Why Do You Love Whom or What You Hate? | Church 4/5/26

April 5, 2026 • jhake

Easter message: Christ’s salvation is about real love. Assignment: Resist anger. BQ: Why do you love whom or what you hate?

Church with Jesse Lee Peterson, Sunday, April 5, 2026

📝 Assignment: Resist anger.

📖 Biblical Question: Why do you love whom or what you hate?

📖 NEW Biblical Question: Do you know how to behave under pressure?

||  See clips, links, and notes below. 

TIMESTAMPS 

  • (0:00:00) - 00 - Small talk off-mic; Welcome
  • (0:01:55) - 1A - JLP: Christ’s Way: Salvation. Love. Go alone.
  • (0:11:20) - 1B - Easter: Die from the ego.
  • (0:19:15) - 1C - Small town ‘hero’ story: Thinking about what others think?
  • (0:27:20) - 1D - Be you. Choice: Suffer overcoming the ego, or… I love the pain of death
  • (0:33:40) - 1E - Nobody loves you! Be of love.
  • (0:36:40) - 2A - Assignment: Resist anger. Raymond
  • (0:40:50) - 2B - Iranians: It’s about you, not them
  • (0:46:25) - 3A - She got so mad, p—d off
  • (0:53:12) - 3B - “Too emotional…” More feedback for gal…
  • (0:58:22) - 3C - Opportunity to overcome ego: A crush is your god
  • (1:06:28) - 04 - Rolled her eyes at sick complaining husband
  • (1:13:26) - 5A - Update me on your spiritual life: Forget God
  • (1:15:17) - 5B - Spirit of my mom; Put nothing before seeking God. No crushes?
  • (1:20:30) - 06 - Who are you? Process of forgiving mother?
  • (1:29:45) - 7A - Girl, 12: People lying about me; Mother on my nerves
  • (1:34:20) - 7B - Believe in the Easter Bunny? Santa Claus?
  • (1:38:15) - 7C - Speak up but don’t be angry
  • (1:39:25) - 8A - BQ: Why love whom/what you hate?
  • (1:44:44) - 8B - Parked car totalled: BQ continued…
  • (1:48:28) - 8C - “Ye party.” BQ: Hassan, Young lady
  • (1:49:42) - 9A - BQ: Love-hate: “Who’s him?” The Devil? No free will?
  • (1:54:13) - 9B - Very lonely. I don’t have an opinion as much…
  • (1:59:11) - 10 - Back to BQ: Raymond…
  • (2:01:07) - 11 - On rumors, gossip: Don’t think about it. Santa, Easter Bunny
  • (2:05:33) - 12 - JLP on BQ: You love what you hate. It’s not love. Fake love, Real love…
  • (2:07:30) - 13 - New BQ, closing: Easter, Love, Peace

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CHURCH NOTES 4/5/26 

📖 Biblical Question: Why do you love whom or what you hate? 

📝 Assignment: Resist anger. 

📖 NEW Biblical Question: Do you know how to behave under pressure? 

00 - Small talk off-mic; Welcome 

(0:00:00) Start (0:01:18) Intro (0:01:32) Welcome (timestamps about 6-7 seconds behind) 

1A - JLP: Christ's Way: Love. No ego. Pray. Alone. 

(0:01:55) - BQ soon, but thinking about Christ… 

(0:02:55) Jesus was about treating one another right — spent time with drug addicts, homeless. (0:04:07) Y’all not guilty of that, right? Thinking you’re better? He pointed them back to Salvation. Rich young ruler guy… 

(0:05:11) - Salvation is about Love. Pray for one another. Don’t judge one another. People today think their needs already met. 

(0:05:59) - Overcome evil, the ego nature … (0:06:35) It’s painful trying to gain the world… Oh, Lord, need 5 bedrooms … (0:07:15) Always satisfied

(0:07:40) - Don't pray out of obligation 

(0:08:54) - You’re not gonna find God as long as you’re trying with someone else. You must do it alone. 

(0:10:07) - The more you do this, the left you wanna hang out with folks. 

1B - Easter 

(0:11:14) - On this Easter day, salvation is in you. It’s not outside. Last Supper. Crackers. 

(0:12:10) - Thieves on the cross … He didn’t “confess” belief he died on the cross… 

(0:13:25) - Everything the Father owns, we own too. If you go all the way… 

(0:14:55) - Help one another, don’t be a Karen Bass. It will happen naturally. You won’t think anything about it. Forgive, work on yourself, drop anger. God was all about love. Salvation, eternal life, about love. Everything is already there — you’ll have it, walking with God in the Light, staying present. Satan wants to blind you from the Light: past, future, what you have or don’t have. Spiritual battle. Be serious, but don’t trip. Stay on the path no matter what happens (and a lot will). Satan’s reminders, guilt, trembling you may find God. 

(0:16:46) - Satan will send people after you. Possessed, controlled by demons: Do not judge anyone for anything — lost children of God. Treat everyone with love: meaning, don’t hate. Speak up for yourself but don’t be angry. Ego pain? Pretty cool! Devil: “Hate them… they’re talking about you!” They can’t see. Don’t do it. They hurt one another because they’re blind. 

(0:18:13) - Husband-wife hate one another b/c they don’t have love to give. Human beings do not have love. Not an emotional love. Love is the Light, it’s perfect. 

(0:19:03) Evil, Devil in your mind… 

1C - Small town 'hero' story: Thinking about what others think 

(0:19:11) - Small town, story: everybody wanted to be a hero. Go into the woods and find your way back. Big brother went out into the woods for days, but found his way… got a hero jacket. Little brother tried, 18, 19, failed. Went to an even tougher job, but needed to be rescued. His ego busy, they let him do it again. Lost a third time. Parents and brother talking about him, brother laughed. That boy will never be worth anything. Mad, depressed, angry… 

(0:22:44) - A stranger came to town — had heard of the boy. Watch what happens when the heroes take their jackets off. 

(0:25:14) - Boy noticed they’re still angry when they take hero jackets off. But he still has pain over what people think about him. Pain? Stop thinking about it. (0:26:03) It’s what you’re thinking they’re thinking about you — never think what they’re thinking about you. Every problem is inside of you. 

1D - Choice: Suffer overcoming the ego, or… I love the pain of death 

(0:27:19) - Thinking about yourself and what others are thinking, you and the Devil are one. This is so sad, I could boohoo: I wanna be like someone else! Best at being you! Be you. It works better. You’d love it. 

(0:28:43) - Your choice: Overcome the pain of the ego, or suffer in the pain of trying to gain the world. Or suffer in the pain of overcoming the ego — you gonna suffer one way or another. Jesus said pick up your cross, your ego, and follow me, and love your neighbor as yourself. 

(0:30:33) - You can’t trust a human being today 

(0:31:33) - I LOVE the pain of death… Radio show in Oregon, in grief pain … didn’t know it was ego pain — I’d just fall on the couch. Hands up! I couldn’t breathe. Didn’t know I was listening to thoughts. Made it thru. 

1E - Nobody loves you! Be of love. 

(0:33:36) - Guy said: Everybody turning against me! True family… (0:34:21) - Nobody love you! (Laughter) You don’t listen to me talking! Woman: You don’t care about my feelings! 

Be of love: Salvation is about love. Alcoholic, drug addict, drag queen, transsexual, man or woman on the street. You may be able to help someone! But not if you judged them. They’re lost. Amazin’ 

(0:35:56) - Christ came to bring love. (0:36:12) - Love your enemies? You don’t love your enemies! He up there, lying! Playing. 

2A - Raymond on Assignment: Resist anger.  

(0:36:36) - Raymond, assignment — (0:37:41) became A BIT ANGRY from experience with relatives in shopping parking situation, irritated. Why did you take them to the mall? Why did you get angry? 15-20 mins. Why not learn your lesson never take them again, without getting angry? He felt responsible for 15-16 year-old young ladies. 

(0:39:08) - There’s never, ever a reason to be angry. Why didn’t you deal with it with love? 

2B - Iranians: It's about you, not them 

(0:40:45) - The man who doesn’t like the Iranian people… stubborn, penny pinchers… 

(0:43:19) - What gives you the right to be angry about them, about their attitude…? “There is no right, but there is a reason.” 

(0:44:29) - Call ICE! I was born here to legal parents… 

(0:44:51) - You don’t have a right … you’re not showing love. Who is worse? (0:45:51) - All right, thank you. The man’s story on “it’s too much.” You sound like a victim! Ain’t nothin’ worse than a victim! 

3A - Anger: plans, boundaries: Who are you? 

(0:46:18) - Young lady in the pink. Did not resist anger, got so mad: “Pissed off this week.” … I should’ve stuck with my original plan. 

(0:48:13) - Are you supposed to acknowledge your feelings? Another young lady advises… Anger is your body telling you your boundaries have been crossed, she says. See what the lesson was in the situation. A lesson, not a loss… (0:49:37) - Boundaries? Are you Rawhide? 

(0:50:39) - How do you set boundaries? (0:50:55) - Who are you? “What?” (0:52:23) - Where are you setting these boundaries? Experiences… (0:52:55) - Smoke on it! 

3B - "Too emotional…" More feedback for gal… 

(0:53:12) - Respond to the man who hates the Iranians: Too emotional. They can sense it, and take advantage of it. You cannot cheat or steal from a noble man. 

(0:54:23) - Jesse solicits more feedback for the young lady who changed her plans and got mad about it. 

(0:54:45) - Alex: Don’t make yourself too open for someone. I wouldn’t change my plans next time. 

(0:55:39) - The original lady: I think it’s a “me” problem. 

(0:56:31) - Her mother, Dolores: Sit in her hell, let go… Don’t drop your plans for someone else. Misunderstanding on where to go and what time… She’s in her hell… 

3C - Opportunity to crush ego: A crush is your god 

(0:58:22) - “I don’t like that answer” — JLP: Perfect opportunity to overcome the hell/ego in you. Ego crushed. Be glad for the pain from the ego. 

(1:00:19) - I have a crush on this person, my ego got in the way, pissed, got nachos, watching a movie… Nachos spicy, extra loaded. I knew it was wrong, trying to make myself feel better. I shoulda been going for my run. 

(1:00:58) - A crush on this person, that’s the problem. You make them your god. 

(1:02:21) - Abnormal, evil. “I should be so solid that nothing rocks my world.” When you overcome anger, nothing will ever rock your world. The whole universe will be yours. They couldn’t touch you… You gotta apologize… (1:03:50) - I’m not gonna say sorry to anyone anymore. What a proudful (sic) person. 

(1:04:27) - Let the crush go. You love what you hate. A crush is still an angry spirit. (1:04:49) - What, mom? Stop wanting to get some kind of feeling from him. Why you looking for a crush? “It just happened… just like spending time with him.” Amazin. That’s not true. 

(1:05:46) - Working on yourself? Idek anymore… “some days…” Why/not? You love your hell, huh? “...I guess…” Suffer till you’re ready. Stay with it. 

04 - Rolled her eyes at complaining sick husband 

(1:06:28) - Dolores, during silent prayer: spirit of complaining, evil… Husband got sick this week, nonstop complaining 36 hrs: Did I bring that on myself? Rolled my eyes 5-6x. She asked why she’s bothered with his complaining. “It was a cough.” 

(1:08:56) - Why was I so bothered with the complaining? JLP: You judged him. In all situations, show love. Ignore it; it’s not them. Whatever’s happening with them is happening to them — not to you. The Devil wants a reaction. 

(1:11:56) - My husband still wants something from me. I gave a truthful response, and saw him go through a painful moment — JLP: the Devil in his eyes, “what a heifer!” 

(1:13:00) - He hate his mama and he hate you. Every man marries his mama. 

5A - Update me on your spiritual life: Forget God 

(1:13:26) - Update me on your spiritual life: Anthony’s wife Kat (sp?) — still have anger, but able to get myself in the middle of it, and wind it back… (1:14:26) - Struggle with the Silent Prayer? What is it like to forget God? 

5B - Spirit of my mom; Put nothing before seeking God. No crushes? 

(1:15:17) - Anthony’s daughter Cheyenne (sp): Fighting the spirit of my mom… I see her selfishness in me, absolutely. 

Silent Prayers getting shorter… (1:16:17) - Used to sit longer when I worked less, but now that I socialize more, prayer getting shorter… You making your own bed! What da! (1:16:52) - Put nothing before seeking what’s right first. 

(1:17:48) - No crushes? Oh good. “I say no too much.” Why too much? (1:18:30) - Breaking news, only bad people come together. 

(1:18:52) - How do you deal with your mother now? Wanting something from me… Hard to see it, fighting wanting to educate her, or come closer and “love her cuz she’s mama.” Tryna be conscious and not say anything… 

06 - Who are you? Process of forgiving mother? 

(1:20:30) - Did you find out who you are yet? Young lady in white… (next to Hassan) “I still don’t know…” 

(1:21:29) Great question / development 

(1:21:48) Another great question / development 

(1:22:30) Forgiven mother? 

(1:25:53) - Triggers my ego. Why do you call that you? Why not say, I’ve been resenting you? I realize I’m wrong for judging! Shaking in your boots, in fear, do it anyway. God said, Come as you are… Why not go trembling…? “I’ve tried.” What did you say to her? “She stonewalls…” What did you say to her? However she reacts, don’t react to her reaction, she loves her hell. 

(1:28:10) - Want me to go with you? Take Hassan with you! Won’t be untriggered until you forgive. She has a right to stay in her hell… you’re fighting for your own life. Forgiven father for not protecting you from her? “Um… I think so.” Tell him? “He passed away when I was younger.” (1:29:31) - Again, want me to go with you? 

7A - Girl, 12: People lying about me; Mother on my nerves 

(1:29:45) - Daisy, 12, AMAZIN’! Anger? Yes. I don't like people lying about me… With her brother… Brother says, “Ignore them…” but it doesn’t work. Mother get on your nerves too? “I just go to my room.” When you tell your father… he doesn’t help. “He just helps my mom…. I feel like he’s just gonna defend her.” JLP: If he doesn’t, tell her, You’re a beta! 

(1:32:19) - Does the brother help? … Never get angry again. 

7B - Believe in the Easter Bunny? Santa Claus? 

(1:34:20) - Quick question: Do you believe in the Easter Bunny? You like Eggs? “Yeah.” I rest my case. Santa Claus doesn’t come down your chimley? Who told you there was no Santa? I just found out. How? 

(1:36:18) - He’s white. No black Santa, no Mexican Santa… Make sense? “No.” You missing out on fun! 

7C - Speak up but don't be angry 

(1:38:15) - Don’t argue, mothers… Brother’s amazing, huh? “Here and there.” Get on your nerves too? 

8A - BQ: Love whom/what you hate 

(1:39:25) - Young man (the guy who makes flan) on Biblical Question 

(1:41:18) - Young lady, yell at me the way you yell at your bf… JLP: “They come to church, they sound all sweet.” (1:42:12) - Do you love-hate your boyfriend? He’s saying yes. Why? 

8B - Parked car totalled 

(1:44:44) - His parked car (rental) totalled during Men’s Forum. Quentin (sp) 

(1:46:41) - He answers BQ — 📖 Biblical Question: Why do you love whom or what you hate? 

8C - "Ye party." BQ: Hassan

(1:48:28) - Hassan… Y’all missed the Ye party. Don’t be jealous! I don’t need no friends, I got Ye! Hass on BQ, concept of love is distorted 

9A - BQ: Love-hate: "Who's him?" The Devil? No free will? 

(1:49:42) - … Young lady, second time… Do you love-hate what you… love? (Laughter) 

(1:50:58) - Her question: Is the Devil real? Light or absence of light. If my mind… The Devil is real… 

(1:52:24) - We don’t have will because…? Either light or dark nature? 

9B - Very lonely. I don’t have an opinion as much… 

(1:54:13) - I’m working on myself, and it’s very lonely. Everything will fall away. Everything. Going through what? All family turned on me. Lonely journey, I want it to end. (1:55:20) - Loneliness, I live in Virginia. I don’t talk as much. I don’t have an opinion as much. I need reprieve sometimes. I shouldn’t have to come here. All I do is work, eat, sleep, 365 days, 24 hours in a day. “Idk what I want.” Exhausting, it can be. 

(1:57:01) - Who want it to be over? Thoughts. Devil. “...Nobody loves me, and I don’t love nobody… I want this to be over!” The Devil wants you to stop. “I gotta go to BOND if I wanna play with somebody.” I’ve been through that. 

(1:58:14) - I went to the beach just to go cry. It’s not happening to you. 

10 - Back to BQ: Raymond… 

(1:59:11) - Raymond on BQ: I always hurt the ones I love. Ego addiction… 

(2:00:02) - Another man on BQ: You become what you hate — I know that’s true. Emulate … Why don’t you stop? (2:00:56) - Anchorage near where Santa lives 

11 - On rumors, gossip: Don't think about it, don't listen. Santa, Easter Bunny 

(2:01:07) - JLP to the 12yo — on people talking about her. Don’t think about it. 

(2:02:31) - Also to the young man on rumors and gossip — tell them you don’t wanna hear it. Santa? Rabbit Easter eggs? (2:04:01) - What do you do for fun? 

(2:04:32) - Do you believe in Santa? Your parents are abusive! Little girl, the boy’s sister. “I just don’t believe in him.” 

12 - JLP on BQ: You love what you hate. It's not love. Fake love, Real love… 

(2:05:33) - JLP on BQ: You love what you hate. Real love only comes from above. 

(2:06:57) - You don’t want a life of expectations 

13 - New BQ, Closing: Easter, Love, Peace 

(2:07:30) - New BQ: Do you know how to behave under pressure?

(2:08:26) Closing: Easter, Love … 

(2:09:20) - Are you at peace? Hake was not at peace. 

REMINDERS / Assignments… 

       2026 Theme: Endurance (since Church 1/4/26)     

       2026 Assignment: Be a doormat. (since Church 12/28/25)     

       Rise to the 3rd, 30th, 50th or 100th floor, out of the basement (Church 2/15/26)     

       Resist anger. (Church 3/29/26)     

       Don't think about you at all this week. (Church 3/8/26)     

       Keep your mind where your body is, for one week. (After Church 3/1/26)     

       Next time you cry, check yourself. (Church 3/1/26)     

       Watch the Devil in you. (Church 2/1/26)     

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