Do You Love or Hate Your Life? | BOND 9/27/26
CHURCH: What you love, you hate. Drop anger; have one personality. Everyone wants; no one's happy. Created for life without thinking. Purpose for coming? Want to win? Want salvation? It is done.
Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, September 22, 2026
📖 Biblical Question (BQ): Do you love or hate your life?
📖 NEW BQ: What would happen to you if you never felt good or bad about your emotions or yourself?
🗓️ ANNOUNCEMENT: Men's Forum first Thur, Oct 1st, 7pm, BOND, L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events
|| See clips, links, and notes below.
TIMESTAMPS
(0:00:00) Small talk (off-mic). Welcome.
(0:02:00) BQ: Do you love or hate your life? (…Why don't you stop?)
(0:07:20) Did you back off your husband? Women need men who are not afraid.
(0:09:50) Drop anger: Have ONE personality. No reason to fight.
(0:15:30) Life should be perfect ALL the time. Stealing my peace. No love in family, in-laws
(0:21:32) BQ: I used to hate my life. Nice person? Work bestie said show more emotion
(0:27:17) BQ: Love or hate life? Reacting, playing God
(0:34:51) JLP: Everyone wants something; no one's happy with it!
(0:40:53) JLP on BQ: No life: What you love, you end up hating. False identities
(0:48:20) Created to have a life without thinking. Love-hate example
(0:57:25) What is your purpose for coming to these meetings?
(1:05:10) What are you trying to win? Drink & pray? Noah?
(1:12:25) JLP: Don't drink. Don't explain yourself.
(1:15:05) Anyone trying to win anything? What?
(1:16:15) Live without anger, be in control. Nervous, crying
(1:23:30) How many want salvation? Let things come and go.
(1:42:03) JLP: It's done. Idea of "want." False identities: guilt/ego.
(1:57:45) God does not judge us. Life never ends.
CLIPS
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CHURCH NOTES 9/27/26
📖 Biblical Question (BQ): Do you love or hate your life?
📖 NEW BQ: What would happen to you if you never felt good or bad about your emotions or yourself?
🗓️ Men's Forum first Thur, Oct 1st, 7pm, BOND, L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events
JLP Notes Week 9/21 - 9/25, 2026
Can you see? Nothing to fight for. Everybody has a cause. No one wins. (JLP Fri 9/25/26)
Notice how sad people are? Unnecessary suffering. Waiting for salvation that’s already here. (JLP Thu 9/24/26)
Why do you need anything? Love, validation, approval, to feel good/bad, friends… Why do you need to think about you? (JLP Wed 9/23/26)
Can you live alone with yourself? Why would you want anyone to live with you if you can’t? (Last BQ JLP Mon 9/21/26)
Welcome
(0:00:00) Start (0:01:19) Intro (0:01:34) Welcome
01 - BQ: Do you love or hate your life?
(0:01:56) I'm not gonna ask if any Q's... Straight to BQ.
(0:02:28) I love my life, says lady
(0:03:10) I know I hated it before, but don't know now.
(0:03:44) Glory to God, I hate my life. - Vanessa. Why? Exhausting... Scheming. Fed up with it.
(0:05:54) Again: Why don't you stop?
(0:07:20) Did you back off your husband? Don't bug him anymore? "No." Is that true? LOL, husband speaks: Not 100-percent, but good effort. JLP: Women need men who aren’t afraid. They hate men who won’t be dictator.
(0:08:32) She's part German too, yk. Avoid confrontation, don’t put down her ideas… JLP: What’s a loving way?
(0:09:45) LOUD CLICK… Hey, heifer, get over here. Or Can you come here? JLP: Drop anger, be free. Did you know? One personality. Same personality.
(0:13:15) JLP: Never ever a reason to fight. How he forgave mother. Easier at work than home. All family members. Hard to not get angry…
(0:15:26) JLP: Life should be perfect ALL the time. People who have up-and-down life are emotional.
(0:18:13) JLP: Your family don't like you. They just use you because you're there for them. Stop doing anything for them, you'll see. Their love will turn to hate. "You're selfish!..." They don’t love you!
(0:20:20) So your wife is just your problem. It will change if you let go of anger and fear. Your issues would be GONE.
(0:20:55) How do you feel about his family?
02 - BQ: I used to hate my life. Work bestie said show more emotion.
(0:21:28) BQ from young lady who hated her life. Why? Upset I was still alive.
(0:22:55) You wanna be married? Yes. To the right person. What’s the right person? Not gonna happen. I got a dog. lol. You shouldn’t want for anything. It’s normal. But shouldn’t want for it.
(0:24:09) You'd asked me if I were nicer to my coworkers? She was real mean to her coworkers. She looks so innocent, huh? A mess! … My work bestie (BFF) said I need to show more emotion.
2B - More on BQ
(0:27:13) Alyssa. I don't hate it anymore
(0:27:52) Doug: I used to hate it also. (0:28:17) God doesn't judge me, it changed my whole life. No real feelings to loving something, that I can tell yet. Go through my day, it’s simple
(0:29:10) Lily: Neither …
(0:31:06) Man to advise her: Idk if I was the best person.
(0:31:29) JLP: Don't react to it! Be dissociated from it.
(0:33:58) Silent Prayer…
03 - JLP: Everyone wants something, no one's happy with it!
(0:34:51) JLP: Counseling… Everybody wants something, to be loved, to get married, children, something, kids, a man, a woman, Then they don’t know what to do with her! Why’d I pick this one? Going on a trip
(0:37:50) Stop wanting for anything. Ego nature.
(0:38:35) This is crazy. All men are guilty of this: Date a woman, then fight. They get back together and really think it’s gonna work! Stop wanting! When you want, you go looking for what you want. Satan gonna give you what you want, but it’s never gonna work! You can’t make it work! Devil tells you you can make it work! It ain’t gonna get better!
There is nothing to want for. (0:40:16) No you at all.
3B - JLP on BQ: Whatever you love, you end up hating
(0:40:48) Feedback: Man on BQ, working on himself. Can’t love or hate it. There’s no life
(0:42:25) Dolores: loving with the false nature, always turns on us. Wasn't real. JLP: Parents “love” their children.
(0:43:56) 100,000 false natures, identities
(0:45:18) Everybody is Jeffrey Dahmer… Never say never. Always have a wait and see.
(0:45:51) Dolores continues
(0:48:19) JLP talking with Dolores
(0:48:45) You can have a life without thoughts, without thinking.
(0:49:38) One of the Armenian ladies, I think…
(0:50:20) JLP: Enjoy life without thinking about life
(0:51:47) JLP: Gotta learn to communicate consciously … She says something about drinking … “Am I wrong?”
(0:52:47) Andrew: Climbing upstairs this year.
(0:53:58) Every human being
(0:55:28) What the hell, what the heck is wrong with me! Mexicans — PERFECT example!
(0:56:19) Jackie Cannot high-five yourself on spiritual things.
04 - What is your purpose for coming?
(0:56:47) I have a question…
(0:57:22) What is your purpose for coming to these meetings?
(0:58:41) Have you dropped your anger?
(0:58:59) Hassan's new shoes … Hassan answers…
(1:01:21) Coming here is renewal, what I've forgotten
(1:01:44) Not to pick on Hassan, I'm not satisfied w/ his answer, says Jackie. Relates a lot.
(1:03:28) Kurt: Real things
(1:04:04) Andrew: I had nowhere else to go. I was miserable. Now it’s a renewal of my mind. No more judgment of self, punishment…
(1:04:41) Coming: Another part to this. Raymond: Become a better person.
4B - What are you trying to win?
(1:05:06) JLP: Part II to my question — I wrote these Q’s down, hearing all week… What are you trying to win?
(1:06:43) Did you drop your anger? I’d say no…
(1:08:50) Noah got drunk, I feel like I'm in the same boat. No pun intended.
(1:09:55) When you truly return and overcome, you're not gonna think about God, sin, Christ…
(1:12:25) JLP: Don't drink. Just say, I don't want to. It's hard for them to get drunk all the way, if one person is not. Reminding them they're out of control. Stop explaining yourself.
(1:14:13) Young man: What are you trying to win?
(1:14:50) First-time? All Mexicans look alike to me.
(1:15:05) Anyone trying to win anything? Vanessa wants to be the champion, the supreme wife, friend, teacher. Husband wishes she’d stop, Jesse says.
(1:16:19) Freedom? … Young lady in back…
05 - Dropped anger? Nervous young lady breaks down
(1:17:04) Traveling nurse? I have a headache! Have you dropped your anger?
(1:17:59) JLP: Did you know? You can truly live a life without anger. Control your whole world. You're in charge. … How’d you find us? Chiropractor…
(1:18:47) Forgiven mother
(1:20:31) Nervous now? Everybody looking at you. What’s making you cry right now? On the spot.
(1:22:17) I'm just playing. Do the silent prayer
(1:22:59) You want me to stop talking to you?
06 - Want salvation?
(1:23:27) How many want salvation?
(1:24:00) Why not?
(1:25:20) Man tells his story being adopted and going to mother
(1:26:45) Man is trying not to win things
(1:28:55) Don't try to hold onto it, or let it go.
(1:29:41) Hassan — I pumpfaked
(1:31:00) Yes I want salvation. Why? You already have it, says Vanessa’s husband… If you already have it, why do you want something you already have? Oxygen? Not enough?
(1:32:11) (Anything on your mind? Clear mind?) Want salvation? Why? (Make your mind up, God’s listening!)
(1:32:55) Yes, says Chistian man…. Vanessa…
(1:34:32) Raymond… unworthy without it? Jackie…
(1:35:28) Lily… Man compares it to a cheeseburger sitting right there.
(1:37:46) Dolores…
(1:38:08) Eric: Salvation at hand?
(1:39:12) Andrew: I don't want salvation. That's why you don't have it. Mexican cutting the grass!
(1:39:56) Doug learning to want is not me anyway…
(1:41:19) Nick not sure what he wants … American Anchor Baby
6B - JLP: Everything has already been done
(1:41:59) JLP: Everything has already been done.
(1:44:49) Message from Christ… Love God…
… (1:46:10) Discussing fake, phony personality… Showcase personality… Love neighbor, love enemy.
(1:48:14) Never call yourself an alcoholic or drug addict. Stop identifying with it. That’s not who you are! Slut! Don’t call yourself a slut! It’s just what you’re doing, not who you are. False identities you bring on yourself. False identities, false guilt. Guilt a big supporter of the ego.
(1:49:57) There is no you just a bucket of illusions and false identity about you. No words to express what real love is. Let false life go. It’s not you.
(1:50:38) Hassan is a song maker. Talent from God to earn a living, but not who you are
(1:51:41) Waiting for end times… Never think about “I wonder if he/she loves me.” Can never prove it!
(1:53:57) Dumbest things fighting over race … One with Father, in control of the universe… Strong in stillness. Be still. The light will destroy those thoughts.
(1:55:48) You're not different, we're all the same. Judging, you're being judged while judging! And doing it to Christ! The least of them. Free, don’t know it! World doesn’t have the answers.
6C - God does not judge us
(1:57:43) God does judge us?
(2:01:23) Hassan: Life never ends.
(2:02:39) Revelation ... New BQ
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📖 Biblical Question (BQ): Do you love or hate your life?
📖 NEW BQ: What would happen to you if you never felt good or bad about your emotions or yourself?
🗓️ Men's Forum first Thur, Oct 1st, 7pm, BOND, L.A. https://rebuildingtheman.com/events
REMINDERS / Assignments…
- 2026 Theme: Endurance (since Church 1/4/26)
- 2026 Assignment: Be a doormat. (since Church 12/28/25)
- Rise to the 3rd, 30th, 50th or 100th floor, out of the basement (Church 2/15/26)
- Practice self-interruption. (Write it down. JLP Tue 9/15/26; Women's Forum 9/17/26)
- Don't get angry or argue with your wife. (Men's History, JLP Mon 8/3/26)
- Catch the waves of pain. (Church 8/2/26)
- Be a thought watcher. (JLP Mon 4/20/26)
- Resist anger. (Church 3/29/26, Church 4/5/26)
- Don't think about you at all this week. (Church 3/8/26)
- Keep your mind where your body is, for one week. (After Church 3/1/26)
- Next time you cry, check yourself. (Church 3/1/26)
- Watch the Devil in you. (Church 2/1/26)
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