil person think they’re better, that’s why they judge. The woman thinks she can’t get better until after her kids are grown. Why not be free…?
5 Truth will not bend… Stupid, Suffering… Kingdom of Heaven first.
(0:42:16) JLP: Good news: The truth is not going to bend for you at all. Until you surrender all of your false self… to the truth… (0:45:41) JLP: Stupid people suffer! (0:48:53) You don’t need to suffer! Christ did already. (0:50:32) You can be free. No love: Human beings have none. Seek first the Kingdom of God, and His right way. Put the kingdom first. You have no business thinking of getting married, or anything…
(0:52:22) JLP: A black person will say the white man… And now people hating the Jews! Surrender to the Truth. It won’t bend for you. It works for you 24 hours a day. All of your ideas… Ideas about God is not knowing God. You can have perfect peace. Come into the present right here, right now, where life is.
(0:54:18) To the gal: You can have perfect peace right now.
6 Forgiven your mother?
(0:54:51) Have you forgiven your mother? … Human beings don’t forgive. God forgives. Human beings admit they’re wrong for hating. She thought her dad was the wrong one, and her mother the savior. They take you to church. (The God above the man’s God, the god below the woman’s god.) (0:58:39) JLP … The imagination … You can have it now.
6B Recreated in her image … a sacrifice to have kids?
(1:00:32) Man doesn’t understand about mothers recreating children in their image. JLP: They want you to think like them… live through their children, they’re weak and insecure. (1:02:19) Man says: It’s a big sacrifice to have a kid. Very painful. But it’s their fault. JLP tells the Eve story. (1:04:03) Why do you call that a sacrifice?
6C Angry?
(1:05:45) Do you get angry at your mother or father? Sometimes. I raise my voice. You’re becoming like your mother. Her personality, like what you hate. (He’s 14, I believe he said.)
(1:07:00) She feels she’s imposed her will enough. Men don’t get angry. Only women get angry. Men get angry when they’ve become like their mothers. He’s a woman. A woman’s nature. (1:07:35) You’ll win a fight without anger, you’ll be conscious. Testosterone? No, it’s the spirit of evil that made a home in you. Angry people are asleep. They fight to prove that the lie is the truth. Practice being present. Speak up but don’t be angry. (1:09:25) Abnormal: Angry male is irrational woman.
(1:09:43) If the father’s angry? You’re on your own!
7 Crying, making it about self
(1:11:02) Asian guy: Coworker would cry for days anytime someone left, and would make the whole situation about her. JLP: Women are leading with emotions. No love. All about self. Parents don’t love their children.
8 Why try to bring him out of his hell?
(1:12:29) Man (David) brought Lamar, calling him beta. “I am who I am.” Why don’t you leave him in his hell? He’s not honest. He’s a liar. Why do you call him honest? He’s not accepting the truth. He said telling the truth about women is toxic. Why you playing god with him? Maybe he’s a white savior! He doesn’t want it. Why are you trying to save this man? What’s wrong with you?
(1:16:02) Are you bringing yourself to the good side, or is God doing it? Man: I build my own destiny. JLP: You can make yourself be right and do right? How? (1:17:19) … Jesus never tried to make anyone better. And he never healed anyone. (1:18:06) It’s the same reason you’re doing it, he tells Jesse. JLP: I have no other choice. You can’t save people!
(1:19:14) Lamar: But I am with God. JLP: See? Lamar: “black and slow”… JLP: Hold on… What’s this weakness? Do you believe he has God in him? A good person, a feeling I have, says Lamar’s friend. JLP: Why do you believe you believe in God? Friend, David: I tell myself that. JLP: Why do you lie to yourself? Hold on, Mama! (1:22:37) That’s his mama! Poor, baby! Black mama and a white mama! A mixed child!
(1:24:02) God doesn’t convince anyone to come to Him. (1:25:08) Do you have perfect peace? (1:25:30) He doesn’t want help! He loves his misery. David, what’s wrong with you! Do you see your own misery?
You’re trying to save someone who believes in racism?! Forgiven?
(1:27:14) JLP: Leave him alone. You’re not God. I’m not God. It’s up to them. Trying to save a person who believes in racism! Do you see that racism does not exist?
(1:31:06) David, are you trying to save Martha? Trying to live a good example. You can’t even save yourself!
(1:32:24) Lamar: no further questions. Martha, is this your boyfriend? Stop it, David! What are you thinking right now? … Cannot say it here. (1:33:39) What would happen if you backed off? JLP: I can’t save anyone. I tell them: Suffer and die. Can still be friends. “Racism” a made-up word to control angry people. People have a right to stay in their lies. You cannot convince an evil person they’re wrong. Only God can let them see it.
9 People love complaining, thrills
(1:35:31) Yessir: Man in green asks what you do when… JLP: People love complaining. Don’t listen to other people’s misery. Being guilty is to feel righteous. People love thrills, feeling happy.
(1:39:21) Another question: What do you do as an adult when father is in hell too? (1:41:30) Leave them in their hell.
(1:41:59) Crying, lying — man talks about a man whose mother died, and he’s selling her house.
(1:43:13) JLP: An angry person is a vicious person. A crying person is evil. Don’t trust them.
(1:43:38) Young woman … had a one-sided convo with her dad. Her sisters separated themselves from the family. Her, too. Done with her dad. She’s 16. Trying to help herself. (1:45:04) JLP: Can’t make him see anything. Just don’t be angry. … All angry people are victims in their own mind. Back off. You owe no one anything.
(1:47:38) Man cites the Bible and says perfect peace. (1:48:00) JLP: Overcome all identities.
10 BQ: Is it hard to say goodbye…?
(1:48:15) Biblical Question: A couple of ladies… (1:49:06) Second lady: Sometimes I don’t want to. (1:50:51) Is it hard to say goodbye to the past? More ladies… (1:51:43) Young lady: I haven’t learned or fully detached myself.
(1:52:11) Young man in the hat: No, it’s not hard. 8 years ago, it was. I lose everyone, everything. Dog, cat, everything. (1:53:08) Raymond… Holding onto the past causing you to repeat it…
11 Try to save others? BQ: Stuck in the past
(1:55:11) Try to save other people? Ryan: For the thrill. For sure. All it is. (1:56:00) Ryan: I LOVE the past, the 80s… that’s what’s keeping me miserable.
(1:56:49) Young lady (Mimi) in the hat: Yes. Can people be so trapped in their thoughts that they can’t get out? (1:58:36) JLP: No one can. The light is destroying the darkness.
(1:59:57) Colin: No, it’s not hard. I had no reaction to death in my family. Thought there was something wrong with me.
12 JLP on BQ: It’s just a thought.
(2:00:46) JLP: Hard to say goodbye to the past. It’s just a thought; it doesn’t exist. Just in your head. Nowhere but a thought. Not even real. … If you feel something about losing a person. Another thought you got a false sense of identity from. You and the person became one. Otherwise you wouldn’t be moved whether they’re in your life or not. Not missing or gaining anything by other people coming and going. You’re not supposed to hurt, be unhappy… no need.
(2:02:47) Not supposed to sit around all day thinking about a man (“Mm!”)… Or a woman! God understands romance better than you do. God has a real app! (2:03:30) God’s app — it’ll be perfect.
(2:04:16) Stop trying to save others! Rachel brought me the best watermelon… I’m not trying to save y’all. I hold back, so you don’t walk out.
(2:05:53) Let dog, husband, wife, go.
REMINDERS / Assignments…
- 2025 theme/assignment: Practice being present.
- Communicate with few words. (June 29, 2025, didn’t mention)
- Don’t agree or disagree with anyone. And see what happens. (June 2025)
- Quietly live with the hell in you (May/June 2025)
- Write down all the stabs you get (May 11-18, 2025)
- Be a single-minded person, not a double-minded person. (BQ/Women’s Forum Apr 13-27, 2025)
- Don’t judge with words, looks/eyes, gestures, emotions, or thoughts. (Oct 2024)
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