Stop judging, like you’re better than Diddy! “Power” to make others cry? Stop thinking — God’s thoughts are not yours!

Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, October 5, 2025 

||  See clips, links, and notes below. 

TIMESTAMPS 

(0:00:00) – 01 – People who have nice Indian hair… Welcome 

(0:02:00) – 02 – JLP: Acting like Diddy did wrong all by himself! 

(0:11:21) – 03 – Fake Power: Making someone cry? 

(0:17:09) – 04 – JLP: Politicians starting a war. Buying a car: Angry, can’t see. 

(0:32:59) – 05 – A salesperson supposed to rip you off! … White talk… 

(0:43:07) – 06 – She hasn’t given up her identity either 

(0:53:32) – 07 – What’s good about you? Aunt… 

(1:01:58) – 08 – Black guy says his mother screamed. Let go of relationship 

(1:06:48) – 09 – Backed off husband? Afraid of hurting her feelings 

(1:16:14) – 10 – False identities, Silent Prayer, Marines billboard 

(1:18:59) – 11 – Insanity of your aunt… 

(1:21:21) – 12 – Obeying evil, haven’t forgiven yet. Back off of Gilbert! 

(1:24:04) – 13 – JLP: Stop thinking, consulting with thoughts… Feedback 

(1:40:12) – 14 – Stop judging. Two whoops and a holler from Diddy, Epstein 

(1:48:38) – 15 – Stop quoting the Bible. Aunt-nephew Argentinian affection 

(1:58:45) – 16 – BQ, defending the faith? Thinking about God? 

(2:11:19) – 17 – Stop thinking… More with the husband… “Closing,” New BQ… 

CLIPS 

Jesse reacts to Diddy documentary: Attack on men (9-min) YouTube | Rumble

Stop Thinking! No answers in thoughts! (9-min) YouTube | Rumble

‘Mama’ keep you a boy all your life! An aunt’s insanity… (22-min) YouTube | Rumble

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CHURCH NOTES 10/5/25 

📖 Prior Biblical Question: What does it mean to defend the faith?  

📖 New Biblical Question: The absence of darkness is light. The absence of evil is good. What does that mean?  

01 – People who have nice Indian hair… Welcome 

(0:00:00) Start: Small talk about black people wanting to be part Indian, and have “good hair.” 

(0:01:38) Welcome to Church! 

02 – Acting like Diddy did wrong all by himself! 

(0:02:00) JLP saw a documentary on Diddy. What about what the women did? 

(0:04:12) A man (perhaps Jason) says people go unconscious. JLP says when it’s concerning men, they don’t talk about “two sides” to a story. 

(0:05:49) “Mimi” speaks on “cancel culture” and shutting down speech. JLP: They didn’t have to participate in the documentary! 

(0:08:00) Another young lady says people can let their evil out when the crowd is with them. 

(0:08:42) One of the Asian guys on the documentary editing… (0:09:12) JLP mocks the crying of the women on-camera. … They should show both sides. You don’t HAVE to participate in the gossip about your former boss. 

(0:10:26) Vanessa: People want to take the heat off themselves. (0:11:08) JLP: Women are a mess! 

03 – Fake Power: Making someone cry? 

(0:11:21) JLP: Power. Wives, husbands, rich, poor — it’s all fake power. Everybody thinks they have it though. Human beings don’t have any power at all. Anyone has power? 

(0:12:22) Man: Authority over someone. “Power, love, and a sound mind.” 

(0:13:11) JLP … Anybody made a person cry? (0:13:37) “I felt guilty.” 

(0:14:18) Rachel: “I didn’t feel anything… they got fired and came to me crying about it.” (0:15:07) Did you feel you had power making your boyfriend cry? 

(0:16:36) Shayan: When my ex was leaving, she was crying, but I was relieved. 

04 – JLP: Politicians starting a war. Buying a car, mad at being cheated. 

(0:17:09) JLP: People feel like they have power when they make you cry. They get a thrill. Politicians starting a war. (0:18:39) It’s fake power — not real. Just a thrill. Notice that? (0:18:53) Mimi … 

(0:20:15) Rachel… buying a car, for example… feeling like I have/had power. I scared the finance guy. The rage coming from me: Being angry is a thrill. (0:22:41) Q for Rachel: Do you think of yourself as a blunt person while being blunt? (0:24:03) Q: Do you see all people are evil? Evil coming through women? What’s it like seeing that? “Relief…” See it in yourself? “Yeah, I just told you… It’s gross.” (0:25:38) Snaking me, speaking with a forked tongue. “It makes me pissed. Angry.” 

(0:26:14) JLP: You’re seeing with your eyes, but not seeing it — or you wouldn’t be angry. … You have to be able to see it while it’s happening. That way you won’t judge them. … You have to stop judging so you can become conscious. … It’s impossible to judge while you can see. “Somebody robbing you to your face, ‘That’s cool.’” 

(0:27:32) Colin: Anger doesn’t help. (0:27:59) JLP: “What da.” They can’t take advantage of you. … Rachel: “demons throwing fireballs at you…” JLP: If you get angry then you don’t see. You’re not seeing with clear eyes. … Don’t have a right to be angry. (0:32:10) Rachel … 

05 – A salesperson supposed to rip you off! … White talk… Anger, identity 

(0:32:59) JLP: A salesperson supposed to rip you off! 

(0:34:05) Man: The point of life isn’t to have as little stress/conflict… 

(0:35:29) JLP: Idk what you’re talking about! (0:35:51) Colin explains. 

(0:36:27) Have you overcome your anger? Uh-huh, all that white talk! (0:37:08) Why don’t you drop it? Man responds … JLP: Why don’t you drop your anger? (0:38:09) You were about to quote the Bible! … No, that was a question. “These are my good friends.” They’ve overcome anger. “Oh, they have?!” 

(0:41:10) The Devil quoting the Bible! 

(0:41:42) Give up your identity! Feedback: How? 

06 – She hasn’t given up her identity either. 

(0:43:07) Woman hasn’t given up her identity either. 

(0:43:40) You’re a woman! To the man. The woman: Are you evil? … Showcase personality… (0:46:01) Woman: I don’t know who I am. (0:47:13) Forgiven mother? No. All mothers are evil. How will you overcome her if you won’t forgive her? People pleasing, not wanting people to be angry. (0:48:46) You have to feel that way to overcome it. 

(0:49:46) You’re not supposed to tell Satan you’re coming! Shake in your boots while you’re dealing with her. Then you’ll realize fear is not real. 

(0:51:19) Her biological father died around 2017 before she knew of Jesse. Need to forgive stepfather … (0:52:05) Not asking for forgiveness. JLP: Human beings don’t forgive. Admit you’ve been judging, playing God.  (0:53:13) You’ll shake in your boots, because you’re facing the Devil. 

07 – What’s good about you? Aunt… 

(0:53:32) Are you evil? “Nnnnooo. I’m saved.” What’s good about you? “Jesus.” She wants to make things right with people. (0:54:32) She wasn’t talking with her nephew just months ago. “I love him.” No, you don’t! You got a big ego — you wanna control him! Why do you want him in your life? “I love people.” Where from? “The Holy Spirit!” Haha! Who are you? “Good question.” Why do you think you’re good if you don’t know who you are? 

(0:56:37) How is the Holy Spirit working through you? How are you obedient to God, and you’re evil? The Spirit said of yourself you can do nothing! Why would God say you can’t help yourself, but you can help people? 

(0:58:03) “He’s turned my life upside-down in the past five…” But you’re the same person! I see you. “What do you see?” The Devil! (0:58:46) … What’s good about you? 

(0:59:58) “I’m going through so much.” The hell in you is going through things. Is it possible to know God and go through things? You don’t know God. You know about him, but you don’t know Him. Ideas about God keep you away from knowing God. 

(1:01:05) Forgave mother before she died? “Father protected me.” How did you become like her? I’ll come back to you. 

08 – Black guy says his mother screamed at him 

(1:01:58) Black guy in the black jacket: Mother got angry, started screaming… She claimed she forgave his father, but didn’t want to see him again. 

(1:03:10) Why is the bitterness still there? Weight lifted. Forgave his father too. (1:03:40) JLP: Fathers leave the mothers — not the children. Mother’s Dominican. Oh, God! Those are the worst! (1:04:48) “I know I’m evil. I’m not gonna sit here and pretend like I’m not.” — JLP: Like that lady, huh? (LAUGHTER) … Blocked that person? Let it go. Want nothing more than the truth itself. 

(1:05:41) JLP: Not supposed to make a relationship work. (1:06:32) Feminine traits, wanna fill his masculinity role. 

09 – Backed off your husband? He’s afraid of hurting her feelings 

(1:06:48) How are you doing? Vanessa… Backed off your husband? “… Yes.” 

(1:07:46) Is that true? Husband… When I assert clearly, I guess it could be true, yeah. But still struggling with worrying about coming off as mean, insensitive… (1:08:59) Afraid of hurting her feelings. Beta! 

(1:09:58) JLP: How’s she gonna obey you when you’re acting like her? Not wanting to hurt her feelings… Why don’t you drop your anger? Prayer? Not consistently… (1:11:01) … Get rid of other family members? … Talking about them — “gossip.” 

(1:13:58) I thought you were gonna work on yourself! She looks so pitiful, she needs you now! Everything is bad. You’re not staying present. 

(1:15:40) I’m sorry, milk lady. Back to you in a minute. 

10 – False identities, Silent Prayer, Marines billboard 

(1:16:14) Man on how to overcome the false identities: Keep practice catching it, thoughts… Silent Prayer… 

(1:16:58) One of the earlier men to speak: Not praying morning and night. 

(1:18:15) Raymond to the gentleman… Marines billboard: We don’t take applications. Only commitments. 

11 – Insanity of your aunt 

(1:18:59) JLP asks the nephew about the insanity of his aunt. 

(1:19:55) He’s not done with me… (1:20:20) Leave her in her misery. “Oh, gosh.” How many times you been married? “Once.” Ran him off? “Yes…. [of her nephew: He and his brother are my kids].” For now, just suffer. OK!

12 – Obeying evil, haven’t forgiven yet. Back off of Gilbert! 

(1:21:21) Young lady’s friend Gilbert told her about Jesse’s show, 5 months or so. Inconsistent with Silent Prayer… Her mother died… (1:22:48) Don’t ask forgiveness. Hasn’t forgiven her father yet. 

13 – JLP: Stop thinking, consulting with thoughts … Feedback 

(1:24:04) JLP: Stop thinking… about what you know, what you need, how to fix your life. Every time you’re thinking, you’re consulting with the Devil.  There’s no you to consult with. 

(1:27:00) Demons, rats in the attack, living in the mind, playing a game on you. You feed the rats. (1:27:39) Afraid not to think, “identity.” The world doesn’t know that they’re psycho for reacting! 

(1:30:20) Love the world or God… Marriage to save yourself won’t work. Be alone inwardly… (1:31:40) Having fun but going home… There’s no you… 

(1:33:18) Feedback… Questions from a man… fear is an illusion. (1:34:46) There is no you! The fake life must die. You’re afraid to let it die. (1:35:47) Man: I was afraid forgiving my mother. Then it was over. Fear with other things? “I feel it still, but it’s not possessing me.” 

(1:36:35) Man says the Silent Prayer is powerful… His mother beat him the most among his siblings, she said. (1:38:30) Did you let them know you’d resented them? … Anger, revenge, jealousy, lust (1:39:09) JLP: Don’t try to control it. Don’t think about it. Don’t identify with it. Notice but don’t do anything. It’ll pass. 

(1:39:48) Man: People say they hear from God. 

14 – Stop judging. Two whoops and a holler… Epstein, Diddy 

(1:40:12) Jason, I think: Silent Prayer all day. Neighbors nag me about trees, etc. 

(1:41:28) JLP: Gotta stop thinking… Spirit of evil afraid not to think. Jason continues: Thoughts (1:42:25) JLP: every human being two whoops and a holler from being Jeffrey Dahmer, Diddy, the boy accused of shooting Charlie Kirk on the roof… 

(1:43:48) JLP: People who judge Epstein and Diddy… That’s what you do when you have money! (1:45:13) Jason: If you’re aware of yourself. Stop judging! God is not judging Diddy or anyone. You’d understand. 

(1:45:58) “Mimi” on the feelings. Crybaby. Where is the feeling, and what does it feel like? I couldn’t tell you: Illusion. 

(1:47:23) JLP: Don’t take on the identity: I know Jesus, I’m a conservative, etc… No heroes. (1:48:14) “I’m Charlie Kirk.” God wants to use YOU. Be you, be free. 

15 – Stop quoting the Bible. Aunt-nephew Argentinian affection 

(1:48:38) Stop thinking. Questions? The Aunt… I don’t think on purpose. It comes to me. It’s from the Devil. 

(1:49:42) You don’t know the Devil is a liar. (1:51:16) Can’t connect the concept…. The concordance… Exegete. Ain’t gonna work! 

(1:51:53) Aunt’s Q: Reading the Bible, God’s word, to know God better. (1:52:47) JLP: The word of God is in your heart. The intellect is evil. Don’t hold onto it. … Stop connecting dots. Of yourself you can do nothing. 

(1:53:40) Diego and the Silent Prayer… She kissed you! We’re Argentinian… (1:55:24) “I’m very affectionate with him.” You’re putting me on the spot. That’s unfortunate. 

(1:56:27) I thought he’d married an older woman! “You don’t understand the Argentinians.” Mama keep you a boy all your life. … Leave him alone! 

(1:57:46) Why y’all act like you’re married or dating. 

(1:58:12) Start working on yourself. Back off. He need to make you back off if you won’t. Emotions hurting, not helping you. Silent Prayer. Watch thoughts. 

16 – BQ, defending the faith? “Identifying with the light”? 

(1:58:45) “Mimi” on BQ (1:59:54) White male Christian… 

(2:01:05) How you doing? “I’m good.” No, you’re not. But how are you doing? … She asks about dealing with thoughts. Identifying with the light? What is the light shining through us? You can’t see the thoughts on your own. (2:04:27) Growing up in church, she was told her thoughts would change from selfish … Going to God to ask what to do? No… (2:05:48) Don’t flow, just live. 

(2:06:25) JLP: When you stop thinking, all desires will disappear. You’ll want for nothing. And yet you’ll own the world. (2:07:37) How do you know you know God? Not thinking I know Him. You cannot have any thoughts and ideas. … If you think you know God, you don’t know him. (2:08:44) Thoughts from the Devil to destroy you… (2:11:03) JLP: Stay with it no matter what. 

17 – Stop thinking… More with the husband … Closing

(2:11:19) JLP: Stop thinking. All thoughts are not from God. 

(2:13:24) We gotta end. JLP closing … 

(2:14:33) Oh, Biblical Question… 

REMINDERS / Assignments… 

1. 2025 theme/assignment: Practice being present. 
2. Never think about yourself again. (for 1 wk/mo, BQ/Women’s Forum Sep 18-21, 2025) 
3. Don’t overreact to your anger this weekend (JLP show Fri 8/29/25) 
4. Be nothing for three days. And on the third day, see if you rise. (Fri, July 25, 2025) 
5. Communicate with few words. (June 29, 2025, didn’t mention) 
6. Don’t agree or disagree with anyone. And see what happens. (June 2025) 
7. Quietly live with the hell in you (May/June 2025) 
8. Write down all the stabs you get (May 11-18, 2025) 
9. Be a single-minded person, not a double-minded person. (BQ/Women’s Forum Apr 13-27, 2025) 
10. Don’t judge with words, looks/eyes, gestures, emotions, or thoughts. (Oct 2024) 

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